Masturbation after seperation ????
Here is my dilemna. I have been seperated from my Husband for going to 6 months now, his idea after he had been cheating on me for all of the 10 yrs we were married and me forgiving him and hoping it would all get better. In 2012 we had sex 'once', he refused all my advances and was just not intersted.
When he said we should seperate I was hurt and went through a tough time for some time, then I found my strength and realised he had set me free from what could have been a lifetime of abuse. I am so optimistics about life all of a sudden. Problem is my sexual drive has come back, after all those years of repressing my sexuality because the one person i was supposed to be sleeping with wouldnt have me.
I wont sleep with anyone still, but have discovered masturbation as a way of release. I do want to get married and not burn with lust but I couldnt make a rush decision concerning marriage even if I had met someone.