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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-16-2013, 05:06 PM
Replies: 69
Views: 3,097
Posted By TDSC60
Re: In bad need of help

If your State of county has property taxes, go to that website and it should have the property owners name listed. The next problem will be to find them since they obviously do not live there.

BTW...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-16-2013, 04:59 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 1,449
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Wifes EA, Possible PA, How to Move Forward

If you have a gut feeling that it went physical, it probably did.

Check the phone records. Some companies can provide you with dates, times, and the address sent to, for texts.

Match up the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-16-2013, 04:16 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,674
Posted By TDSC60
Re: She cheated

Sounds like she has already had a second and third chance. Give her another if that is what you need for you own peace of mind. But give it time. I would not even think about marriage with this woman...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-14-2013, 05:41 PM
Replies: 267
Views: 10,822
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Trying to save what's left

I did not intend to blast anyone.

But to use the word "mistake" when any aspect of cheating is involved is a real trigger for me.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-14-2013, 05:37 PM
Replies: 267
Views: 10,822
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Trying to save what's left

A mistake is taking a left instead of a right turn. A mistake is picking up the wrong item at a store.

A mistake is an action taken without understanding that it is wrong or their are undesirable...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-14-2013, 05:22 PM
Replies: 267
Views: 10,822
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Trying to save what's left

I agree.

The only time it truly does matter is around April 15.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-13-2013, 11:26 AM
Replies: 113
Views: 4,639
Posted By TDSC60
Re: 3 Months into Reconciliation

If you were not her husband and you found out all the crap she has been doing to her husband for the last 5 years - would you consider marrying her?

You never had a marriage. She has been cheating...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-10-2013, 10:45 AM
Replies: 86
Views: 6,286
Posted By TDSC60
Re: How to get this guy away from my wife???

Sorry to say this but Chris is not the problem. If your wife is in the "cheating" mind set she will find another man even if Chris is out of the picture. Do not think that things will go back to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-10-2013, 10:34 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 418
Posted By TDSC60
Re: How does someone tell when both parties are "truly" in for the Reconciliation?

Your wife is not committed to R. She is trying to control the situation and giving you little of what you need.

You know what has to happen now.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-10-2013, 10:24 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,191
Posted By TDSC60
Re: 'Friend' texted inappropriately, hubby read it, now 'friend' won't speak to me!

So you text the other man to let him know that your husband was sending him text from your phone pretending to be you. At that moment you chose to be faithful to the other man and your "friendship"...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-09-2013, 10:42 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,910
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Do cheaters keep cheating?

I don't agree with "Once a cheater - always a cheater".

Every person is different. Every situation is different. Every marriage/relationship is different.

Will a proven cheater do it again -...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-03-2013, 05:03 PM
Replies: 233
Views: 13,003
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Its Finally Sinking In......

I was raised the same way and I totally agree. But when a woman shows me disrespect and dishonesty I have no problem cutting them out of my life as much as possible.

Being a "gentleman" does not...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-30-2013, 08:01 AM
Replies: 72
Views: 3,660
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Help wife and I

If this guy is also in her home town, it was more than texting and pictures. She had ample opportunities over 4 days to meet with him and probably did so. You have not gotten the entire truth yet.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-29-2013, 03:44 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 33,362
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Wife is having an EA and sending Pics....Please Help!

YES! YES! AND YES!

Until and after the papers are served.

Do not contact her unless it is needed for the divorce.

Do not respond to her attempts to contact you.

Why do people find it so...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-29-2013, 07:16 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 960
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Dreamt of cheating last night

So does the young guy who has targeted you know about your fiance's problems? Have you confided in anyone at work about your frustrations with this?

If you have, you painted a target on your back...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-14-2013, 01:24 PM
Replies: 1,815
Views: 108,927
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Third strike?

Do you think your wife WANTS to renew this friendship down the road? Do you think she sees this as a possibility? If she does she is not 100% into R with you.

If you think your wife is 100% into...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-09-2013, 08:23 PM
Replies: 752
Views: 67,690
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Found out about Wife's affair through the other man.

She has been lying to your face the whole time. Telling you she is going over a girl friends house for a movie and video games then going to f&ck the OM.

She has been lying to you and about you to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-03-2013, 06:38 PM
Replies: 289
Views: 14,414
Posted By TDSC60
Re: EA, at least, and my anxiety won't let go

EA for sure.

The time that she went out with the "gal" friend after work and the texting dropped off for a few hours only to resume latter that night - you know that she was with him - right? The...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-30-2013, 11:09 AM
Replies: 143
Views: 7,471
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Divorcing, Wife moved on to OM already

Take care of you and your children. She has chosen her path and there appears to be nothing you can do to change it.

Plan your life without her. Do not get consumed with trying to understand why...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-29-2013, 11:03 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 872
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Opinion: Affair or not?

Secret texting, lying, hiding the extent of communication. Yep - affair.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-29-2013, 10:59 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 873
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Trying to make it right....

You have been through a lot in two years of marriage. But I have to say that your decision to have an affair was an indication that you are not in love with your husband and you have no respect for...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-29-2013, 10:50 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,729
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Her Online Game - iPhone Kingdom of Camelot and Touch

You are making provisions for support of your children I hope. But it appears you have dodged a huge bullet by not marrying the mother.

I have no idea if this has any value or credibility, but I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-27-2013, 08:24 PM
Replies: 270
Views: 12,321
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Trying to stop my wifes affair an save my marriage

DO NOT SECOND GUESS TELLING THE TRUTH.

She put you in a position where you had to make a choice. Lie to them and protect her cheating lifestyle or tell the truth. It is her fault - all of it.
...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-27-2013, 04:19 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,733
Posted By TDSC60
Re: My Wife had sex with her baby father

He had made romantic passes at her before and she hid it from you. She still decided to spend the night in the house he lives in. It does not take a genius to predict what was going to happen.

Man...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-23-2013, 06:42 PM
Replies: 242
Views: 11,503
Posted By TDSC60
Re: Contacted by exwife for dinner. Yes? No? HELP

OK don't ignore it. Tell her you are not interested.

You really need to cut all ties with her. Get her out of your mind.

Nothing good for you will come of this. She lied before and during your...
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