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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 12-20-2012, 12:26 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,179
Posted By frootloop
Re: Any straight up input woud be appreciated.

I make a decent income myself - since my divorce a few years back, I've dated a few women who clearly (to me) basically wanted a piece of that for themselves. It's tough not to get sucked into that...
Forum: Life After Divorce 12-19-2012, 05:40 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,301
Posted By frootloop
Re: did anyone here reach an agreement outside of court? looking for advice

The separation date was significant in my divorce. Things were computed based off that in some cases.

I'm not a lawyer, but I'd bet you won't have much trouble with his debts that are not in...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 12-16-2012, 01:35 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 1,881
Posted By frootloop
Re: So a few questions, guys opinion preferred

I would like 3x a week, if I was 32 again, likely more like 4x or 5x.

13 hrs x 6 is a lot of work time, if it stressful work, that could be a huge problem - it is easy to get way too wrapped up in...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-15-2012, 04:23 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 467
Posted By frootloop
Re: The Engagement Ring Debacle.

Fake is an ugly word. There are many more affordable stones - white sapphire, etc. Google it.

Tell him diamonds have blood on them, and you don't want that. Even if your specific diamond isn't...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-27-2012, 12:36 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,899
Posted By frootloop
Re: How do I get my husband to step up financially

Wolfman, I totally see where you are coming from, my ex-wife also unilaterally decided not to work, constantly put off looking for jobs, etc.

However, unlike greekgirl, we *could* actually have...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 11-05-2012, 10:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 621
Posted By frootloop
Re: Know it all to be x-wife

My XW took a "burn it down" mentality during our divorce, she would waste money running things thru her lawyers, who ran it past my lawyers, etc. Making some simple request into a multi-hundred...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 11-05-2012, 12:56 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 3,399
Posted By frootloop
Re: Husbands would this offend you?

^^ This.

I think even if I started out uninterested, having this going on next to me in bed would change my tune fast. :)
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 11-04-2012, 03:33 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 4,410
Posted By frootloop
Re: homeschooling makes me sad... confused

I doubt they push it, but the Catholic church's stance (via the pope) is that evolution is not incompatible with Christianity, and has been since 1950.

More recently, from Wikipedia...
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 11-04-2012, 11:00 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 3,344
Posted By frootloop
Re: What's your money personality?

I think of myself as a "Dragon" (builder), stockpiling wealth for its own sake (think pile of gold the dragon jealously guards).

Life is a game, and money is the score. :)
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 11-03-2012, 12:14 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 651
Posted By frootloop
Re: Cialis or Viagra?

I like Cialis - it stays active longer. I found Viagra's side effects seemed more extreme to me (face flushed, causes congestion).
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 11-03-2012, 10:37 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 3,202
Posted By frootloop
Re: She makes me cry.

You need to tell the warden you're done.

To be frank, you are being such a doormat, I doubt you'll be able to repair this - she is crazy, but you need IC to figure out why you allowed this...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-24-2012, 06:46 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,544
Posted By frootloop
Re: Advice on leaving conversations gracefully...

Wow. You must be a saint if you can stand listening to someone complain for that length of time.

Sorry, I don't really have any additional advice to add, I'd already be gone, or in jail for...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 10-24-2012, 03:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 425
Posted By frootloop
Re: Now or Later?

The sooner the better - no point putting it off, it will be better for you both to get it started. You can each do the holidays with your own families individually, but that scarcely matters in the...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 10-21-2012, 08:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 970
Posted By frootloop
Re: How long after separation before dating?

I use meet up.com as well, its a good site to meet more people with similar interests.

As for the OP's question, I dated during separation, but made it clear I wasn't divorced yet, and likely...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-21-2012, 01:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 363
Posted By frootloop
Re: I need someone excellent with mac computers

If you also have admin permission on the machine, you can enable a "root" account that will be able to see all their files - google it to find out how.

You can own any machine you have physical...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-20-2012, 11:08 PM
Replies: 211
Views: 8,744
Posted By frootloop
Re: Cheaters are going to cheat..... unless

My ex-wife was a NPD and a serial cheater - I never cheated. While bishop's posting's trigger me, I still appreciate them - unlike a more serious NPD case, bishop has a shred of a conscience, and is...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-20-2012, 09:57 AM
Replies: 118
Views: 7,066
Posted By frootloop
Re: Fetish.

Try Advanced Search next time:

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/social-spot/46475-shoe-show.html
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-15-2012, 05:31 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,939
Posted By frootloop
Re: Is it possible for a Serial Cheater/ Narcissist to change his stripes?

Thanks for sharing this. Having been married to a Narcissist woman for a few years, I found this interesting.
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 10-08-2012, 11:58 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 3,356
Posted By frootloop
Re: One year of marital hell!

No kids? Then pull the trigger.

You are too young to consider settling.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-07-2012, 08:22 PM
Replies: 241
Views: 9,458
Posted By frootloop
Re: Why does weight only seem to be an issue if it's the woman who's overweight?

I've just selected my next vacation destination. :)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-07-2012, 05:12 PM
Replies: 459
Views: 11,058
Posted By frootloop
Re: Why I think the Alpha/Beta thing is flawed

I think perhaps you are taking the Alpha/Beta thing a little too personally? Its basically a bit of psychology - of course its not infallible nor does apply in every single situation.

As far as...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 10-07-2012, 02:34 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,120
Posted By frootloop
Re: Opinions?

Well, personally I'd cross him off my "friend" list. When the wife and I split we agreed to divide up the friends like the rest of the property. :)
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-02-2012, 09:20 PM
Replies: 241
Views: 9,458
Posted By frootloop
Re: Why does weight only seem to be an issue if it's the woman who's overweight?

10 to 1! Where is that, precisely? :)

I live in the South SF Bay, near San Jose, and the high-tech industry pulls in the guys - I'd say its 1:3 here, and I have noticed a larger difference in sex...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 10-02-2012, 07:57 PM
Replies: 86
Views: 3,788
Posted By frootloop
Re: Am I Anti-Social or are most Men like me

I also have very few close friends, and would like to make more. The friends from my youth are all far away - they are connected to me on FaceBook, but we *never* talk unless I run into them when I'm...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 09-30-2012, 07:27 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 698
Posted By frootloop
Re: Am I in the wrong?

So, in addition to his other stellar traits he is also a liar...
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