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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-22-2012, 07:32 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,738
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Cheated on pregnant girlfriend (sort of long story)

Falene - No doubt it will bite me in the ass, I know I cant avoid it forever. I think our parents would say the same things (should they find out about what she did) even if the baby is born. The...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2012, 10:40 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,738
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Cheated on pregnant girlfriend (sort of long story)

PBear - We are not married. We have been dating for 2 years (I have known her for 7 years). I dont plan for this affair to continue, XX and I know its just a fling but we might as well enjoy it while...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2012, 09:10 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,738
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Cheated on pregnant girlfriend (sort of long story)

I care for her a lot and what she did was terrible to me but ,after thinking about it, I am really only staying for the baby. I know what its like to grow up in a single parent home and it sucks not...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2012, 07:38 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,738
Posted By asylumspadez
Cheated on pregnant girlfriend (sort of long story)

I have another post found here:
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/family-parenting-forums/39522-my-girlfriends-baby-talks-come-back-haunt-me.html

To sum it up quick. My girlfriend became obsessed with...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2012, 02:12 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,020
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Are the ANY acceptable lies after EA?

I would seriously question how bad she wants to be with you if she is constantly lying to you about the smallest things. Try calling her out on it, Confront her and see how she reacts to being called...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 02-20-2012, 10:03 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 3,425
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: My girlfriend's baby talks come back to haunt me

Little update for you all:
She started IC yesterday. It went rather well (acording to her) but I am going to wait a few weeks in order to see how effective it really is. She is going to IC 3 days a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-20-2012, 07:19 AM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,848
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: 7 year itch has bitten me twice

If they both cheated then you either need to change your taste in women or you need to go to IC and talk about any problems that you have that are effecting these relationships (nobody's perfect).
...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-19-2012, 05:09 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,467
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Please help me......

I dont think she ever loved you. She got pregnant by some loser who wants nothing to do with her and who did she crawl back to? You, the only person who actually cares about her. You spent the next 4...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-19-2012, 12:43 PM
Replies: 69
Views: 5,833
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Don't Know what to do ?????

Look at it this way - You were together for about 3 years when she sent this email. It proves how much she values those years when she told her best friend that she would drop you in a minute. You...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-19-2012, 12:32 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,150
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: I need help.

Sorry to be the prick on this thread but I really hate it when you claim to love your husband yet you cheated on him. I find it stupid for you to say that because cheating is the opposite of love....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-19-2012, 12:25 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,398
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Help, affair or not????

Well besides short and occassional calls/texts, You really have no proof that they are even in that sort of relationship. So try not to go too overboard with this because you will feel like trash if...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-18-2012, 05:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 607
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: My insecurity

Your wife went outside of your marriage and had an EA with someone and it was very recent too, I think its understandable for you to feel this way. Also after I read your story, I feel that there is...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 02-16-2012, 11:16 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 670
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Honor or Happiness?

Your wife is a bad person, Simple as that. She is a control freak, Wants you to do everything (such as changing how you are, so on so forth) while she does nothing in return. Wanna know how to solve...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-15-2012, 02:04 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,163
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: I'd appreciate some views..

She cheated on you multiple times with multiple people (its never just one time). If she loved you then she would not have done that. You gave her a second chance and she blew it. File for divorce...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 02-14-2012, 08:01 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,237
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: "I don't feel that way"

Stop supporting her (giving her your money). She has made the grown up decision to give up your marriage without even trying to save it. She is destroying the life you have lived for years as well as...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-14-2012, 05:54 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,657
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: forsaking all others....

It takes a long time to come back from an affair and even then, You will always second guess her and guess what? That is her problem and not your's. She needs to prove to you every day that she is...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-14-2012, 05:38 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,234
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: I let myself down by having expectations

It takes a long time to come back after an affair. You need to keep doing what you are doing and keep trying to rebuild the trust between the two of you. Its not something you can just get over,...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 02-14-2012, 01:31 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 727
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Married 6 years, now there's no connection

You two got married while your relationship was still young and its now coming back to bite you in the ass. Both of you ,imo, need to make changes. You need to be more accepting of your step-son, Try...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 02-14-2012, 01:26 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,518
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: I think I want to divorce my deployed husband (long)

And this is what happens when you are stupid and married young. You were star stuck with him at first and now you realize that what you thought he was is the exact opposite of what he really is. Stop...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 02-14-2012, 01:21 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 6,068
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: It's gonna break his heart

You are both at fault for your marriage problems. You are at fault for putting up with the problems he caused and he is at fault for causing these problems. You need to sit down with him ,no more BS,...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-12-2012, 08:39 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,133
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Wife and her ex

Install a keylogger for safety though, Just to make sure she isnt contacting him.
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 02-12-2012, 08:24 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 3,425
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: My girlfriend's baby talks come back to haunt me

Its been a few days since my last post so I thought Id give you all a minor update. Things have been average as of late. We talk a lot more at night (not just about the baby but numerous things). We...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-12-2012, 08:13 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,133
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Wife and her ex

The red flags here:
1. She maintained her "friendship" with him through out your entire relationship. This proves that she has not gotten over him.

2. She never told her ex she was married. Its...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 02-12-2012, 12:02 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 538
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Pregnant and his son and family hates me

1 - Please at least attempt to spell properly. Not trying to be an ass but there are many errors and its annoying having to figure out what you mean instead of what you typed.

For your boyfriend's...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-09-2012, 01:55 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,045
Posted By asylumspadez
Re: Husband masturbating with men online

I went through that phase as well. When my sex life died down, I got heavily into porn and started to cam with others (including men) as well. I would say definently that your husband is bi-curious...
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