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Forum: Relationships and Addiction Today, 10:16 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 871
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Critique of 'Your Brain On Porn'

I think that substance dependancy is well proven. In fact I believe there is a genetic component, at least to alcohol addiction. The negative health effects of excess consumption are clear. This...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Today, 09:14 AM
Replies: 993
Views: 85,081
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

Good luck dude. I hope things turn out as well as is possible.
Forum: Relationships and Addiction Today, 09:08 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 871
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Critique of 'Your Brain On Porn'

Exactly.

By saying 'I have porn addiction' or like Tiger Woods 'I have sex addiction' everybody gets off lightly. Poor Tiger has 'sex addiction' it's an illness, it's not his fault.

The...
Forum: Relationships and Addiction Yesterday, 02:36 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 871
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Critique of 'Your Brain On Porn'

That is exactly why 'porn addiction' is such a bad idea. Blaming the porn instead of dealing with the real issues will only prolong the unhappiness. Treating the symptom and ignoring the cause is a...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-17-2013, 04:46 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,104
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: It’s not his daughter

Ignore your friends. They are probably jealous.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-17-2013, 11:19 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,104
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: It’s not his daughter

His ex-wife would be just as likely to come back into his life if it was his biological daughter. Everything that you first thought about him being a good father etc is even more valid if he is...
Forum: Relationships and Addiction 05-17-2013, 06:53 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 871
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Critique of 'Your Brain On Porn'

So, despite the DSM-V being citised for 'diagnostic inflation', having
included Skin-Picking Disorder, Binge Eating Disorder, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder and Hoarding Disorder, it has,...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-15-2013, 09:28 AM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

Lying and neglect are unhealthy, whether it is about porn or any other activity. I do sympathise with people who hide their habits, though, when you see how so many people react to viewing porn.
...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-13-2013, 03:22 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

Nice try. Iceland is 'thinking about' banning violent porn, not porn altogether. I wholeheartedly agree with the banning of violent porn.

"This initiative is about narrowing the definition of...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-13-2013, 09:23 AM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

This may be an alien concept to you, but I respect the right of any adult to govern his or her own fantasy life, within legal limits. If these men feel that porn has negatively impacted their...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-12-2013, 01:06 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 937
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Question for the men

I would be worried if she didn't. I want to be married to a flesh and blood woman, not some sexually inert Stepford Wife-type.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-11-2013, 05:00 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 1,213
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Men & hygiene

I shower every day, but in the morning. I wouldn't shower in the evening, but if a little action is on the cards I usually have a quick wash.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-11-2013, 02:14 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 899
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: He gave me high-risk HPV, now I don't wanna have sex!

I don't think it is possible to to go from an HPV infection to having pre-c cells in such a short time. I could be wrong, but I thought it took years.

I think that you probably had this...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-10-2013, 04:49 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,414
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Is Anal Commonplace Nowadays?

I have found TAM to be one of the most conservative forums I have been on.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-10-2013, 04:43 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 899
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: He gave me high-risk HPV, now I don't wanna have sex!

My understanding of High-risk HPV was that you could have it for up to 20 years before developing pre-cancerous cells. Are you sure it was him? As so many of us have this virus the fact that his...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-10-2013, 12:37 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,414
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: Is Anal Commonplace Nowadays?

My wife likes it, and so do I, but once or twice I have thought I was doing anal when in fact I was doing PIV, so it can't be that different.

I think I remember reading that about 40% of women...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-10-2013, 12:29 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,444
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: wife watching porn

That is one of the funniest things I have ever heard.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-10-2013, 05:29 AM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

Firstly, I am not talking about just the US. The rise of porn availability in Eastern and Southern Europe coincided with an unprecedented rise in women's rights. In the US since the 1980s,...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-09-2013, 02:08 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

There is no 'despite' about it. If 'A' causes 'B' then it follows that a rise in 'A' will cause a rise in 'B'. There is no denying that unless you deny the law of cause and effect. The fact that...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-08-2013, 02:47 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

I'm glad that you are finally being honest about your objection to porn; a moral objection. My guess is that you are religious, probably evangelical or non-denominational Christian of some kind,...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-08-2013, 02:39 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

I am posting this again in response to recurrent myth:

University of Utah - Divorce - www.divorce.usu.edu (http://www.divorce.usu.edu)

Researchers have identified the most common reasons people...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-08-2013, 02:22 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

If you can't get over your hang up about porn for your marriage it obviously means more to you than your spouse, That says it all really.

Demands should only be met in a marriage if they are...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-08-2013, 02:18 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

The studies I quoted had large statistical samples and several of them were done across four countries and three continents. Four of them were based on national rape statistics, not self-perception...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-08-2013, 01:59 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

People who hate porn are not going to be objective about it. You are essentially saying that half the population, and 70% of the men are not objective. That doesn't strike you as slightly arrogant?
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-08-2013, 01:17 AM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,443
Posted By johnnycomelately
Re: My husband looks at porn....

A new University of Central Florida study has found that people in committed relationships who view pornographic materials are more likely to cheat on their partners than those who don’t.

The...
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