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Forum: Reconciliation Today, 12:28 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 13,053
Posted By This is me
Re: My Husband is home!

That is so true!! I find myself in negativeland more times than I would like and have to really make an effort to count my blessings. When I do look at the positives everything else falls into place...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-20-2013, 01:37 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 13,053
Posted By This is me
Re: My Husband is home!

Daisy,

I am so sorry to hear you are struggling. You have had many positive posts over the past several months and you have been one of my favorites to follow.

I am not a fan of prescriptions...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-17-2013, 08:02 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 15,642
Posted By This is me
Re: She is moving back home....

Just an update. Things have never been better. Love is strong, romance is great and wishing all that want to reconcile the best days ahead!
Forum: Reconciliation 05-17-2013, 07:58 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 194
Posted By This is me
Re: If my heart has hardened..How do I heal it ?

The only clear thing that comes to mind is prayer and faith.

I fall in and out of being a faithful prayerful person, but when I reflect on my life, I think I am the kindest warmest and have the...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-17-2013, 07:51 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 415
Posted By This is me
Re: How do I win my wifes heart back!

After a couple of years of a similar situation, in hindsite what she was going through was a Mid Life Crisis.

We nearly divorced but it was very clear to me the woman I had been married to for 17...
Forum: Reconciliation 04-13-2013, 04:13 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 855
Posted By This is me
Re: To contact or not?

The contact thing is a balancing act. If the spouse is disgruntled and looking for space you need to give it as best you can. When my Wife left, I did the 180 to strengthen myself and show some...
Forum: Reconciliation 04-13-2013, 04:06 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 670
Posted By This is me
Re: Learning to be Patient

Patience is the key. Learning the 180 even if things are improving and using some of the points helps. At least it worked for me. A good pro marriage counselor helped us also.

Best wishes!
Forum: Reconciliation 03-27-2013, 06:36 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 13,053
Posted By This is me
Re: My Husband is home!

DG,

So happy for you. I think we approached our sad situations in some similar ways. The fog takes a special patience and you got it.

All the best to you!
Forum: Reconciliation 03-10-2013, 10:14 AM
Replies: 109
Views: 15,642
Posted By This is me
Re: She is moving back home....

My marriage is better than ever. Thanks to those who have had interest and best wishes to all that truly want to reconcile as this area is set up for working through.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-03-2013, 10:12 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 354
Posted By This is me
Ever been banned for pointing out a moderator should move a story to another section

I did.

Lost some respect for TAM with that power play.
Forum: Reconciliation 03-03-2013, 10:08 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 616
Posted By This is me
Re: One positive section on TAM

I thought the key phrase was the whole phrase including... focused on reconciliation and success stories from people who have been through separation and reconciled successfully.

Might as well...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-25-2013, 07:37 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 616
Posted By This is me
Re: One positive section on TAM

Reconciliation This forum is for those focused on reconciliation and success stories from people who have been through separation and reconciled successfully.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-25-2013, 12:16 PM
Replies: 1,247
Views: 65,760
Posted By This is me
Re: Wife's Midlife Crisis....what do i do?

Your path is much different than mine. When my wife of 17 years got struck by the depression of MLC, I made a ton of errors, but I knew deep down that she had dramatically changed from the women who...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-23-2013, 10:28 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 616
Posted By This is me
One positive section on TAM

We all find ourselves here from troubled marriages and sometimes other relationships, but there should be one section where positive stories can be shared.

This forum is for those focused on...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-23-2013, 09:58 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 5,963
Posted By This is me
Re: She Wants To Come Back Now

This thread really should be moved to one of the many other places better suited.

This is:

Reconciliation This forum is for those focused on reconciliation and success stories from people who...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-23-2013, 09:56 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 5,963
Posted By This is me
Re: She Wants To Come Back Now

There are red flags in this story that point to depression which makes people do crazy things. No free passes given, but how we deal with it, is the same we should deal with the person swearing out...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-21-2013, 11:14 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 5,963
Posted By This is me
Re: She Wants To Come Back Now

This story sounds so much like the depression usually called a mid life crisis. Although it usually hits in the 40's, it can happen any age...its depression. Something triggers it and the damage can...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-19-2013, 12:20 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 680
Posted By This is me
Re: Having a bad day :-((

I think the hardest thing is to set boundaries and keep them. Say, it is unacceptable for us to work at our relationship with the other person spending days with you at the office. This has to change...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-11-2013, 05:41 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 332
Posted By This is me
Re: retrouvaille

No looked into it and remember looking it up. We tried one MC not so good and another who was very good plus a local Christian based marriage workshop that was very good and another that was not so...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-11-2013, 05:37 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,150
Posted By This is me
Re: MLC?

I feel for you. I think I might always remember the feeling during that period of time. This may sound weird, but there is a small part of me that looks back at it with....fondness, pride....not sure...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-10-2013, 09:13 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,150
Posted By This is me
Re: MLC?

At that last hour when she decided to go from D to R, she finally showed some tearful emotion and said she fear she would love me forever. It could be picked apart, but the message I received was...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-09-2013, 03:15 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,150
Posted By This is me
Re: MLC?

You are welcome. I am very sorry this is happening to you. Just so you know I think you sound very healthy to me in your thinking. Very mature about this sad situation. It will help you however this...
Forum: Reconciliation 02-09-2013, 02:55 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,150
Posted By This is me
Re: MLC?

MLC is depression. No party going on.
Forum: Reconciliation 02-09-2013, 09:33 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,150
Posted By This is me
Re: MLC?

37 not too young. Read up on it. It is depression at the core, it gets the MLC label because of the number who get depression in the 40's mostly.
Forum: Reconciliation 02-08-2013, 12:09 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,150
Posted By This is me
Re: MLC?

You get it! Michelle Werner Davis gets it too.

I think the divorce rate would be much lower if people understood MLC's and treated them as the illness thy are. IMHO.
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