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Forum: The Social Spot 07-30-2012, 11:06 AM
Replies: 3,835
Views: 60,830
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Bandit's Refugees thread - check in!

I told you NEVER to mention that. What goes on in Vegas and all that....
Forum: The Social Spot 07-30-2012, 10:57 AM
Replies: 3,835
Views: 60,830
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Bandit's Refugees thread - check in!

Nobody asked ME how TAM jail was. They stuck me in the same cell as Bandit and calvin. All that flatulence and belching!

They forgave me though.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-30-2012, 10:47 AM
Replies: 816
Views: 57,809
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Wife's affair, how to move forward?

Well, I try to be nice but Morrigan says I'm better when I'm naughty.
Forum: The Social Spot 07-30-2012, 10:38 AM
Replies: 3,835
Views: 60,830
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Bandit's Refugees thread - check in!

I waited until today to start posting again in part as a sign of fellowship with my banned (play on words) mates.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-21-2012, 12:01 PM
Replies: 1,647
Views: 124,706
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It

DG,

Don't backslide. She may be unconsciously gauging to see if the changes you've made are permanent or temporary. Some women just aren't comfortable initiating sex. They may be LD or just...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 07:22 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

Been there brother. I understand completely.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 07:20 PM
Replies: 741
Views: 56,747
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Initial foray

Harken,

Now that we have more information I want to let you know that I completely understand the pain you are experiencing. The deception is the hardest part of recovering from an affair. At this...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 07:13 PM
Replies: 102
Views: 9,318
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Seeking Advice

I'm replying here because I think my feelings are probably more useful for you rather than your husband.

Let me preface my comments by saying I am extremely pro reconciliation. I also need to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 03:16 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

Great minds think alike eh Dawn?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 03:15 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

Some advice. If you are strong enough (not meant to imply that you aren't strong but that the wounds might still be too raw to do this) do something with her that is so over the top wonderful that it...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 03:10 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

Would it be interesting for you to know that 20 years later Morrigan and I are still having those conversations on a daily basis. Not about her affair and not always about our marriage. But we still...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 02:55 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

Regret, I know most of these questions are hard. Some may trigger feelings in you that you would rather not feel. But many times if you see the questions as an opportunity for self exploration you...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 02:52 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

What you describe is extremely common. Unfortunately.

Its just one more step on that slippery slope.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 02:17 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 11,299
Posted By Beowulf
Re: I cheated, told my husband, now what?

The first few sessions are almost always a getting to know you period. I'd be wary of a counselor that offered advice or opinions without getting to know you first.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 01:45 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 19,127
Posted By Beowulf
Re: My Side of the Story

I don't see men who reconcile as being weaker or stronger than men who divorce when face with infidellic betrayal (yes I just made that phrase up). Its a personal choice and depends solely on the one...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 01:26 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

BB, have you noticed that you and I tend to say the exact same things but from different directions? I just had to laugh when I thought of that.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:44 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

Regret, you need not respond to this. I believe that you are answering truthfully from the place that you are at right now. However, you may find out during IC that you had more feelings for him than...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:37 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

Believe it or not that's very healthy at this stage. This makes me feel better that you aren't rugsweeping and trying to get through this too fast. Just take your time to really process everything...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:33 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 24,249
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread

No worries. There are so many stories, so many people looking for answers. Its easy to get them confused.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:11 PM
Replies: 816
Views: 57,809
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Wife's affair, how to move forward?

Allow me to address the deserve aspect. A lot of things happen in life that we don't deserve. You get into a car accident because of someone else's negligence. You take care of yourself, eat right,...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:56 AM
Replies: 816
Views: 57,809
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Wife's affair, how to move forward?

B1 is not punishing his wife. He is genuinely hurt and going through the anger phase. He will continue to ask questions and seek answers even though he already knows the answers. He will have...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:27 AM
Replies: 110
Views: 4,667
Posted By Beowulf
Re: What's going on here?

Stephanie,

He is on the roller coaster. This is very normal. He does love you but he hates what you have done. He hasn't filled out the paperwork yet because he doesn't really want to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:13 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,470
Posted By Beowulf
Re: An inexperienced infidelity counselor is worse than no counselor

Yeah, struggling4ever comes to mind. I felt so bad for him. 7 years in limbo because the MC had them rugsweep her affair.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-20-2012, 12:07 AM
Replies: 816
Views: 57,809
Posted By Beowulf
Re: Wife's affair, how to move forward?

BB, you are exactly right. The hardest part of attempting R is to understand what the other person is going through. Your ex most certainly felt your pain but combined with her own feelings of guilt...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-19-2012, 07:37 PM
Replies: 864
Views: 55,316
Posted By Beowulf
Re: I cheated on my husband of 6 years

And yet in the end you did cheat. Maybe his reaction is the correct one for someone who didn't and wouldn't cheat. Hmmm

You're still grasping at straws. Meanwhile there is an anchor tied to your...
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