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Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage Yesterday, 08:43 PM
Replies: 195
Views: 9,078
Posted By ebp123
Re: Husband key to LTR success?

The traditional marriage works if that is what you want. My MIL told me once that all she ever wanted was to be a wife and mother. She met those goals at age 18. She is happy. I could never do that....
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 08:26 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,216
Posted By ebp123
Re: How did you end up with a bad spouse

I too ignored red flags. He spent years in bad relationships, including 9 years as the OM in an affair. I got past that, but his ability to compartmentalize his actions were not really something I...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage Yesterday, 08:06 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 17,378
Posted By ebp123
Re: What do wifes "NEED" from their husbands not "WANT"

Emotional connection. Shared moments. Laughter. Strength of spirt. Honesty. Flirtation. Makes me think, laugh, smile, and want to slap his a-- for his little pokes that are meant to elicit exactly...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage Yesterday, 07:54 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 574
Posted By ebp123
Re: How often do you and your spouse LAUGH?

This is a great thread! Thank you all for sharing.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 07:33 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
I am getting out. I just have to stay for a year...

I am getting out. I just have to stay for a year to pay off the debt from my husband's surgery. I am an honorable person. That is all.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 07:25 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Ok. I will bow out. I hope you all find the...

Ok. I will bow out. I hope you all find the answers you are looking for.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 07:01 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Not pissed. Just the opposite. I've been called...

Not pissed. Just the opposite. I've been called all kinds of things and I'm still here, waiting for someone to be brave enough to share what is really going on instead of just complain. I won't take...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 06:37 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Then find a deliberate withholder to debate with....

Then find a deliberate withholder to debate with. Who does it to manipulate. I think you will find very few of them. You want to believe there are these evil, manipulative women out there. If you are...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 06:33 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
He doesn't initiate because he thinks I will say...

He doesn't initiate because he thinks I will say no. That is what he says. I think he doesn't initiate because I have stated my needs outright and he knows he can't meet them. I want a more positive...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 06:19 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Re: Is Sexual Withholding equally as wrong as Cheating?

If you want it so much, why are you so afraid to address the issue? Why he name calling and bad treatment? Seems I am your perfect test subject? But you don't ask, you attack.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 06:17 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Like I said, I've been called evil, compared to...

Like I said, I've been called evil, compared to murderers and child molesters. Where on this thread have I done anything like that. I actual shared twice my reasons and only one man had the guts to...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 06:09 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
If the men in this forum listen and respond to...

If the men in this forum listen and respond to their LD wives the way they do to the women on TAM, it's no wonder they aren't getting any! This far I've been "gagged" to shut off my words, called...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 05:14 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Re: Is Sexual Withholding equally as wrong as Cheating?

I'll say it again. I know of no woman who purposefully withholds. When the reasons aren't addressed, then there's no sex. If my H spent 30 min every few days connecting with me emotionally, trying...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 02:03 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
As I've said a few times now, I don't withhold....

As I've said a few times now, I don't withhold. He doesn't initiate and neither do I.
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-14-2014, 08:24 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 896
Posted By ebp123
If you use strong measures and you still get...

If you use strong measures and you still get pregnant, give the baby up for adoption.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 08:13 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
To address your last question, yes I have always...

To address your last question, yes I have always been LD. But when my heart is in it, my body is too. When my heart is removed, my body followss.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 07:51 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Then address my reasons. We've spent many posts...

Then address my reasons. We've spent many posts going around and around while my reasons are still unaddressed by you.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 07:33 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
He isn't callous so much as Dr. Jekyll and Mr....

He isn't callous so much as Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Literally. He "hides" from addressing the issues. And in the interest of full disclosure, years of emotional neglect have left me angry and I am...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 05:14 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
I plan to. I have about a year to suck it up and...

I plan to. I have about a year to suck it up and handle things financially, and then I will move out.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 05:06 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
I do not withhold, first of all. My H doesn't...

I do not withhold, first of all. My H doesn't initiate and neither do I.

As for my reasons, I will say them again:

1) I can get a UTI from sex very easily. From the time I feel it until the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 04:36 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Both myself and soccermom provided our reasons in...

Both myself and soccermom provided our reasons in this thread, so your question has been answered twice by two different people could you be bothered to look.
And I will also say that your ugly...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 02:01 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Re: Is Sexual Withholding equally as wrong as Cheating?

Let me rephrase: If you won't put out, I'm going to get mine and you have lost any legitimate reason to even inquire about my sexual exploits outside our marriage.

Or maybe: put out or I'm gonna...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 12:52 PM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Re: Is Sexual Withholding equally as wrong as Cheating?

I know of no woman who deliberately starves their partner. Sorry, I just don't. I know of lots of women who have legitimate reasons for not having sex. I provided mine in an earlier thread (and...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 10:27 AM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Re: Is Sexual Withholding equally as wrong as Cheating?

By this logic, it's better to cheat and not get caught, since you aren't hurting anyone??
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-14-2014, 10:10 AM
Replies: 215
Views: 4,387
Posted By ebp123
Re: Is Sexual Withholding equally as wrong as Cheating?

I want to believe that in many cases that the problem in a sexless marriage has as much to do with other issues as it does with lack of sex. The typical problem scenario here is one person is HD and...
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