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Forum: Life After Divorce 12-18-2014, 01:54 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 752
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Multi-dating vs. Mono-dating

This is an enlightening thread. I never dated more than one person at a time, even if it's just a few dates. I once kissed a guy after going on just a handful of dates with my now H and I still feel...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 12-18-2014, 01:44 PM
Replies: 218
Views: 9,410
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What do you feel about homosexuality in a religious view?

This might help: A Bible study on Sin (Part-6A) (http://www.amazingbible.org/Documents/Bible_Studies/Sin_list_part_6.htm)
Forum: Politics and Religion 12-18-2014, 01:10 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 1,666
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Are your political views driving people away?

That's exactly the kind of ugly stuff I don't want to see. Some may find it funny, but I don't.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 12-18-2014, 01:04 PM
Replies: 196
Views: 4,584
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Target removes Grand Theft Auto from its stores

And to think some of the men on TAM want to kick the girls off of the Men's Clubhouse forum! Oy...
Forum: Politics and Religion 12-18-2014, 12:52 PM
Replies: 139
Views: 2,169
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: CIA Spying On The Senate

good officer? Come on now. We've all heard about his personnel record. If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. He isn't cut out for law enforcement.
Forum: Politics and Religion 12-18-2014, 12:51 PM
Replies: 139
Views: 2,169
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: CIA Spying On The Senate

If this is Watergate 100x over, pray tell what did Obama stand to gain by what you accuse him of? People do things for a reason.
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 12-18-2014, 12:37 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 207
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: How to help my DD handle mean girls/bullies

Thanks. I've told them about not reacting to bullies, but she may not see this situation the same way. I will let her know, although it's hard for someone so young to not react. She has an emotional...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-18-2014, 12:16 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 656
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: different integrity levels in two people in a relationship

PC bullying? Let men be men, right? Actually, it's let boys be boys. Sure, a lot of men do this kind of thing. I've known plenty; they also seem to like to cheat on their wives.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 12-18-2014, 11:48 AM
Replies: 196
Views: 4,584
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Target removes Grand Theft Auto from its stores

What you are talking about is individual transformation, which may or may not occur for a single person. But on a larger scale, culturally, these types of exposures do change us as a society. What...
Forum: Politics and Religion 12-18-2014, 10:31 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 1,666
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Are your political views driving people away?

What about Ann Coulter! One of her recent books is called Mugged: Racial Demagoguery from the 1970s through Obama. In it she explains how Democrats got rich off the Civil Rights movement. God, what...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 12-18-2014, 10:22 AM
Replies: 92
Views: 2,500
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Ok men, why does he not take advantage of this?

Don't bash the OP. If her offer of an open marriage "crushed his soul", what he been doing to her for the past 20 years! I see plenty he's done wrong and you find fault with her suggestion. Whatever!
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 12-18-2014, 10:18 AM
Replies: 92
Views: 2,500
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 12-18-2014, 10:10 AM
Replies: 121
Views: 2,884
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: The Price of Beauty

If there's $ for it and the OP wants it, then spend it.

Good thing the OP doesn't live in our house. We make good $ but due to medical bills and special needs kids, there's nothing left over for a...
Forum: Politics and Religion 12-18-2014, 10:00 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 1,666
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Are your political views driving people away?

After seeing a "Don't Re-Nig in 2012" sticker on someone's car, I think I know which is which. Think about it: someone has to come up with such a sticker, have it mass produced, and know there's a...
Forum: Politics and Religion 12-18-2014, 09:53 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 1,666
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Are your political views driving people away?

I know many Republicans/conservatives that live off the government teet while claiming they value hard work. And many Dems/liberals who believe in personal responsibility. I work hard, spend within...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-18-2014, 09:25 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 656
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: different integrity levels in two people in a relationship

He's in a tough spot. Why would a man of integrity hang out with men who act like this? That's probably the real issue here. If you wouldn't cheat on your spouse or steal money from your company,...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-18-2014, 09:10 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 656
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: different integrity levels in two people in a relationship

It has everything to do with integrity. Having integrity means having certain morals and acting on them. If a man degrades women when they aren't around and then pretends like he's not that guy with...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 12-18-2014, 09:03 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 815
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Affection solely as a prelude to sex?

I think the OP is talking about a lack of affection unless it's used to prime the pump.

As others as suggested, there can be a bit of a catch 22 here when sex isn't frequent. The HD partner may...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 12-18-2014, 08:10 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 207
Posted By SurpriseMyself
How to help my DD handle mean girls/bullies

My DD is in 2nd grade in a private school. They are very strict about bullying, but bullying between girls is harder to spot and deal with.

There are a few girls in DD's class that are what I...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 12-12-2014, 02:58 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,440
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Rejection becoming to much

So you hug her, tell her she's beautiful, do housework to "start the process" toward sex. If so, she may be turned off entirely. If I thought hugs and a compliment were done so that he could get sex...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 12-12-2014, 01:32 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,440
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Rejection becoming to much

Watch this: Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship | Talk Video | TED.com (http://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship)
Forum: Sex in Marriage 12-12-2014, 01:16 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,440
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Rejection becoming to much

Her desire is gone. You and her need to work together to figure out why. I have no doubt that she's probably tired much of the time. Don't know about the other aches. I can say that there's also...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-12-2014, 12:43 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 709
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: 20 Things I've Learned From 20 Years of Marriage

I disagree with this slightly. I think a skunk can turn their partner into a turtle, and a turtle can turn their partner into a skunk. So if you marry a skunk or a turtle, it's hard to not become...
Forum: Suggestion Box 12-09-2014, 11:22 AM
Replies: 1,962
Views: 99,424
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 12-09-2014, 11:04 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 679
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: American Parenting

My son, besides ADHD, and motor skills issues, and emotional behavioral issues, also has sensory issues. This means there are many foods he simply won't eat. It's a texture and sensory thing. For...
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