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Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-13-2013, 09:59 AM
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Views: 322
Posted By ebp123
Re: How a man acts when he knows you're leaving him???

Some men get comfortable with the way things are, even if they pretty much stink. You ask for changes and nothing happens because they don't see a reason to. Only when you are ready to walk do they...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 09:56 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 665
Posted By ebp123
Re: Somebody help me!!

When someone tells you who they are, listen! He's told you he doesn't want affection, that sometimes he withholds it because he knows you want it, and that it's fine with him if you divorce. Please...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 09:50 AM
Replies: 147
Views: 5,053
Posted By ebp123
Re: When considering whether to date a man, do you consider this?

LOL! My theory has fallen flat. Or should that be flaccid?

Seriously, most women aren't so shallow as to make a big deal about size. Men worry about it way more than we ever do.

I heard it...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 09:10 AM
Replies: 147
Views: 5,053
Posted By ebp123
Re: When considering whether to date a man, do you consider this?

BTW, I do consider a man's size, but not for the reasons you think. I dated one guy so big that it hurt to have sex with him and I couldn't go down on him without choking. I also had one experience...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 09:07 AM
Replies: 147
Views: 5,053
Posted By ebp123
Re: When considering whether to date a man, do you consider this?

The surest way to know a man's size is to look at the shape of his fingers. If his fingers are the same girth pretty much down to the tip, then he's pretty well endowed. If his fingers get smaller...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 08:38 AM
Replies: 213
Views: 4,844
Posted By ebp123
Re: Ladies, what did you stop doing when you emotionally checked out?

OMFG... so funny and so true.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 08:36 AM
Replies: 213
Views: 4,844
Posted By ebp123
Re: Ladies, what did you stop doing when you emotionally checked out?

About the withholding sex thing, I have yet to meet a woman who says she's not having sex with her husband to punish him or have control over him. For me, I don't want to have sex with someone I...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 08:32 AM
Replies: 213
Views: 4,844
Posted By ebp123
Re: Ladies, what did you stop doing when you emotionally checked out?

I did the exact same thing. I also didn't want him to touch me for any reason. I even hate it when he hugs me. I too am working on an exit plan.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-01-2013, 05:08 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 266
Posted By ebp123
Re: Today I start the separation process

Thanks. I'm sure it won't be smooth or simple. Actually, I was feeling kinda bad, reading about people who had cheated, lied, etc., and then I got a healthy reminder this evening as to why I'm doing...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-01-2013, 01:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 215
Posted By ebp123
Re: What books have you read and would recommend for help?

If I had a good one, I'd offer it up. Thinking you'll need to be a bit more specific if you want help, though. What kind of help?
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-01-2013, 12:44 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 266
Posted By ebp123
Re: Today I start the separation process

So... there's a lot to do with separating all of our accounts. I've taken the first step and opened my own savings and checking. Next I'll be buying my vehicle in my name only. Then comes insurance,...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-01-2013, 08:42 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 266
Posted By ebp123
Today I start the separation process

I've been posting on TAM since 2009. Its been over 3 yrs that I've been considering divorce. Since then, I lost my brother and my mother. It's been a very difficult time, especially these past two...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-01-2013, 08:34 AM
Replies: 135
Views: 3,925
Posted By ebp123
Re: Does the dumper ever reaaly feel bad?

I understand how mad you are, but realize that not all people cheat, lie, etc. I begged my husband for years, years, to work with me, to talk to me, to do things. We ended up fighting daily. Yelling,...
Forum: Life After Divorce 02-09-2013, 04:42 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 615
Posted By ebp123
Re: So what is your custody/visitation schedule?

Damn... this makes it all too real, doesn't it. Thank you for posting this. This is so helpful, and has me thinking in ways I had not before. I'm glad to hear you made this work. I'm wading into...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-09-2013, 04:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 583
Posted By ebp123
Re: What my 180 looks like

Considering how many unhappily married people i know who will probably never get divorced, worry about the 50% number is kinda silly.

Still, I applaud you on your changes. Keep it up. Just be sure...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-27-2013, 11:58 AM
Replies: 272
Views: 12,937
Posted By ebp123
Re: Ladies: biggest turn OFF?

Insecurity and all of it's ugly offspring. Some men just need to grow a pair, you know!
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-27-2013, 11:50 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 470
Posted By ebp123
My H just can't communicate!

Here's how my husband communicates. If he doesn't feel like cooking dinner, he says to me "Do you have anything in mind for dinner?" When he says that, he means, "I don't feel like cooking. If you...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 11-18-2012, 02:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 623
Posted By ebp123
Re: Just can't get through to my husband....

I'm not sure I agree those are lofty goals. I guess I am just very practical in my approach. If a school can set down rules, rewards, and punishments and have all the teachers enforce them and all...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 11-18-2012, 01:50 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 623
Posted By ebp123
Re: Just can't get through to my husband....

Sigh.... yes, I guess I have let myself get sucked into this. I keep trying to get us to parent together, to work together as a team. That's how I always wanted a marriage to be. And everything I...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 11-18-2012, 01:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 623
Posted By ebp123
Re: Just can't get through to my husband....

My husband has always wanted things "just so." For example, his house was always neat as a pin, his clothes perfectly organizes and each hanger evenly spaced finger-width apart. He had the same...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 11-18-2012, 01:25 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 623
Posted By ebp123
Re: Just can't get through to my husband....

@Mavash - Both my H and I work full time. He has to help get the kids ready, at least some of the time. And my H can't let anything slide, so this is more his issue than mine. He demands that they be...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 11-18-2012, 01:15 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 623
Posted By ebp123
Just can't get through to my husband....

We have two children, 4 and 6. We have taken parenting classes together and have tried many many times to get on the same page with our parenting. My view is to set our children up for success in...
Forum: Life After Divorce 11-16-2012, 05:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 458
Posted By ebp123
Divorce advice

I'm ready for divorce, but scared of all of the unknowns. I'm hoping for advice from people who have been through it.

I don't want to "stick it to him" or "take him to the cleaners." What I want...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 11-10-2012, 05:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 556
Posted By ebp123
Re: I SUCK at relationships

Thx Liam. Yes, I do believe that I attract what I believe and focus on. But I also recognize a trend and myself as the constant in many failed equations.
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 11-10-2012, 04:25 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 556
Posted By ebp123
I SUCK at relationships

I'm starting to think that I just shouldn't be in a serious relationship ever again. I am married now, but have been on the verge of separation and divorce for many years. I'm imagining what it will...
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