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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 11:55 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 2,886
Posted By the guy
Re: What to do with OM.

In addition the lawyer can find out alot more then you can and make it very confusing for the DA in defining who the aggressor was.

BTW...DO NOT TELL ANYONE "YOU JUST SNAPPED"!!!!!!!


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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 11:46 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 2,886
Posted By the guy
Re: What to do with OM.

Same script, different sitch.....

Consult a lawyer and know your options.

I strongly suggest you talk to some of you less savior friends that have been in trouble before and get a name of a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 11:16 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,247
Posted By the guy
Re: successful rugsweep?

Part of us want to agree with this but then there is a part that needs us to bring up those bad times from time to time, to feel the *sting* of what we were once were and how important it is to keep...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 10:57 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,247
Posted By the guy
Re: successful rugsweep?

I needed to know what she had become after years of fat lips and swollen faces I had given her.:(
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 10:53 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,247
Posted By the guy
Re: successful rugsweep?

Its saddens me to know that I dealt with Mrs. the-guy 1st infidelity decades a go in such a unhealthy way, and taking it out on her hide rather then dealing with it in a healthier way.

Some how...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 09:48 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,681
Posted By the guy
Re: Where to begin?

Speaking of actions....start showing her how confident you are by letting her go.

what i mean is, she is just as scared of the future as you are, so please stop showing her this fact. Hell now is...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-23-2013, 11:49 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,060
Posted By the guy
Re: Is she or isn't she?

Keep in mind , as your heart and soul direct you on your path, this is no longer about her, but you being emotionally healthy for you and your kid.

Her betrayal is all on her, what you do from...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-23-2013, 11:29 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,060
Posted By the guy
Re: Is she or isn't she?

Contacting a atty. is not only in your best interest, but a tactic that shows her you will not tolorate this and how serious this is in possibly ending the marriage due to *her* actions!

Filing...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-23-2013, 11:19 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 4,579
Posted By the guy
Re: DDay was today

EG makes a good point.

Educate your self.

I also suggest "Surviving the Affair" by Janis A Springs.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-23-2013, 07:46 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 4,579
Posted By the guy
Re: DDay was today

These are tryiing times bros..

And you sound like you are keeping it together. so stay calm and be firm. You ain't going to control her , but you don;t have to talorate it either, so wish her the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-23-2013, 07:19 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 23,992
Posted By the guy
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

Hell my old lady phucked around a hell of alot more then OP's chick, and I keep her around...but at the end of the day a deal breaker is a deal break for some folks.

And thats all I got to say...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-23-2013, 07:13 PM
Replies: 428
Views: 23,992
Posted By the guy
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

I guess if one replies with there own perspective/experience and the poster or anyone else for that matter doesn't like what was replied to then is that disrespect?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-22-2013, 04:53 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,060
Posted By the guy
Re: Is she or isn't she?

How many stories is she going to come up with?

If I'm not mistaken her 1st lie was wrong #.
Then it was wotk stuff.
Then it turned to a friend that talked time to time.
Now it lets seperate.
...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-22-2013, 04:40 PM
Replies: 223
Views: 3,574
Posted By the guy
Re: Potential toxic friend situaton, not planning on saying anything but should I?

Way to protect your marriage, I congratulate you. Now lets hope she sees this protection as a good thing and doesn't turn it into some "controlling" manipulation.

Just remember you protecting not...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-21-2013, 10:52 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 819
Posted By the guy
Re: And... She's gone

And ya by the way....tell her you will no longer try to control her and she is free to move out and move on...and you do have control on what you will tolorate and this justn't wok any more.

So...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-21-2013, 10:42 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 819
Posted By the guy
Re: And... She's gone

The best way to even try to save this is to let her go!

Maybe she will come back maybe she won't. But the big thing here is to think about your self cuz no one else will? Maybe when she sees how...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 09:31 PM
Replies: 1,145
Views: 106,636
Posted By the guy
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

Whats impressive is that the pres was confronted by a man that was not only in step with the sitch..but was one step a head by having counsel and totaly prepared.

Now if that doesn't impress a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 09:27 PM
Replies: 1,145
Views: 106,636
Posted By the guy
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

D- you gotta stick around...months ago folks here pushed for confronting and what not....you have alot to ofer when it comes to patiants and making a plan and working the plan.

So please help the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 09:22 PM
Replies: 1,145
Views: 106,636
Posted By the guy
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

I found it interesting that the the pres had his own agenda...when was he going to get you up to speed??? I guess thanks to TAM you are in step with the pres....

Could you imagine if you were in...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 11:05 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,736
Posted By the guy
Re: Wife cheated before marriage

With out consequences, bad behavior continues.

Why did she cheat in the 1st place?

Has that even been addressed?

I mean what has she done to affair proof her marriage other then get older?
...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 10:58 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,736
Posted By the guy
Re: Wife cheated before marriage

Your kidding, right?
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-19-2013, 09:39 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 319
Posted By the guy
Re: Please Help - point me in the right direction

Ya tell her you won't tolorate her crap any more and since you will no longer try to control this marriage she is more then welcome to get the hell out.

Sorry brother but you are losing respect...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 06:22 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,939
Posted By the guy
Re: How long did it take for you to get over the " sex " part of the affair?

I have gotten the entire story, hell she still brings it up every so often and Mrs. the guy is really open about the way she has lived her life for the past 13 years and the turmoil that kind of life...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 01:20 PM
Replies: 297
Views: 23,812
Posted By the guy
Re: Wife cheated with several men, son's not mine, etc.

Thats the great thing about this forum....you know better then to respond to your STBXW but you can come here and vent and read about all the things you could say to her.

You know what I mean?

...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 12:55 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 2,976
Posted By the guy
Re: Should I be concerned over my wife's relationship with her friend?

Tell his wife, if you don't you will regret it later.

I have been here long enough to know how this turns out.
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