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Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 02-10-2013, 02:32 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 3,643
Posted By heavensangel
Re: 20 great, 7 terrible years - does trust come back?

H and I recently did a marriage bible study 'Get Real' by Dale and Jena Forehand. Their marriage journey included what I'd term as a 'nasty' divorce. Forgiveness is one of the topics they...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-05-2013, 06:14 PM
Replies: 136
Views: 3,396
Posted By heavensangel
Re: What about fat husbands?

I don't think 'being shallow' is specific to either gender. What makes one shallow is expecting your spouse to look like Barbie or Ken while letting yourself go.

H gained a few 'happy' pounds...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 02-05-2013, 01:01 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 529
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Lack of Income Leading to Separation......

If you know this is coming every year......why not save for it with the income he is making the other 8 or 9 mos. Take the income he makes during that time and divide it by 12 mos; use that figure...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-01-2013, 10:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 365
Posted By heavensangel
Re: lying

Mavash, Being that I'm very much like Maricha, I'd be very interested to hear about your ideas/suggestions on how to LET IT GO!

I believe my H lies by omission and it absolutely drives me...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-01-2013, 09:41 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,558
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Ladies, do you work outside the home?

I totally agree. No Bon Bon eating here! Not only do I take care of the home; I also do: the yard (mow, weed eat, blow leaves, shovel snow, debris removal, etc), wash/detail vehicles (his too!),...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 01-31-2013, 09:19 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,236
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Music to make love to

H and I are huge music lovers but haven't used it for lovemaking in a while.....reading this made me realize how much I miss it......

Suggestions:

Barry White
Luther Vandross
Kenny G
Color...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 01-30-2013, 06:44 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,916
Posted By heavensangel
Re: [Happy] Marriage Survey

I am posting this because I'm engaged :cat: but I have a few curiosities. Plus, I'd really love to hear other people's stories (especially the positive ones, for a pleasant change) and get some...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 01-30-2013, 06:12 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,319
Posted By heavensangel
Re: What did you learn from a previous marriage or relationship

I learned:

To watch how a man treats his mother - it's a great indicator of how I'll be treated later (my mother taught me this....wish I would have listened to her back then)

That it's...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-30-2013, 05:10 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,117
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Sexual Aversion Due to Abuse- How to Heal???? Advice appreciated! J

He's gone from hitting you to badgering you! It's still abuse just in a different form. The fact he's still not willing to take responsibility for HIS actions speaks volumes.

He wants to...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-30-2013, 04:46 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,558
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Ladies, do you work outside the home?

I'm a 'Domestic Engineer' and have been for 6 yrs (end of Feb).

I was in banking 20 years prior to the above

I recently accepted a pt position (a few hours a week) doing the books for a non...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-29-2013, 04:21 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 2,251
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Hey men, if you have no problem lying about one thing do you lie about EVERYTHING

Ramifications of lying:

Someone on TAM once said: I'm not mad because you lied to me; I'm mad because now I can't believe YOU!

What you teach people when you lie/hide information from them...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-29-2013, 03:38 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,206
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Notice something suspicios...ask spouse first or just snoop?

I would ask up front when the call wasn't answered; if I wasn't comfortable with the response, I'd call the number back using that phone.

How comfortable/uncomfortable someone is with situations...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-29-2013, 02:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 418
Posted By heavensangel
Re: wondering what to do

Your letter sounds controlling and manipulative.....

after just one date, this would scare the crap out of anyone.....

Don't send anything for any reason. Toffer's right - if she wants...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-29-2013, 01:33 PM
Replies: 85
Views: 3,320
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Strippers

Personally, I agree with little deer......

H name for strippers: money hungry vipers!

No need for strip clubs with us.......If and when either of us want a lap dance or a part of the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-12-2013, 12:43 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 530
Posted By heavensangel
Re: I truelly need help?? Anyone?

Ask More Than Once - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwBKIQ__q7Q)


Here's a link to an excerpt 'Ask More Than Once'. Hilarious, but oh so true!
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-12-2013, 12:11 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,270
Posted By heavensangel
Re: The Old, Look at the girls mother before you commit to them!

Whoever raised the child will have had the most influence.......

This statement is not necessarily true; I live with the proof that DNA has a lot to do with who we become. My H (46) met his bio...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-12-2013, 11:46 AM
Replies: 230
Views: 10,044
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Undoing the past.

if you can't get the fixation of this other man out of your mind...



A little hard to do when you work for him, don't you think?
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-12-2013, 11:14 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,580
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Men's Opinion-" once a cheater always a cheater?"

I know you wanted a man's perspective but couldn't help myself.

Have I said this? Yes. I've also said it about liars.......... Liars/cheaters are both stealing the truth from their SP/SO IMO
...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-12-2013, 09:12 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 407
Posted By heavensangel
Re: My husband hates my entire family and even his own mother...help!!!

He hates my family because they are selfish and only want you/me around if they can get something out of it.He hates his mother because she is money hungry and very manipulative.

You know what...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 01-12-2013, 08:34 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 647
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Rock N Roll Love Story

Yes, it's definitely unfortunate that most Americans want to hear the smut vs good. Could it be that hearing the garbage in others' lives makes them feel better about their own.

I often wonder...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-11-2013, 09:50 AM
Replies: 230
Views: 10,044
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Undoing the past.

Exactly! The fact that you're still responding/defending your actions says that you, yourself aren't comfortable with the decision you made.

If you're so sure you've done the right thing, then...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-11-2013, 09:45 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,888
Posted By heavensangel
Re: text message between husband and "friend"

All the texts have been deleted and not once was this girl even mentioned to me.


This statement is what bothers me most. If he has nothing to hide, then there would be no problem sharing the...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-11-2013, 09:16 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,258
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Wife went from full time to part time. (Im just ranting)

This is so true! I have five teachers in my family; one of them my sister. She has more home work than most teenagers. She has the responsibility of 25-27 5yr olds from 8:00 - 3:00 (7:30 to 4:00...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-11-2013, 08:54 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,323
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Inappropriate behavior from step-son to daughter

If I was him I would have been gone already, but I am not passive.

Then I ask: why hasn't he left? Could it be that he can better control the situation from the 'inside' than on the outside? ...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-11-2013, 08:25 AM
Replies: 70
Views: 2,481
Posted By heavensangel
Re: Do you still French kiss?

H smoked when I met him; this month will be 11 years since he quit cold turkey. After quitting he told me he enjoyed it but always hated the smell and how it burned his eyes. He asked me if I used...
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