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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-19-2012, 03:41 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 4,600
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore - Perspective plz?

It could be anything , the OM or OW may be not as good looking, but maybe just paying attention to an area the WH/WW feels is neglected. For example, if your wife was feeling neglected because you...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-19-2012, 03:16 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 4,600
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore - Perspective plz?

"Trading down" seems to be the norm in a lot of ways. A lot of erelationship books claim you could provide 80% of what your spouses needs out a relationship, but they would be willing to dump that...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-19-2012, 01:55 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 4,600
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore - Perspective plz?

Generally that's the case, they've already met someone else or that someone is in their sights due to a escalating EA.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-30-2012, 09:08 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 4,661
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Do women show more interest to men after 40 40

My STBXW has told my D19 that she is planning on getting a Tat....designed by the OM ;~) I tell you it's like the old "Red Letter" for adultery, only they brand themselves ;~) The online dating sites...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-30-2012, 08:38 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 4,661
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Do women show more interest to men after 40 40

The answer is have a relationship with who ever you want, of any age you can pull, just filter out the MLC'ers. They use code words, such as " He wasn't meeting my needs", " I needed to grow".......
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-30-2012, 07:58 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

Or " Property of Hell's Angels" ;~))
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-30-2012, 03:40 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

Being a Wiccan or a Christian is a spiritual belief, I don't know how you could compare that to getting a Tat, unless your religion required one ;~) Most people are fad follower's, "Liking" things...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-30-2012, 02:17 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

I'm truly glad it is, so was mine for 24 years and a number of other people here for over 30 years ;~)
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-30-2012, 02:15 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

Seems kind of strange, get a tat to make some sort of statement, then spend most of your daily life covering it up?

I truly think "Ink" is a bit of a fad at this point, when everyone has one they...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-30-2012, 02:06 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

Since people mentioned tats, I'm seeing them all over the place, but mainly on middle aged women.
This might be a blessing in disguise, as it brands a lot of them as going through MLC. If you see a...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-30-2012, 01:20 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

LOL, that sounds funny coming from someone posting in a marriage help forum ;~))). We made vows of forever to spouses to...and look at how well that's working.....
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-30-2012, 01:02 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

Well the difference is all those other things are temporary. You shave off a beard, take off the earings or chnage your pants ;~) Tatts are a forever reminder of what you were thinking when you got...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-29-2012, 08:52 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,701
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Wife of 6+ years no longer IN love with me

I agree , every other action is pointless until the prospect of a OM is proven false. Sad to say it's nearly always the case when we hear this story there has been a Om in the woodpile for about six...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-25-2012, 11:20 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

That's the part that makes me laugh, like someone is going to forget grandma or uncle fred. The ones that make me laugh in this day and age is the girlfriend/boyfriend name tats.... people are stupid...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-25-2012, 11:13 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 4,212
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: tattoos, whats the deal?

I'd still call them tramp stamps, they are generally the first thing a woman gets when she has left her husband for the OM ;~)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-16-2012, 09:50 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,067
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Wife an EA, almost full blow PA

Very touchy topic, but I have to bring it up. There is no excuse for beating her up, but was the reason he beat her was because she was fooling around on him too?
Forum: Reconciliation 06-16-2012, 09:42 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,185
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Husband has moved back in but....

I call bull, he is responsible in part for the OW's H's death. The suicide rates of men over infidelity and marriage breakdown is three times higher than it is for women.

You don't have to be...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-16-2012, 09:32 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 3,697
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Why Did Our Spouses Not simply Divorce Us?

Sadly Yes, when it truly comes down to it, that's the truth. Something has gone "off" in the brain box that allows them to act like sociopaths.... It's normal to try and find a logical reason when...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-16-2012, 08:46 AM
Replies: 335
Views: 36,706
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

I wondered about the same thing, I'd had herpes before I met my wife and had to tell her all about it when we first got serious. We used condoms for years, even when I didn't have an active...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-15-2012, 11:15 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,290
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: My wife has fallen out of love with me, but there is more.

With all due respect, she's in MLC, following your advice will drive her further away. They are not in their right mind and need to run, all you can do is let them go.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 06-15-2012, 11:04 AM
Replies: 122
Views: 5,199
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Dealing with spouses MLC

Well, I was where you are last July, if it's truly MLC there is nothing you can do but let them go. At first you'll dump all kinds of blame on yourself, cut them all kinds of slack while they go...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-12-2012, 09:29 AM
Replies: 167
Views: 11,821
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: Wife wants a break

I'm very happy for you, but I think the answer to what your problem was a result of "manning up" and not talk. I'm quite sure she was working up to leaving you, and had been bottling up all that crap...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-11-2012, 12:22 PM
Replies: 1,230
Views: 97,179
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: New thread, update to ok, here is my story...

I don't think I've posted my whole story here on Tam, I wouldn't want to make this forum anymore depressing than it already is ;~) I don't want to hijack the thread, but here's the short form.

The...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-11-2012, 11:33 AM
Replies: 1,230
Views: 97,179
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: New thread, update to ok, here is my story...

She used to brag me up, ( I overheard her) I know a lot of the girls where she worked were a bit envious, maybe even resentful of the fact she had it so easy at home. they were all amazed when they...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-11-2012, 10:00 AM
Replies: 1,230
Views: 97,179
Posted By allthegoodnamesaregone
Re: New thread, update to ok, here is my story...

It makes one wonder what people think. I was a sahd, but ran a full time business at the same time out of my home office. I worked around ferrying the kids to school, the wife to work appointments,...
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