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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Today, 08:20 AM
Replies: 20
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Posted By ebp123
If we did a FISBO and thus eliminated half the...

If we did a FISBO and thus eliminated half the realtor fee, we would each walk away with over 10k probably after we paid off our debt. Not much, but it's something.
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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Today, 08:17 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
Legal separation in my state begins when we live...

Legal separation in my state begins when we live in separate residences. We must live separate for 1 year before we can file.
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Forum: Life After Divorce Yesterday, 10:10 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 682
Posted By ebp123
I've considered having some time that is just one...

I've considered having some time that is just one kid with each parent for a few reasons. One is that the kids fight every day, multiple times a day. I want them to have some peace at home. This is...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 09:01 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
Yes, it would clear the debt. We were hit his...

Yes, it would clear the debt. We were hit his year with medical expenses and we had too much withheld on our taxes and so that added to it. Still, it would clear the debt.
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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 08:59 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
If I move out and don't refinance, my name is...

If I move out and don't refinance, my name is still in the mortgage and I will owe half. I can't afford half the mortgage plus rent for a new place.

I just need to figure out how I can move out...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 08:28 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
I agree, but I doubt I could get him to agree. I...

I agree, but I doubt I could get him to agree. I will try for that, though. He knows we can't afford to pay attorneys right now and it would be pointless to end up battling it out in court. Trouble...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 08:20 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
He can afford it. However, he is resistant to all...

He can afford it. However, he is resistant to all of this. He wants to pay down our marital debts, so he says, but he won't do things like cancel cable tv or get a second job. He is very controlling....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 03:54 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
Re: Distributive Award and he keeps the house - advice needed

I sure hope so. It's already cost me my happiness and my peace of mind. I question if I ever want to date again, much less remarry.
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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 03:37 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
Re: Distributive Award and he keeps the house - advice needed

I did speak briefly with a mediation attorney by phone and she quoted me $5500 for her services. I am starting to be afraid I won't be able to afford divorce!
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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 03:35 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
In my state we must legally reside apart for one...

In my state we must legally reside apart for one year before I can file. I am trying to save as much money as possible and not take my H to the cleaners, so I wanted to offer him some suggestions on...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 02:46 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 394
Posted By ebp123
Distributive Award and he keeps the house - advice needed

My STBXH wants to stay in the house. Truth is, the only way we could separate is if I leave as he refuses.

So, my thought is that he refinance the house in his name only and pay me a Distributive...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 08-19-2014, 07:40 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 470
Posted By ebp123
Re: Are we just too different?

It is not your differences that are driving you apart or that you struggle with. You and your wife, as much as you wanted to be honest in who you were before you got married, you were not. She tries...
Forum: Politics and Religion 08-18-2014, 05:50 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,802
Posted By ebp123
Ah... If only you'd have said you liked me back....

Ah... If only you'd have said you liked me back. But the moment has passed. And the thread hijacked...
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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-18-2014, 02:45 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 374
Posted By ebp123
Re: How important is his family in your decision to marry?

In truth, he struggles with his family just like I do, but he just doesn't want me to talk about it openly. They are nice people but with some ugly habits that come from a poor, rural upbringing....
Forum: Politics and Religion 08-18-2014, 02:36 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,802
Posted By ebp123
Re: Did Modern Divorce Law Kill Robin Williams?

I like you, too, Lon! Although your avatar kinda creeps me out.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-18-2014, 01:49 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 374
Posted By ebp123
Re: How important is his family in your decision to marry?

Now I understand. Thanks for clearing that up.

My H and I have a very rocky relationship, a small part of which is due to our differences in upbringing/background. He thinks its a bigger deal than...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-18-2014, 01:22 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 374
Posted By ebp123
Re: How important is his family in your decision to marry?

Curious no one has chimed in about a different race, culture, religion, or socioeconomic class. Is it uncommon to marry someone from a different background, I wonder? Or maybe it's just people don't...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-18-2014, 12:39 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 374
Posted By ebp123
Re: How important is his family in your decision to marry?

Interesting. So if if they called every week and came to visit once a month, it might cause friction? In other words, they had 0% influence because they were out of the picture. But if they were very...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-18-2014, 12:38 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 374
Posted By ebp123
Re: How important is his family in your decision to marry?

Good point, Anon. It's akin to a different culture. When you like that culture, no worries. When you don't....
Forum: Politics and Religion 08-18-2014, 12:17 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,802
Posted By ebp123
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-18-2014, 09:58 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 374
Posted By ebp123
How important is his family in your decision to marry?

I'd like to hear from others about how important his family was in your decision to marry. If he or his family were of another religion, another race, another socioeconomic class, would that have...
Forum: Politics and Religion 08-18-2014, 07:34 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,802
Posted By ebp123
Re: Did Modern Divorce Law Kill Robin Williams?

Galt - It is clear from your posts just how angry you are about your situation, to the point that you can see alimony as a possible reason for suicide. I sincerely hope you get some help with your...
Forum: Politics and Religion 08-18-2014, 07:12 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,802
Posted By ebp123
Re: Did Modern Divorce Law Kill Robin Williams?

Look up suicide rate for people with bipolar disorder and you will find that 1 in 5 complete suicide. That's not attempt, that's complete. It's very sad that robin Williams is no longer with us, but...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 08-11-2014, 03:59 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,771
Posted By ebp123
Re: Mom Jailed Because She Let Her 9-Year-Old Daughter Play in the Park Unsupervised

That's an even weaker argument. What will the kids of today say in 30 years? Remember when we were allowed to walk around the corner to our friend's house in a group with our mom's texting so that...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 08-11-2014, 03:46 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 895
Posted By ebp123
Re: Needing advice on saving marriage.

Some people just don't have the strength for these situations. If he can't do it, then he needs to at least tell her in no uncertain terms that she cannot rely on him. Then at least she knows where...
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