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Forum: Sex in Marriage Today, 12:07 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 572
Posted By tacoma
Re: Husband leaving me over masturbation. Desperately need advice

Yes.

I'd treat it as if my wife threatened to divorce me because I drink Gatorade..
It's just as ridiculous.

This isn't a "male" issue, it's a control issue and your H is being beyond...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 11:36 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 444
Posted By tacoma
Re: Married to a habitual liar

Print out all those e-mails and text/call logs and send them to the OW's husband.
He'll stop their affair.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 11:27 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 914
Posted By tacoma
Re: It’s not his daughter

She's not his step daughter.
The the child of his ex wife's affair.

Not many men would take custody of their wife's lovers child.
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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-16-2013, 03:49 PM
Replies: 143
Views: 2,296
Posted By tacoma
Re: MEN:) Why did you want to get married?

Cultural expectations and societal pressure are things only men must be vulnerable to I suppose.

I don't know what "These same men" claim to be.
I'm just giving you the majority male POV from my...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-16-2013, 03:33 PM
Replies: 143
Views: 2,296
Posted By tacoma
Re: MEN:) Why did you want to get married?

Maybe you should consider why after 6 or 7 of these "Men: Why did you marry?" threads none of the men who answered had a reason beyond pleasing their woman?

Either that or consider all men ...
Forum: Politics and Religion 05-16-2013, 10:59 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 684
Posted By tacoma
Re: Should the government get out of the institution of marriage?

I've seen that one and the dozen like it posted over the past two years.

What it's saying is that men marry because they want to make their woman happy for the most part.
"Love" is the only real...
Forum: Politics and Religion 05-16-2013, 10:38 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 684
Posted By tacoma
Re: Should the government get out of the institution of marriage?

If the government gets out of marriage I see zero reason to invest in it.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-15-2013, 04:29 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 965
Posted By tacoma
Re: Not Sleeping in Same Bed = Less Sex?

Obviously done by morons if they exist.

Get back in your bed with your wife.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-15-2013, 01:49 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 986
Posted By tacoma
Re: My over persistence to get vibrators into the bedroom

The irony is if his wife would open up sexually he might not want the porn for that outlet.

Sorry OP, settle for what you've got because it ain't gonna change.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-15-2013, 01:10 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 433
Posted By tacoma
Re: Question about exposing affair to OM/OW's spouse

I can't think of anything anyone is "entitled" to.
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 05-15-2013, 10:58 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 305
Posted By tacoma
Re: Ex Wife and boundaries

Is there any other way to present it?

That is ultimately what it is isn't it?

No way around that.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-15-2013, 09:30 AM
Replies: 143
Views: 2,296
Posted By tacoma
Re: MEN:) Why did you want to get married?

She needed it.



No



I wouldn't be married if I didn't have a child.
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 05-15-2013, 09:20 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 305
Posted By tacoma
Re: Ex Wife and boundaries

I can't figure out why this upsets you so much.

Definitely not the hill I'd be willing to die on.
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 05-15-2013, 09:17 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 221
Posted By tacoma
Re: Could this be the end?

Stop allowing her to drag you around this way.

Tell her she needs to make up her mind or you're filing for divorce.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-15-2013, 01:00 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 433
Posted By tacoma
Re: Question about exposing affair to OM/OW's spouse

There's no way to avoid blindsiding them.

Best way would simply to have the hardest most objective possible evidence to support your claim.
Makes it difficult for them to curl up in denial.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-14-2013, 04:47 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 2,423
Posted By tacoma
Re: Can we save this or is it too late

That's really the only reason I mentioned it.
He doesn't even appear to be hiding the affair.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-14-2013, 02:54 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 2,423
Posted By tacoma
Re: Can we save this or is it too late

Not necessarily but combined with her other evidence it is damning.

I've seen BS's do stupid passive aggressive **** like planting condom wrappers to make their WS suffer like they are.

I dunno...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-14-2013, 02:51 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 2,423
Posted By tacoma
Re: Can we save this or is it too late

Handle this like you'd handle any affair just know it's very likely to fail for reconciliation but really it's your only option.

Gather all evidence you can.
Set up recording devices where you...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-13-2013, 08:49 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 909
Posted By tacoma
Re: Question for the men

Ahh.. but SA there is a difference between "noticing" and as the OP specified "Looking Up & Down".

The latter is in social situations more meaningful than "Noticing".
It also conveys intent to...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 05-12-2013, 04:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 506
Posted By tacoma
Re: My Daughter Slapped Her Math Teacher!

since this is a private school you really have no recourse but i would call the math teacher directly and schedule a meeting.
A teacher cannot willfully continue to ignore a request for consultation...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-12-2013, 12:14 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 803
Posted By tacoma
Re: how would you respond?

I'd definitely respond.
:)
But I'm not withholding.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-12-2013, 10:51 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 909
Posted By tacoma
No, I'm not good with this, particularly in my...

No, I'm not good with this, particularly in my presence.



This doesn't bug me.
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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-12-2013, 08:45 AM
Replies: 209
Views: 5,851
Posted By tacoma
Re: H caught checking out my friends boobs!

He should have simply not done it.

Certainly my first biological urge is to admire a pretty woman but my second response is generally "Hey, don't be creepy" & at that point I just don't be creepy....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-11-2013, 07:35 PM
Replies: 136
Views: 2,268
Posted By tacoma
Re: Heartbroken

You're young veronica, you can have all the things you want with another man if your H does divorce you.

Has he asked you anything about the affair?

What exactly has he said to you?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-11-2013, 07:32 PM
Replies: 752
Views: 62,468
Posted By tacoma
Re: Found out about Wife's affair through the other man.

This is scary **** wrathful.

How are you?
Are you Holding up OK?
Do you have anyone in real life for some support?
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