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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-25-2012, 03:04 PM
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Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

I get it.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-25-2012, 01:35 PM
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Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA...:rofl:
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-24-2012, 07:10 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

Wow. Let's certainly pray for her because I too see a train wreck in the making. I hope that he doesn't let his wife down and force her to basically raise him as if he's her child. That's certainly...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-24-2012, 06:09 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

DM, how in any way, shape, or form have I suggested that a "man should just be breaking his back even if the wife gets to stay at home and eat bon bons on the couch?" Do you actually read before...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-24-2012, 05:54 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

Oh Thank you. Now that I have your approval I can sleep at night.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-24-2012, 04:08 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

Well said SA. I guess I should've had you develop this thread because you've basically articulated my point so much better than I was able to.

Overall, there has to be balance in any...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-18-2012, 09:02 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Although many may disagree with my beliefs, I do...

Although many may disagree with my beliefs, I do believe that SOME have truly stopped being men. They have no pride and will accept their wives doing it all while they sit & reap the benefits. There...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-18-2012, 08:58 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-18-2012, 07:32 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

Well said! :iagree:
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-18-2012, 07:13 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

No, you are correct. I didn't go into all of the minute details of the roles for each spouse, but just the basic responsibilities. I mean if the home need repairs, then I think it's the husband's...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-18-2012, 06:55 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

In my opinion, if the man is the sole breadwinner I assume that he's actually paying all of the bills. In this case, I believe that the SAHM is responsible for taking care of the home. This means...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 01-18-2012, 06:43 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 968
Posted By R.J.
Just decided to separate and now a divorce

I feel like it's all surreal. I just decided to finally separate from my husband and get my own place. I haven't even moved out of our current place and now I've filed for a divorce. I feel happy...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-06-2012, 03:23 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

:lol::rofl:
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-06-2012, 01:22 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

First of all, not everyone wants to dive directly into a divorce just because things aren't the way that they should be. Sometimes people want to try to fix things and to do that it may take...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-05-2012, 09:54 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 5,246
Posted By R.J.
I'm sorry. It works two ways. I just don't think...

I'm sorry. It works two ways. I just don't think that he should have to cough up so much money just because he doesn't have sole custody of the children. I could see if he wasn't contributing in...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-05-2012, 07:24 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 5,246
Posted By R.J.
Re: Are child support payments set up to be a punishment?

What if the non-custodial parent is buying school supplies EVERY semester of school, sending shoes each time b-mama call to say they're too small, sending clothes every few months because b-mama...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-05-2012, 07:15 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

:lol::rofl: lol.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-05-2012, 07:08 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 5,246
Posted By R.J.
Re: Are child support payments set up to be a punishment?

Yes you're correct that the court determines the amount of income that the non-custodial parent must pay based off of their income, but it's ridiculous what some of those percentages are.

My...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-05-2012, 06:53 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

After reviewing my example, I realize that I didn't give enough background to my friend's situation in order for you to understand why I feel he was screwed.

His exwife (wife at the time) was so...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-05-2012, 06:40 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

I have a friend who's married and share an apartment with her husband. She's doing everything for them and he takes complete advantage of it. She's planning to leave, but at this exact moment she...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 01-05-2012, 03:35 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 5,246
Posted By R.J.
Question Are child support payments set up to be a punishment?

In many cases child support obligations are so extreme that a person could hardly survive after paying out. I've met guys with payments so high that I've asked them how do they even eat. I truly...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-05-2012, 03:06 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

I definitely don't want to get into the whole child support payment topic, but I DEFINITELY disagree with you that "...divorces at the blue collar level are pretty on target for what you have to pay...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-05-2012, 02:45 PM
Replies: 618
Views: 20,689
Posted By R.J.
Re: When did men stop being men???

Many women don't just marry into a situation where the man is obviously not supportive. Sometimes the dynamics of expectations and responsibilities change after marrying and the "enabler" (as so many...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-05-2012, 02:29 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,232
Posted By R.J.
Re: Is it abuse or what?

@Lifeissweet, my husband hasn't gone to the physical abuse, but I have no doubt that it won't get to that point some day if I were to stay. The emotional and mental abuse has truly deteriorated my...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-05-2012, 02:27 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,232
Posted By R.J.
Re: Is it abuse or what?

AnewBeginning, not only would I question if we're married to the same man but I'd also question if we're the same person. Hahaha. I also DON'T take ANYTHING from anyone. I was bullied as a child and...
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