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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Today, 10:59 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 398
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Lie detectors/polygraphy article: Unreliable and pointless?

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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Today, 10:30 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 398
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Lie detectors/polygraphy article: Unreliable and pointless?

Yet eye witness testimony is almost always allowed, despite the fact that eye witness testimony can be far more unreliable. And we all know that people lie under oath all the time.

Besides...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Today, 10:23 AM
Replies: 147
Views: 2,708
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Once there's cheating....it should be over!

Same here. I divorced my ex wife because she cheated on me, and was totally unremorseful. So I thought I would never, ever go thru this again, and if I get married again, first sign of cheating and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 01:33 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

The whole "He drove me into the arms of another man" bullsh!t that I see a lot of cheaters use on their support forums.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 08:54 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

This is why they re-write the marital history in their head to justify their cheating. It wouldn't matter if you did everything right, they will find a way to justify it in their own minds. We've...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 01:19 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 765
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: My Virtual Infidelity Wrecking My Marraige

You've been separated for two years already. Time to move on. Your wife has a keylogger on the computer, which probably emails the reports to her personal email. She's controlling. Are you sure...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 10:36 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

:iagree:

Those situations are utterly incomprehensible to me. Might as well pay for the trip to bang the other man and ask her to promise to use condoms....oh wait.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 02:10 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

Why not both? One can see the different types of affairs from the stories here.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 01:06 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

Some, not all. Too bad the clown thread got deleted.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 12:38 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 16,375
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

It is a false comfort. I've always had my fWW's facebook password, since she doesn't know or is lazy to post pictures/videos herself and asks me to do it, which was fine by me. So everything is...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 12:32 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

Let's not forget the affair with trainer/instructor. In this case, the OP finds his wife in bed with her trainer/instructor, gets his ass kicked by the OM and is told to leave the bedroom and told...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 12:21 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

If I remember right, it was three clowns (face paint and all) in a foursome, and it was video taped. ;)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 11:57 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

Here's one that pisses me off since it affected this marriage:


The Reconnecting With Lost Love Affair - When they reconnect with each other through social media (i.e. facebook, classmates,etc)....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 11:49 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,812
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Wife cheated before marriage

My wife is from SE Asia, and would never dream of something like that. IF that were to happen:

Her: Shave your head for accusing me of cheating.

Me: Yeah, right! GTFO! (As I'm throwing her...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 11:45 AM
Replies: 332
Views: 16,375
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

What makes this more brazen, is that she went out with stevekimsly's coworkers, not her own (unless they work together). Did she not think word wouldn't get back to him?

Being very smart...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 11:17 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,532
Posted By lordmayhem
Can You Name The Types Of Affairs Seen Here?

Its an interesting topic and I'm interested in seeing people's answers and opinions on this.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 11:12 AM
Replies: 332
Views: 16,375
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

:iagree: :iagree: :iagree:

Seen this way too often in real life.

GNOs/BNOs - just an excuse to go to the meat market and see the wares.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 12:24 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,791
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: DDay 2

Twice, this is why 97% relationships that start out as affairs eventually end. Yours just took longer than others. You were the OM in her marriage, and she was the OW in yours.



And this from...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 02:26 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,791
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: DDay 2

I hope he hasn't abandoned this thread like his other threads because he isn't reading what he wants to hear.

Twice, don't spend your life pining away for a cheater that doesn't love you.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 12:30 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,791
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: DDay 2

Actually he doesn't need to file anything or seek legal counsel because he was never married to her (long time girlfriend) and they have already been separated for a while.

What he just needs to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-18-2013, 10:27 AM
Replies: 1,115
Views: 100,105
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

Just finished reading this thread. This particular WW is the very definition of the classic cake eater. Dreyes to her, was the provider, while she banged the OM VP and spread her legs for who knows...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-18-2013, 09:48 AM
Replies: 68
Views: 2,741
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Going to a conference with fWW

:iagree: :iagree: :iagree:

Well said. And it's a totally alpha move.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-18-2013, 12:07 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,791
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: DDay 2

Look at your previous threads:

The man she almost married (http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/70488-man-she-almost-married.html)

Stuck in neutral......
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 01:52 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 2,741
Posted By lordmayhem
Re: Going to a conference with fWW

No offense, but this is the type of general thinking that allows workplace affairs to flourish. That a man is a b!tch, or insecure if he doesn't allow his wife to go on GNOs, coworker gatherings,...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 01:45 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,883
Posted By lordmayhem
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