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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-15-2013, 02:25 PM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

doureallycare2, did you read my whole thread from when I first started this journey?

doureallycare2, being right in the middle of a divorce, nobody is in their right mind, especially if one is the...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 01-08-2013, 03:10 PM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Funny thing about time, it passes just like the seasons, I've met a rather pretty hot nurse to take care of me but then on the other hand I've also met a really young Phd student @30 years of age to...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-11-2012, 08:41 PM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

I met a new lady, maybe it is some cycle I'm on, but she's involved, how is it that ladies want to go out with you and say they have a great time and yet extend the stiff arm with the "I'm seeing...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-03-2012, 07:57 PM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Remember folks, the best revenge is NO revenge, as Mr. Spock said once quoting Confucius when departing on a path of Revenge, first dig two graves.

Just live a good life, try all the time to do...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-02-2012, 09:08 AM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Remember guys and gals, if you are in distress about a long term relationship breaking up, the blame rests 50/50 sometimes more like 30/70. We all have choice, we make the right one sometimes and...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-02-2012, 09:01 AM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

As for me, I'm in great shape. Almost have my six-pack back. I've been participating in races throughout the last year, Warrior Dash, ToughMudder some local stuff 5K, 10K et al. I'm trying to get...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-02-2012, 08:47 AM
Replies: 635
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

So the X has followed the path of her father, as I recall she cheated on me before we were married while dating, once that I know of while we were married and was probably cheating with her now...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-02-2012, 08:35 AM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

To top things off, the X-father-in-law recently was diagnosed with all sorts of cancer and a brain tumor. He's about to croak, sorry about being so callous but he's an a s s h o l e, a really big...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-02-2012, 08:29 AM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Emotionally, I'm all gone, none left, also angar-less if there is such a hyphenated word. I'm quoting Gotye "Somebody that I used to know". Yes, she has become that. I still don't look at her, I...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-02-2012, 08:24 AM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Hard to believe but 3 years have passed, really? Funny I look at my Join Date over to the left, Apr 2009. From break-up to move out to divorce.

Well the two older daughters have moved out, the...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-26-2011, 10:22 PM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

So much drama just a few short years ago, now, nothing.

If you think you are at the end of your rope, believe me, life does go on.

Things get better and as the song goes, only kindness matters....
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-26-2011, 10:19 PM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Strange how time makes things rather dull.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 07-30-2011, 12:40 AM
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Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

It's been 2 years since she left, I feel nothing towards her.

I dread the calls.

I find it particularly irritating when I receive a text from the X.

I view my texts as from family or...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 07-30-2011, 12:33 AM
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Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Just as an update, that didn't work out. The Doctor wound up being a woman of multiple interests.

I was almost a notch on her bed post.

She called them "friends". It was by accident she let...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 03-23-2011, 08:49 AM
Replies: 763
Views: 41,542
Posted By outinthecold
Re: Need advice and perspective.

Move on with your life, do something good for yourself, forget her, forget her guy.

I know it seems like thats all there is right now but you have your own problems, your own needs, your own...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 03-17-2011, 11:20 PM
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Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

I am in a better place.

I met a nice woman at my high school reunion last fall.

She is a beautiful brunette Doctor from Atlanta, milky skin.

She actually picked me up. I look pretty good,...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 12-26-2010, 11:46 PM
Replies: 635
Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

well, a year since the divorce. There is life after. I almost feel like she did not ever exist sometimes. The woman I use to know is long gone.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-10-2010, 01:24 AM
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Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Restaurant opens on Tuesday, I'm in Chicago in a training session for work. AHHHHHH

Last minute things.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 09-28-2010, 11:42 PM
Replies: 635
Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

I'm a few days from opening the restaurant, I'm still here.

It has been well over a year and a half.

Life is ok, plenty to keep me busy.

Funny thing, I'm not super religious, I'm not...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-05-2010, 02:00 PM
Replies: 763
Views: 41,542
Posted By outinthecold
Re: Need advice and perspective.

So much hassle.

Do you think people really get help here?

Moral support, YES

Emotional support, most definitely

But real help, come on.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-03-2010, 04:47 PM
Replies: 763
Views: 41,542
Posted By outinthecold
Re: Need advice and perspective.

Dear The Destroyer

Responsibilities, we all have them but as parents and spouses our responsibilities stretch wide and deep.

Never can we relinquish them.

Never can we be without them.
...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-03-2010, 09:31 AM
Replies: 635
Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

Dear Brewster 59

Thank you so much for your words.

The restaurant is my mother's dream, she handed me all the details. I have lots of help where I work being surrounded by Architects and...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-02-2010, 09:27 PM
Replies: 635
Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

I'm up, I'm opening a restaurant. I'm leaving part of my life behind.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-02-2010, 09:25 PM
Replies: 635
Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

I wish people would read what happened offering advice.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-06-2010, 11:39 PM
Replies: 635
Views: 52,562
Posted By outinthecold
Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...

I was talking to a soccer buddy of mine the other day, I had no idea he was divorced.

We've only been soccer friends on opposite teams.

We got to talking and he told me he was divorced 3...
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