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Forum: The Social Spot 05-10-2013, 10:32 AM
Replies: 20,789
Views: 207,237
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: What are you thinking right now.

Woohooo, it's FRIDAY!!!
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 05-09-2013, 11:06 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 243
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: am I going to far with this? HELP

When struggles and stress come to individuals, some use those moments as a turning point to draw nearer to God, and others seem to blame God for their problems.

The God I believe in allows us to...
Forum: Experiences in Counseling 04-19-2013, 10:36 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 927
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Marriage counseling

I couldn't help chiming in and maybe giving a little perspective from the other side of the therapy room.

1. I do think that the most important thing when trying to strengthen or heal a marriage...
Forum: Reconciliation 04-18-2013, 03:56 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,615
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: We want to reconcile, but he has a live in girlfriend.

InOverMyHeart,

I am not sure if you have answered this already, but why the change of heart to work on the marriage? Why not just give up and move on?
Forum: The Social Spot 03-18-2013, 11:18 PM
Replies: 20,789
Views: 207,237
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: What are you thinking right now.

I wish there was a way in which I could help more marriages get stronger.
Forum: Life After Divorce 03-18-2013, 11:15 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,744
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: A Question I am Seriously Struggling with

"A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships were built for."

Not trying to have another relationship after a bitter divorce is the safe route. Trying the dating scene again will always...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 11-16-2012, 11:49 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,886
Posted By Riverside MFT
Include God in Your Marriage

What does it mean to include God in your marriage?

Throughout my years as a marriage counselor, I have noticed that when people include God in their relationship that they are generally happier...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 11-11-2012, 01:53 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 341
Posted By Riverside MFT
What I Want for America

I've read a number of post election posts on here. Regardless of who you voted for in this past election, you have to admit that both Obama and Romney have solid marriages. Both value the importance...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 11-11-2012, 01:29 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 900
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: My husband chats with ex on FB

I personally think you have every reason to be upset. He wants you to trust him, but then continually gives you reason to not trust him. Chatting with exes on FB or otherwise is dangerous ground...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-01-2012, 10:41 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 3,507
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Husband Texting Daughter's Friend

This quote came from my blog.
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 09-29-2012, 02:42 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 260,180
Posted By Riverside MFT
Inexpensive at-home date ideas

I published the following on my blog at At Home Inexpesive Date Ideas (http://www.counselingwithbrian.com/blog/2009/10/26/at-home-date-ideas/)

Continued courting (dating) is one of the essential...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-18-2012, 10:01 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 699
Posted By Riverside MFT
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-18-2012, 01:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 997
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Husband confessed cheating and not being attracted to me but loves me.Now what?

Just because you make one mistake, it doesn't mean you have to keep making other mistakes. It sounds like the foundation of your marriage was pretty shaky from the beginning. It sounds like neither...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-18-2012, 01:19 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 699
Posted By Riverside MFT
Walk a Mile in Your Spouse's Shoes

Let's suppose for a moment that I have a bowl of fruit. In that bowl, there are bananas, a couple of oranges, and a couple of apples. I place the bowl of fruit in between a husband and wife so that...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-18-2012, 02:43 PM
Replies: 258
Views: 28,084
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

karma*girl
Thank you for starting this thread. In my marriage counseling practice in Southern California, I often try to explain to wives that their husbands love to see them completely naked,...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 06-07-2012, 05:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,222
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: How do you know?

I think soulmates are formed, not found. I know quite a few happily married couples who have been married for 50+ years. When I see these couples, I think of them as soulmates; however, it took...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 05-27-2012, 11:58 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,873
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Avoiding divorce

twl142,
Keep up the faith, and keep up the prayers. I love that you are completely committed to marriage.

You cannot change your husband as you know. God could change your husband, but that...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 05-18-2012, 01:37 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,890
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Wife has Checked out of Marriage and God is # 1 in her Life

I am wondering if there is anything else going on in her life, other stresses. Your retirement, was it recent? Is she dealing with any depression or other stresses? Was there something that...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-17-2012, 01:12 AM
Replies: 99
Views: 4,069
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Does your Marriage take precedence over your Kids?

If it is a first marriage and there are no children from previous relationships, the marriage absolutely comes first. However, if it is a second marriage AND there are kids from a previous...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-17-2012, 01:05 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 418
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Help!!!!

Problems with the sexual relationship in a marriage are often indicative of other marital problems. If he is willing to go to a Urologist, that would be a great place to start. Ask him if he would...
Forum: Physical & Mental Health Issues 04-18-2012, 01:34 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,083
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Depression ruining my life

I loved all of these thoughts. Don't feel overwhelmed by suggestions either. Take it one step at a time. Add one little thing each week.

In terms of your medication, it sounds like it might be...
Forum: Relationships and Addiction 03-23-2012, 01:23 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,930
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Had the LONGEST night of my life

phillybrokenheart,
I have not read through your entire story, but have read through this post and am truly amazed at your determination to change and improve yourself (i.e. not allowing your husband...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-22-2012, 11:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,453
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: I NEED to stop being my husband's mother

This is a prime example of co-dependency. He is able to function without you I imagine as he does go to work without you there, right?

I suggest you let him know that you will no longer be...
Forum: Politics and Religion 03-22-2012, 12:32 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 3,581
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: Gas Prices

I may eventually try to get my bike fixed up, or buy a new one, and ride that to work (I work 5 miles from my home).
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-22-2012, 12:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 573
Posted By Riverside MFT
Re: 3 weeks ago today I found out that MH cheated on me

I'm happy for you that you are working on your marriage. If you do renew your vows, don't invite the OW. She doesn't need to be a part of what you and your husband have together.
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