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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-18-2011, 10:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 671
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: He Started again!

lordmayhem: I have a few people ask me about that, I guess because there are so many bad memories in this house. While I was gone with the kids to help my mom who had surgeries, he brought the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-17-2011, 06:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 671
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: He Started again!

Thanks. I thank god for this place, sometimes the advice can be hard to hear but it's always helpful. Being able to come here and vent and get support is so great, thank you to all! ((((hugz))))
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-17-2011, 06:12 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,746
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: This Site Has...

:iagree: I agree!
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-16-2011, 08:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 671
Posted By SeekingSerenity
He Started again!

Well, I knew something was up. I had that uneasy feeling. So I went down and checked his computer. He gives me open access, but he has been acting weird as you can see from my getting tested post....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-30-2011, 04:56 PM
Replies: 85
Views: 4,015
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: I feel like he's being rewarded for cheating

BTW he had a pa with her 6 years later.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-30-2011, 04:54 PM
Replies: 85
Views: 4,015
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: I feel like he's being rewarded for cheating

I often wonder about female THerapists. We went to one and she did the same, beat me up and even hubby agreed she did more harm then good. We went 6 years ago when I found out hubby was having an...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-19-2011, 05:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 475
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: What does it mean?

JellyBean, I have to thank you so much for posting, I follow your posts and thank you for your honesty. It really does help see things from 2 sides and know that people do make mistakes and change. ...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-19-2011, 11:39 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 475
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: What does it mean?

Thanks HerToo, I would be very interested to hear what comes out of your session. He went to work but unfortunately work is where he started his EA that was in the background on and off for a few...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-19-2011, 11:26 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,229
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-19-2011, 11:08 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 7,206
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Should I move out?

They do make you feel like you are crazy, my spouse for years has been telling me that I deserve someone better than him, yada yada yada, I have been hearing this for years, I tell you they are so...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-19-2011, 10:46 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 9,345
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: The Betrayed Spouse Script

Thank you Lord Mayhem, that is an excellent post and lets the rest of us know that this is what we may or may not feel, but it's ok, this is what happens when you are betrayed.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-18-2011, 12:19 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 475
Posted By SeekingSerenity
What does it mean?

My DD was July 14th and I have been hanging on by a thread, I am ready to call it quits. He says he want to move forward, there is transparency but I don't feel it. It feels like he holds back his...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-18-2011, 10:18 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 727
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Approaching 2 yrs from D-Day....

I keep reading that two years out, you are still in pain, I am only 3 months out and I must say this does not give me hope, I couldn't take that,,,... I think for me the writing is on the wall
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-18-2011, 09:54 AM
Replies: 54
Views: 3,256
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Fustrated WW....do I need more patience?

He is right, I am 3 months out from D-day and can't even comprend that it will take 2-5 years or long to recover, if anything pisses me off that I have to even try to go through all that to get back...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-18-2011, 09:48 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 3,617
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: telling the other spouse

:iagree: But it is a hard thing to do
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-18-2011, 09:44 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 968
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-03-2011, 09:50 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 4,332
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: It's killing me

Sammy3... I am so sorry, I came on this board and I read and read and I felt like you and I had a lot in common so I was so sad to read that it was heading for D. :(

It has now been almosty 3...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 09-28-2011, 06:23 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 847
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Loser checking out

If I didn't know better, I would think you were my husband. He said the same thing over and over to me... I deserve better, he is a loser... all that you are saying.

Please get yourself help...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-31-2011, 05:29 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,603
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: It is different...

:iagree:

This could have been written by me. I said the same thing to spouse today. I soooo want me back, the person I was before the affair. It hurts so much..... I so know how you feel and I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-08-2011, 09:50 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 709
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-08-2011, 09:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 791
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Need advise about separation

((((Hugs to you Sammy)))) Be strong and be true to yourself!
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-08-2011, 09:27 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 4,081
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Removing thoughts from your mind - long term

I would love to hear others thoughts as well, granted I am only 3 weeks out, but I don't thimk I could take months upon months of this.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-07-2011, 09:23 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 791
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Need advise about separation

Sammy I am so sorry it is coming to this. You seem to have the same problem I do, my H is gone a lot and it just makes things worse, how can you work on stuff when the aren't home. For me when he...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-07-2011, 09:12 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 624
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: Spoke with attorney yesterday

Good Luck and do whats right for you~
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-04-2011, 09:21 AM
Replies: 55
Views: 8,074
Posted By SeekingSerenity
Re: I'm having an emotional affair

No matter what you say, cheating is cheating and having an emotional affair destroys your marriage. No matter how much you say it doesn't, there is no way you can give your all to your spouse and...
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