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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-07-2013, 10:58 PM
Replies: 231
Views: 11,033
Posted By Shamwow
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

Agreed. Just saying he needs to do something besides ask her questions about who she's with and what they did (which she shrugs off), and let her keep his phone from him when he asks to use it for a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-07-2013, 09:17 PM
Replies: 231
Views: 11,033
Posted By Shamwow
With all due respect, he has. Maybe not with the...

With all due respect, he has. Maybe not with the proper tone from the get go, but she shrugs off his concerns.

PI could take care of his doubts in a night or two.
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-07-2013, 01:13 PM
Replies: 231
Views: 11,033
Posted By Shamwow
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

We know you don't want to "resort" to this sort of thing, but you're here for a reason...because you have a feeling you can't shake and want to get to the bottom of it so you can move on knowing your...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-07-2013, 01:09 PM
Replies: 231
Views: 11,033
Posted By Shamwow
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

PI would be the best, as they know what they're doing and won't be recognized. Second best would be a friend of yours, preferably one she doesn't know (hard to find, I know). Last resort would be...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-07-2013, 11:03 AM
Replies: 231
Views: 11,033
Posted By Shamwow
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

I know the "spying" is hard to do...though when you find something amiss it gets easier real quick.

Look, do what makes you happy. If you are getting the vibe that these changes are okay now, and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-03-2013, 01:06 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 9,069
Posted By Shamwow
AGREED. Yes, those are things that you would be...

AGREED. Yes, those are things that you would be fine to demand if she agrees to NC and begs you for a chance to R. Barring that (which you yourself seem sure isn't going to happen), if you lay all...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-03-2013, 09:42 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 9,069
Posted By Shamwow
While you are following some of the specific...

While you are following some of the specific advice you've been given here (which puts you ahead of most new posters), methinks your execution and delivery when dealing with your W is probably off...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-01-2013, 11:51 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,682
Posted By Shamwow
Sure did, about a year ago. Profile pic is...

Sure did, about a year ago. Profile pic is currently my gf and I in front of a castle in Wales. (a real castle, not a White Castle...)
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-29-2013, 03:48 PM
Replies: 231
Views: 11,033
Posted By Shamwow
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

She has an iPhone, so after checking her cell bill if you find numbers you're unaware of or seem suspicious, you can see her actual texts by accessing the backup file on the computer she syncs her...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-20-2013, 12:29 PM
Replies: 69
Views: 3,463
Posted By Shamwow
You may already know this, but since it's an...

You may already know this, but since it's an iPhone you can access her call logs and text history (including the actual deleted texts) if you have access to the computer she syncs to. Even Skype chat...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-20-2013, 11:36 AM
Replies: 69
Views: 3,463
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Need Help!

What kind of phone does she have?
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-13-2013, 11:09 PM
Replies: 497
Views: 31,648
Posted By Shamwow
Totally. She doesn't know where he lives and her...

Totally. She doesn't know where he lives and her cousin is her friend? C'mon. Get that address and phone number and let OMW know. She will be extremely grateful and will have helpful info for you. At...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-11-2013, 08:34 PM
Replies: 1,236
Views: 81,938
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Just found out...need advice :(

We understand the pushback, but I doubt he was mocking you Torn. Take it how you will, as it's okay and *expected* to have concern for your wife's feelings through all of this (if you didn't you'd...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-11-2013, 07:00 PM
Replies: 1,236
Views: 81,938
Posted By Shamwow
Thanks for the props, but basically what I...

Thanks for the props, but basically what I learned here during my experience changed my life, and what new posters need to realize is the same thing I did...things are not always as they seem, love...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-11-2013, 06:27 PM
Replies: 1,236
Views: 81,938
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Just found out...need advice :(

And absolutely find out who the OM is, stat. Peruse her cell records. Find his name, google him, find out his marital status, address, age, etc. Probably no need to ask your wife about him again...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-11-2013, 06:19 PM
Replies: 1,236
Views: 81,938
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Just found out...need advice :(

You go back to the house and tell her to leave until you decide differently. Yes she's your hs sweetheart...yes she's pregnant...yes you want to treat her like your lil princess as you always planned...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-07-2013, 02:27 AM
Replies: 497
Views: 31,648
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?

Are you cheating? No (we presume). She has failed your marriage and your family by taking her marital issues elsewhere instead of facing them with you or divorcing you. We all have failings and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-07-2013, 02:24 AM
Replies: 497
Views: 31,648
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?

Agree, but not until you have confronted with your proof, otherwise you're the dude asking her mommy and daddy to fix it for you, while she's telling them (and YOU) that you're crazy. Tell them when...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-07-2013, 02:18 AM
Replies: 497
Views: 31,648
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?

Yes, but only after you confront her with evidence. If you call them for help now you'll look like a giant pu$$y.



Sucks. Has to happen sometimes though. Not saying it's inevitable in your...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-07-2013, 02:15 AM
Replies: 497
Views: 31,648
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?

:iagree:

Athol Kay, MMSL Primer. Download it and read asap.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-07-2013, 02:00 AM
Replies: 497
Views: 31,648
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?

Because you're realizing the gravity of the situation and starting to detach. That's a good thing. She can try to win your trust back but you know that this is going to be a huge deal once the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-07-2013, 01:33 AM
Replies: 497
Views: 31,648
Posted By Shamwow
Re: Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?

Steal her phone. Oops, she can't find it tomorrow. Then go sit at a diner in the next town and wait for d-bag to send her a text. Preferably do this in the hours just before he is normally texting...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-06-2013, 09:31 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,682
Posted By Shamwow
Re: gf's cousin just confided an A to her...

agreed.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-06-2013, 08:47 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,682
Posted By Shamwow
Re: gf's cousin just confided an A to her...

Missed these comments, haven't been around much lately.

GF's cousin is now divorced since December. She eventually told her (now) ex-H that there was someone else. He just kinda backed out and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-27-2013, 02:04 AM
Replies: 98
Views: 16,639
Posted By Shamwow
AGREED. Tell her you have the proof, textual and...

AGREED. Tell her you have the proof, textual and visual. If she demands the visual you give it to her...she deserves the truth in whatever form she requests. She's in your shoes, just perhaps with...
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