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Forum: Politics and Religion Today, 09:38 PM
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A fool is quick to condemn what he doesn't...

A fool is quick to condemn what he doesn't understand. A wise man is slow to condemn what he does understand.
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Forum: Politics and Religion Yesterday, 11:15 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 391
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If you want to rant along with him about how gay...

If you want to rant along with him about how gay are shoving their lifestyle down our throats, how you want to make Obama drink an entire barrel of crude oil, then by all means, take our place at the...
Forum: Politics and Religion Yesterday, 02:37 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 391
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Are your political views driving people away?

I love political discussions that are thoughtful, respectful, open, and not filled with hateful rhetoric and non-nonsensical name-calling. I can't have a conversation with my FIL b/c he doesn't want...
Forum: Politics and Religion Yesterday, 01:51 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 391
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Are your political views driving people away?

My H admitted to me the other night that he no longer likes visiting his own family, that he now sees much of what I've been saying for a while now. I asked him how he came to this point and he...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge Yesterday, 11:44 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 2,242
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: At a loss with the man gender!

That may be the case, Sam. If so, the best thing we can do is support her on her journey. Acting outwardly tough is a first step to finding your inner strength. It is like a scab over a wound; it is...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge Yesterday, 11:24 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 2,242
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: At a loss with the man gender!

One of the best pieces of advice I've taken to heart is this: Trust those who are trustworthy.

If someone shows themselves to not be trustworthy, don't let them in!

And don't look at this as a...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse Yesterday, 11:13 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 773
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What's the difference between leading in a relationship and being a bully

It sounds like you are a reasonable person who is willing to talk things through. However, there are two sides to every story.

My H will think everything through in his head, minus my input, then...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse Yesterday, 11:02 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,277
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Poll: Women's Sex Drives

I think excluding the short-term relationships will give you the best answer here. Generalizing here, but I think that most couples are having more sex during the passionate honeymoon phase. If...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse Yesterday, 10:47 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,624
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Are the fantasies of the average man shaped by porn?

Wolf's wife:? "He loves those horrible porn movies!"
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge Yesterday, 10:14 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 2,242
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: At a loss with the man gender!

I've known lots of women who are "tough" on the outside, and it's usually a result of trying to protect themselves following some kind of painful experience. It could be that they've had to face...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 11-21-2014, 03:32 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,415
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Do kids hold your marriage together?

In this day and age, you really can't expect someone to stay married for the kids. She was right on that point. And many kids do have divorced parents. Right again.

Whether she's off to her party...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-21-2014, 03:11 PM
Replies: 512
Views: 8,214
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Is feminism misunderstood?

That's a great idea. It might actually deter some cheating, too! There otta be a law!
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-21-2014, 02:00 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 415
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-21-2014, 01:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 415
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Joint custody, taxes, FSA, Qs about $

Sky - I appreciate your concern. I have been doing the math and it looks like I will need and should expect some child support. I'm not expecting to live high on the hog; just a decent two bedroom...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-21-2014, 01:17 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 415
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Joint custody, taxes, FSA, Qs about $

This is from the IRS Publication 503 Child and Dependent Care Expenses:

The custodial parent is the parent with whom the child
lived for the greater number of nights in 2013. If the child
was...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-18-2014, 02:31 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 415
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-18-2014, 01:15 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 415
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Joint custody, taxes, FSA, Qs about $

So I just finished open enrollment at work. Last year I set aside money in a dependent care FSA, but I looked into it this year and based on the fact that I'm considering joint custody (we each are...
Forum: Politics and Religion 11-12-2014, 03:26 PM
Replies: 396
Views: 4,755
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: US two-party dominance

But this assumes that all the people in a party actually agree with the political stance and actions of that party. If our only choices are black or white, then we have to accept all that comes with...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-12-2014, 12:21 PM
Replies: 832
Views: 53,137
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Seeking Advice

Thanks. I was looking for posts by him, which is why I missed it.

1 liter is the equivalent of about 20 generous shots a day.

HB - I'm sorry to read this, and I do encourage you to get help.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-12-2014, 12:09 PM
Replies: 832
Views: 53,137
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Seeking Advice

I don't have time to read 500+ threads here. I've read plenty, including the one where you admitted to deleting your posts about how much you drink. Hello pot, my name's kettle.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-12-2014, 11:52 AM
Replies: 832
Views: 53,137
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Seeking Advice

AMU would need to answer that one, but I will say that people often chose to stay with alcoholics despite every reason to leave.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-12-2014, 11:50 AM
Replies: 832
Views: 53,137
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Seeking Advice

OK. Still would love to see it, but I'm done searching.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-12-2014, 11:47 AM
Replies: 832
Views: 53,137
Posted By SurpriseMyself
You can answer the question in 30 seconds. Why...

You can answer the question in 30 seconds. Why aren't you?
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-12-2014, 11:46 AM
Replies: 832
Views: 53,137
Posted By SurpriseMyself
His drinking is present tense. Her infidelity is...

His drinking is present tense. Her infidelity is past tense. She isn't cheating now, but he is drinking still. Can't fix what you won't acknowledge.
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-12-2014, 11:43 AM
Replies: 832
Views: 53,137
Posted By SurpriseMyself
I know one person who can.... Posted via Mobile...

I know one person who can....
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