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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 01-02-2013, 08:15 AM
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Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Been a long time since I posted. Here's an update on things:

My wife and I reconciled in mid-March last year. We decided to "date" each other for a while and see how things went. She apologized...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-03-2012, 11:33 AM
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Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

The apartment looked really nice. New carpet. Fresh paint.

Kids are doing good for the most part. I've had them pretty much all week and this weekend.

I have therapy on Monday before mediation...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-03-2012, 11:29 AM
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Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I laughed. For a second or so.

She texted me again asking about tomorrow.

I responded and said that I was real busy and we'd discuss it later. I plan to tell her that she's not coming over....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-03-2012, 09:08 AM
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Posted By bmichael
I'm not sure that's something I want... ...

I'm not sure that's something I want...

Also, she's already text'd me this morning to tell me she's no longer going out of town today and will be around if I need help with the kids. This is my...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 08:16 PM
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Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I didn't get any sense of where she was going. She was just filling me in and spilling her guts like we weren't separated. Yet, she still said she didn't want to be married.

I think she knows she...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 07:55 PM
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Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Things about her schedule, the fact that it's more complicated now than it was before. No clue how she could look after our kids properly during the week. Things about her lawyer, things her lawyer...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 05:36 PM
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Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Absolutely.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 05:34 PM
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Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

She didn't.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 03:34 PM
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Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

She did willingly give up a lot of details yesterday. A lot of things I didn't know.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 03:33 PM
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Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

No.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 03:19 PM
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Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I'm in North Carolina.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 02:59 PM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

This in addition to yesterday is just crazy and I don't know what to think about any of it. I wasn't expecting it at all.

Emotional rollercoaster is trying to start up again after I had shut it...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 01:46 PM
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Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I deflected and switched the subject.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 01:26 PM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

The drama keeps rolling...

Wife called about our mediation appointment today but then she said something about coming over to the house on Sunday night to watch a TV show that we use to watch...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 07:28 AM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I didn't really think about this until afterward and that's what I'm thinking as well. I probably torpedoed that case. :(

On the other hand, it left my wife kinda vulnerable I guess because she...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 07:10 AM
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Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I'm going to talk to the lawyer today about it.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 07:09 AM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I don't think that's the case, and I don't know if I'd be up for it either. I don't think it was anything more than just sex. At least that's the way I'm looking at it because it hasn't changed the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-01-2012, 10:13 PM
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Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

To change my stance on primary custody.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-01-2012, 09:24 PM
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Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Hasn't affected my resolve at all. Maybe even increased it since I recognize that she was trying to manipulate me.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-01-2012, 09:20 PM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

She did...

She said at lunch that she was wanting sex very badly since it's been four months. Then she said something about sex again at the apartment... and one thing lead to another.:mad:
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-01-2012, 09:16 PM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Ahhhh!!!

Really screwed up today and I'm ready for all the bashing and chewing out that comes along with it...

Mistake #1: After listening to my wife sniffle tears during the mediation...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-01-2012, 09:26 AM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Appears to only be an information session. We'll find out who are mediator is going to be and when the actual mediation starts.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-29-2012, 09:27 PM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

EA or mid life crisis or both. It doesn't matter. I'm focused only on the welfare of my children at this point.

Had a good talk to my 17 yr old tonight about what happened yesterday.

Mediation...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-29-2012, 10:24 AM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Maybe I'm too tired or stressed out, but I'm not sure what this means...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-29-2012, 09:42 AM
Replies: 493
Views: 38,545
Posted By bmichael
Re: Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

I've been trying to avoid this but I guess it's really the only thing I can do.

She sent me an email this morning trying to tell me how to parent my kids. LOL.

My son has slept a few nights...
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