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Forum: Life After Divorce 07-27-2012, 12:03 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 668
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Fighting back the anxiety

You guys are great. I do go to counseling, ride my bike most days, have a great job and awesome friends. I guess I just keep thinking it will get better and it still shocks me when I get hit with...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-24-2012, 11:19 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 668
Posted By madaboutlove
Fighting back the anxiety

My Ex H told me in Dec'10 that he wanted a D, moved out in April '11 and the D was final in May. I wanted nothing to do with it. I was shopping in Home Depot today and bang, anxiety attack. Just...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-22-2012, 08:48 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,281
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: 2.5 years after the divorce-just hang on

I am looking forward to completing my PhD. I am looking forward to my son's growing in their careers, getting married, giving me grandbabies. I look forward to someone holding me, making me a cup of...
Forum: Life After Divorce 06-17-2012, 01:30 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,514
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Do you ever get over it?

Oh good, thought I was crazy, still so caught up in him. Even when I am out, looking good, thinking about maybe meeting another man, it just hits me that it might happen and then what will I do? I...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-23-2012, 08:15 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,531
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Ok, I have to ask this question...

I agree, my marriage vows meant something to me, but now I am divorced. Been out on some dinner dates with an old friend, think about more, its been a long time with no loving, but since my X was my...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-23-2012, 07:53 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,514
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Do you ever get over it?

My D was final just a week ago, so I am no expert on how to deal with this. I will tell you that I have more good days, days I don't dwell on the loss, than bad days now. SOmetimes, though, it is...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-03-2012, 06:13 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,191
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: would you rather

More than 18 months for me and while I am looking forward to sex again, I definitely need there to be a connection. I want someone who makes me feel like a woman again, all the romance and...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-03-2012, 06:10 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 365
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: First time Here

Wow, that does sound rough, amazing that you have put up with it this long. Can you and your daughter find a way to get out of this relationship safely?
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-03-2012, 06:01 PM
Replies: 78
Views: 5,351
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: All of this talk about dating......

Paradise, I love the mountain analogy, thought I was at the top for a long time, realized I'd been slipping down and now that I have been at the bottom, its time to pick myself up and start the climb...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-03-2012, 05:53 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 570
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: dday anniversary

The final paper work will come in the next 2 weeks, dreading the day but also looking forward to it as a chance to move forward. Tomorrow is a double whammy for me, 30 years ago our first date, then...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-03-2012, 05:50 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,265
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Dealing with the aftermath & future

Shoo, that is so true. I won't say my stbxh is emotionally abusive, but so much of our relationship was about what made him happy and not me. And I thought I was happy making him happy, too busy to...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-02-2012, 10:18 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,265
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Dealing with the aftermath & future

War-sounds just like me, 28 years married, this Friday would be 30 years since our first date. Sucks to be here, but when my D is final this month, I am going to use that date to look no where but...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-25-2012, 08:23 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,141
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: When they dont like themselves...

I thought I might find something here to say, I think my stbxh is having a MLC, he is unhappy with lots of parts of his life, but I have decided not to think about that or talk about it with others...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-16-2012, 08:57 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,251
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: When she emails...

If you are paying her some child support, maybe you can send it directly to the child care instead of to her. SO glad my kids are adults going through this
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-16-2012, 08:54 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 9,993
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: So how long has it been?

I want someone to tell me I am pretty and want to touch me and just generally be looking forward to spending time with me. I am no dope, I know that dating or dinner or going to the movies is going...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-15-2012, 09:35 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 9,993
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: So how long has it been?

Oh yes, crying and pleasuring all at the same time, I know what you mean
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-15-2012, 07:50 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,070
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: You know...

My son said he was sad that the 4 of us would never be together again and I said that wouldn't happen, so its up to me to do it when it won't be too overwhelming for me
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-15-2012, 07:48 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 9,993
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: So how long has it been?

My last time with my STBXH was October, 2011 so more than 18 months and I am really feeling the pressure. I was so used to being able to have sex whenever I wanted it. And we were good in the...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-15-2012, 07:25 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,070
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: You know...

Still waiting for the final judgement to arrive, but I feel the lose everyday. Today was our youngest son's birthday, 23. We went out for dinner and I asked my STBXH to come with us. First time I...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-10-2012, 02:28 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 374
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: And I'm being nasty?

Keep track of all that communication. It might prove useful in custody hearings. And I would get that attorney and use them for all communication from now on
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-10-2012, 02:25 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 835
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: finally

I am so much better than I was a year ago, two or 3 steps forward (good days) for every bad one. Still, its kind of scary when it hits, especially when you don't expect it. Good for us, being here...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-10-2012, 02:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 686
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Can't make sense of it

OK, I have to confess here, during my IC this week I realized that I may be creating my own "monster" by communicating with my STBXH. I have asked him to stay away and not communicate, but then I...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-08-2012, 07:35 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 2,951
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: The ole "Seven Year Itch"

Does the 7 year itch thing count if you multiply it by 4? 28 years, we have certainly had lows before, not sure if they coincided with 7's but this one sure did. And it is definitely related to MLC....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-08-2012, 07:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 456
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Random realization

wow, I love my in-laws, and want to see and keep in touch with them, but I cannot handle seeing my STBXH right now. I didn't get to see them for Easter, just did my side, while my sons went to...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-08-2012, 07:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 686
Posted By madaboutlove
Re: Can't make sense of it

That might be it exactly. He came to day and took the remainder of his belongings, I have been asking for months for him to do that. I mean I guess in one sense, it makes some sense since we have...
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