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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-17-2013, 05:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 275
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Not revealing feelings = dishonesty?

It's called the Policy of Radical Honesty and you can read about it here

The Policy of Radical Honesty (http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3900_honesty.html)

My hubby and I have done...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-17-2013, 05:13 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,007
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Sexually Frustrated

FIRST big mistake - why on earth would you marry someone who gave you an ultimatum to do so???



SECOND big mistake - marrying someone for whom you feel no sexual attraction. Especially in...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-17-2013, 05:00 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 364
Posted By Hope1964
Re: In major need of advice

So exactly why are you with him, when you KNOW there are far better guys out there?

It really sounds like the two of you do not belong together. Sorry.
Forum: The Social Spot 05-17-2013, 04:57 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 1,314
Posted By Hope1964
Re: What do you Love about TAM?

I am the same!! I just cannot be bothered to maintain close friendships. And I really don't miss it much. My kids, my marriage, my extended family, my garden, my kitchen, my hobbies - my energy is...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-17-2013, 04:28 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 364
Posted By Hope1964
Re: In major need of advice

Breaking your post into paragraphs would really help a lot.

I skimmed your post but cannot find anything the two of you have in common. Why do you stay together?
Forum: Politics and Religion 05-17-2013, 04:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 210
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Thoughts on the “Quiverfull Movement”

My husband is a history fanatic, and he read this book (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Next_100_Years) which apparently asserts that world population will level off at some point and perhaps even...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-17-2013, 04:00 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,265
Posted By Hope1964
Re: It's the wife's job to stop guys from cheating...

I don't entirely agree with this. It's true for some, but there are people who use the state of their marriage as an excuse to cheat, who wouldn't have allowed themselves to step over that line if...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-17-2013, 03:41 PM
Replies: 84
Views: 3,207
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Question for those whose spouses like to watch them masturbate

My husband thinking he HAS to make me orgasm every single time actually irritates me. Most of the time, sure, I do like that he makes sure I do, but there ARE times I would just like to be able to...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-17-2013, 03:27 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,265
Posted By Hope1964
Re: It's the wife's job to stop guys from cheating...

Yes, HNHN talks about 'affairproofing' the marriage. But that's something both partners need to work on TOGETHER. It certainly isn't all up to the woman. And creating an environment where partners...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 03:23 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,702
Posted By Hope1964
Re: How would you handle your WS throwing sex with their AP in your face during a fig

I gotta tell ya, your reaction to what he said, taken completely out of context the way it is here, is something I would NEVER say to my husband. But then, I think our overall relationship is in a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 03:00 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,702
Posted By Hope1964
Re: How would you handle your WS throwing sex with their AP in your face during a fig

My husband was the one who cheated. If I think I have the right to throw that in his face all the time, he is welcome to divorce me, as he should. But if he EVER threw what he did in my face like...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-17-2013, 02:56 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,265
Posted By Hope1964
Re: It's the wife's job to stop guys from cheating...

I am not going to bother to watch the video. All I have to say is that Pat Robertson can kiss my heiney and I hope it rips his lips off.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 02:54 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,702
Posted By Hope1964
Re: How would you handle your WS throwing sex with their AP in your face during a fig

This. A hundred times.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-17-2013, 02:33 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 862
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Romance Novels VS Porn

I think it depends entirely on the person looking at it, whether it be pictures or words. Different people process information in different ways. Some people are far more affected by pictures, and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 11:35 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 546
Posted By Hope1964
Re: what to do

Tina, read my story. What my husband did is similar to what yours is doing. Yours may or may not be a sex addict, but he is very obviously NOT at a point where he's willing to address the question....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 11:30 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 600
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Marriage Counseling

I am really glad to read this. My earlier comment was a product of your history - the fact that your husband continually has shut you down to the point you just didn't bother trying to talk to him...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 11:23 AM
Replies: 80
Views: 2,710
Posted By Hope1964
Re: A Thread For Wayward/Wandering/Disloyal Spouses

I totally agree. You need your own thread.

I also am glad you haven't left. You sound so hopeless. You've resigned yourself to a life of just taking whatever your wife dishes out to you because...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2013, 05:23 PM
Replies: 97
Views: 3,717
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Thoughts about password sharing...

:iagree: :iagree: :iagree: I love having you on TAM. now. I guess you kinda figured, I wasn't too thrilled at first :)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2013, 05:13 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 546
Posted By Hope1964
Re: what to do

Careful with this. Sex addiction does NOT mean they want sex all the time. My husband's a sex addict and pretty LD. Not really badly LD, just moreso than I am.

That said, there are some...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-16-2013, 05:08 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 770
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Unreasonable Request??

Maybe you are TOO much of a good guy??

If I were you I'd be trying to get to the bottom of it. Don't just shrug and let it go - it's a red flag. A small one, but one nonetheless.
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 05-16-2013, 05:04 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 409
Posted By Hope1964
Re: am I missing out on life?

Well, you can try MC, but by the time you figure out he isn't going to change, you'll be that much older. You're already at the upper limit of when it's a good idea to have a baby. Plus, if you...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2013, 04:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 546
Posted By Hope1964
Re: what to do

There's a thread about evidence gathering in CWI somewhere you could search up, or start your own post about phone spyware. I am no expert at all, but others here are. Include what type of phone it...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-16-2013, 04:46 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 770
Posted By Hope1964
Re: Unreasonable Request??

That's what I mean - why would she do that??
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2013, 04:35 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 546
Posted By Hope1964
Re: what to do

Oh, and get tested for STD's
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2013, 04:33 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 546
Posted By Hope1964
Re: what to do

Too bad you confronted already - he'll be taking things farther underground now.

Get a keylogger for his computer, put spyware on his phone, look at his bank accounts and credit card statements,...
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