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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-25-2012, 12:37 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 491
Posted By melissa68
Re: Still can't get past this

Hugs....I think living so close and seeing each other almost daily would make it hard for anyone to move on especially when you still have feelings and wishes for a reconciliation. Limbo is an...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-22-2012, 10:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 340
Posted By melissa68
Re: Filed today

My stbxh did the same...abandoned us, cheated....hasent seen or talked to his son in 7 months or supported him financially....and all during that time what I get are jabs to file...so I did just...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-15-2012, 11:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 396
Posted By melissa68
Re: Tmws serving day

You can do it angel! YOU are an amazing person and deserve far more than you've gotten in your marriage. When the time comes hold your head up high and know that he is the one losing out. No...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-15-2012, 10:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 396
Posted By melissa68
Re: Tmws serving day

Today was good...got off work and went to pay for the filing fees. One moment of sadness and I turned it off quickly...no more tears for someone that doesn't even acknowledge I'm still alive.
I...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-15-2012, 12:08 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 396
Posted By melissa68
Tmws serving day

So tmw I go to finish filing for divorce and have my stbxh served. I'm having mixed feelings tonight. Did I want this? no But I found it in this life that its not always what you...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-14-2012, 11:43 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
Re: I'm back

[QUOTE=canguy66;984661]Oh man... that made me smile.

Melissa - great to hear you're doing better. The independence and strength you've achieved is an inspiration to TAM members.[/QUOTE}

Thank...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-14-2012, 11:40 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
Re: I'm back

Missed everyone! Next week the kiddos start school so I might "just might" be able to squeeze in a few mins to myself. lol

So how are you???
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-14-2012, 11:38 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
Re: I'm back

Awww you're so sweet to take the time to update me! lol
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-14-2012, 12:29 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
Re: I'm back

Thank you sad! You know what? I am too...I still have too many days that I wish he would just "wake up" and realize what he gave up but I know thats not going to happen and more importantly I'm...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-14-2012, 12:03 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
Re: I'm back

Well I should be done tonite then! haha
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-14-2012, 12:02 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
Re: I'm back

Hi sadwithouthim,

I filed here in Nevada and I have to serve him....which I am doing on Weds...once I do that he has 20 days to respond....if he responds by filing with the court then he will have...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-13-2012, 11:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
Re: I'm back

Thank you Conrad. It really does feel amazing....I jumped off the cliff and I landed on my feet not my....uh....behind.
I'd be lying if I said I didn't think about him but I don't call, I don't...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-13-2012, 10:58 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By melissa68
I'm back

Hi all!
I hope some of you will remember me. I've been so crazy busy the last few months but in a good way. I've missed so many updates though and am ready to do some catching up.
If you...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-24-2012, 09:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 603
Posted By melissa68
Re: Questioning my decisions

I'm sorry unsure...I know how hard it is as a mom to even comprehend thinking about leaving your child much less actually acting on it. I know from past experience with my first H and my older...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-23-2012, 11:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 603
Posted By melissa68
Re: Questioning my decisions

jpr and Traggy thank you for your responses. I really sat back and thought hard and realized that my doubt came from one of my sisters feeling bad that I hadn't wanted to move by her instead and she...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-20-2012, 10:25 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 602
Posted By melissa68
Re: Help me get my head out of my @$$

Seems a lot of us are going through this lately...I guess it's par for the course...no golf pun intended :) but seriously....I think its just part of the progression....its been hitting me a lot...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-20-2012, 08:43 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 603
Posted By melissa68
Questioning my decisions

ok so I had thought that my decision to move away from here and by family was a good one...a positive one for me and the boys. My stbxh has made very little to no noise about even seeing our...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-19-2012, 11:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 554
Posted By melissa68
Re: Filed for child support...should of done it a long time ago

Thank you Traggy....I hope so too!
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-19-2012, 07:29 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 554
Posted By melissa68
Re: Filed for child support...should of done it a long time ago

Thank you jpr :) I keep second guessing myself if I should of started anything including child support with the courts right before I'm wanting to move but I wanted to have something in place before...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-19-2012, 11:04 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 554
Posted By melissa68
Re: Filed for child support...should of done it a long time ago

Thank you Pluto. I'm lucky to have my boys! :)
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-19-2012, 11:03 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 473
Posted By melissa68
Re: Ahh! I can't believe I am in this situation! Do you think I'm overreacting?

Your initial reaction was panic....not anger or frustration or confusion but panic...trust your instincts. The first thing that popped out at me about your post was that you've been staying with...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-19-2012, 10:54 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 554
Posted By melissa68
Re: Filed for child support...should of done it a long time ago

Thank you! I'm glad I decided to do the ceremony and all that.

How are you doing? Any more contact with your stbx?
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-19-2012, 10:51 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 554
Posted By melissa68
Re: Filed for child support...should of done it a long time ago

lol well I'd let you if I knew you and knew were you were haha
It feels really good to have finished and I couldnt resist sending him an announcement...kind of a "you didn't break me" thing.
I'm...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-18-2012, 10:34 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,845
Posted By melissa68
Re: What do you want in your new relationship?

I want someone who is even tempered...doesn't get upset over the slightest things and doesn't turn small things in to wars. I want someone who loves me more than he loves "being right".
I want...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 04-18-2012, 10:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 554
Posted By melissa68
Filed for child support...should of done it a long time ago

So today I finally filed the paperwork to order child support from my stbxh. I really should of done it months ago but better late than never. I debated whether or not I should wait until I move...
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