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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-03-2013, 12:37 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,026
Posted By MEM11363
=Caprice Stick to your plan. Stop...

=Caprice
Stick to your plan.

Stop discussing it because you have already explained it
Perfectly clearly to her.

The more you 'talk', no matter what you say, she hears weakness and ...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-02-2013, 12:47 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 873
Posted By MEM11363
Re: How men deal with anger

MyselfAgain,
My quick temper has sometimes been problematic in life which is why this topic is near and dear to me.

Anger tends to be physiologically different for men and women primarily due...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-29-2013, 01:05 PM
Replies: 144
Views: 3,763
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Well it has happened...

Naga,
I am really happy to hear that. This stuff did not come naturally to me either. But it's worth it.

The banter, the wrestling, is fun. When my W is being.....

Freeze the frame here:...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 03-29-2013, 12:36 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,580
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Your weekly "maintenance" routine

Maricha,
My best friend is the type who likes the 'full gear'. So I did that list. Me - I like the ivory girl look.

The Good Wife doesn't do:
- mani/pedi/facials nor
- really expensive hair...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 03-29-2013, 01:21 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,580
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Your weekly "maintenance" routine

In terms of effort, no comparison.

When evaluating the result, again no comparison.

No man can withstand the power of:
A mature, playful, fit, attractive woman sheathed in battle garb:...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-28-2013, 05:59 PM
Replies: 144
Views: 3,763
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Well it has happened...

F8,
It is my intent to help. Judge for yourself.

1. Your wife genuinely likes you
2. You have both had some respect issues with regard to one another. Hers are major, and in my opinion yours...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-28-2013, 01:19 PM
Replies: 144
Views: 3,763
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Well it has happened...

F8,
If you like, I will try to summarize:
- your situation for the last two years
- what it is you NEED from your wife and
- ideally what you additionally WANT from her if she is able to...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-28-2013, 11:24 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,118
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Help with a controlling wife

Incog
Do you want to break the pattern?

Are you willing to have short term pain in the interest of longer term harmony?

If so, than this may be fixable.

But short term pain means just...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-24-2013, 05:05 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 4,203
Posted By MEM11363
Re: oral sex- why is it important?

Because any real man has a special and very powerful switch called:

It's all about you

And when he loves a woman, he turns that switch on very very often. In a marriage or ltr, his female...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 03-19-2013, 10:23 AM
Replies: 2,414
Views: 55,601
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Time To ReGroup and Move On

RG,
I want you to ask your lawyer if there is anything you can put in the agreement to address her steady stream of insults, untrue statements (false claims you were bullying her) accusations and...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-18-2013, 11:33 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,863
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Seeing somebody who's too fat...?

inarut
You make a fair point, Winter - is a bad reason to date someone.

As for his break up 'talk', maybe he should consider: I'm not falling in love with you, and don't think that I will.
...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-17-2013, 04:02 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,863
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Seeing somebody who's too fat...?

D,
This was fair, honest and decent.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-17-2013, 04:00 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,863
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Seeing somebody who's too fat...?

Inarut
Why is she the victim?
Seriously?

If I reverse the genders, I would tell him:
- ask her what her ideal man looks like and
- AT BARE MINIMUM get in good enough shape so you can do...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-17-2013, 03:48 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,863
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Seeing somebody who's too fat...?

Holland,
Totally agree - this is the model of: they will have little, if any temptation so they won't stray or leave. And equally if they have a lot of temptation they will cheat or leave you. I...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 03-17-2013, 10:25 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 499
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Abuse Allegation

Hurtn
The people in the system see this type of attempted shakedown all the time.

Ignore the spanking and focus only on the allegation of shaking:
1. When did she first make the 'shaking'...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 03-14-2013, 04:50 PM
Replies: 2,414
Views: 55,601
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Time To ReGroup and Move On

Conrad,
We disagree on this point. Her crazy, hostile texts will greatly help him with any custody issues.

AND she cannot hijack his emotions via text. It is going to be much harder for him -...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 03-14-2013, 04:36 PM
Replies: 2,414
Views: 55,601
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Time To ReGroup and Move On

RG,
I cannot emphasize this enough:

If it is enforceable through a divorce/custody agreement you want your lawyer to add reciprocal language that says something like:

If either parent has a...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 03-14-2013, 03:03 PM
Replies: 2,818
Views: 79,052
Posted By MEM11363
Re: What to do with "I don't know".

Z,
This is a great decision. Do you need to take any legal steps to move your D7 out of state?
If needed, don't skip those. Your stbx may get very aggressive after you leave.

And if it was...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 03-14-2013, 01:45 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,423
Posted By MEM11363
The core issue

I am not a lobbyist for the MLM association of America.

So I can't comment on the research recommended below.

I would however suggest:
- Estimate how much money your wife has made/lost...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 03-14-2013, 12:52 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 866
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Had the I don't wanna get married talk but she's in denial.

Young,
You are not an idiot, you simply lack experience. That is what we are here to provide.

First and most important question. Do you realize that if she gets pregnant, you will BOTH be in a...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 03-14-2013, 09:45 AM
Replies: 2,414
Views: 55,601
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Time To ReGroup and Move On

RG,
You need some humor in your life.

For the occasional hilarious blank stare watch: Nathan for you
Videos.



QUOTE=ReGroup;1529495]Had another counseling session and it was more of the...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-13-2013, 11:03 PM
Replies: 136
Views: 7,269
Posted By MEM11363
Re: How to tell lovely wife it just ain't working?

Big,
My post was not directed at you. Not at all.




QUOTE=Big Dude;1528887]Well, some of those men may have been asking questions for decades, and getting no answers (or dishonest...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 03-13-2013, 10:03 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,423
Posted By MEM11363
Re: How to get past a big issue you both can't agree on?

So you are ok with having your credit destroyed and then being dumped?
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-13-2013, 09:54 PM
Replies: 136
Views: 7,269
Posted By MEM11363
Re: How to tell lovely wife it just ain't working?

Mom2 4
Keep posting. There is a large pool of men who need to hear this. Some of them - are convinced that: orgasm = good sex and lack of O means bad sex.

They all say with certainty their wives...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-13-2013, 06:24 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 536
Posted By MEM11363
Re: Just Joined So Not Sure How This Site Works, Subject is Marriage

Lady,
When did his desire drop off?

What is your dynamic in terms of who 'initiates' sex.
How do the two of you handle rejection: both as the person saying 'not tonight', and the person being...
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