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Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-30-2014, 03:15 AM
Replies: 1,663
Views: 77,983
Posted By ebp123
If male ego is synonymous with insecure and...

If male ego is synonymous with insecure and jealous... Seems like you have some fall back excuses about how all men are that justify your attitude. How's that working for ya?
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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 08-30-2014, 02:50 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 5,839
Posted By ebp123
Re: Do you "tolerate" sex with your overweight wife?

So being sexist, racist, chauvinist, is a choice, but because People are that way when you marry them that's not as ugly. Kinda like your attitude toward fat women? Did you tell your wife how much it...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 08-29-2014, 09:34 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 4,235
Posted By ebp123
I whipped my bad husband into shape. He is so...

I whipped my bad husband into shape. He is so much better now. He should thank me.
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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 08-29-2014, 09:12 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 5,839
Posted By ebp123
Fat is unattractive. Old is unattractive....

Fat is unattractive. Old is unattractive. Uneducated is unattractive. Sexist is unattractive. Chauvinist is unattractive. Bald is unattractive. Blue collar is unattractive. Conservative is...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-29-2014, 12:25 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 950
Posted By ebp123
This! Posted via Mobile Device

This!
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-28-2014, 08:09 PM
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Views: 77,983
Posted By ebp123
She tried a three-some and liked in her younger...

She tried a three-some and liked in her younger days. But most people do their experimentation when they are younger. You fault her for not wanting a three-some inside of your marriage vows? Seems...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-28-2014, 01:55 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
Separation may be it. I am planning that now....

Separation may be it. I am planning that now. Just have so much going on now (DS6 has multiple issues that require major time and financial investment) plus we have debts to pay off. I will be moving...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-28-2014, 01:36 PM
Replies: 2,960
Views: 103,389
Posted By ebp123
Thanks for making that distinction. I'm # 1 when...

Thanks for making that distinction. I'm # 1 when the relationship is good. I've done quite a bit in my day, but when the issues mounted and the emotional attachment was severed, I became LD #2.
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-28-2014, 12:52 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
Exactly my situation. If you ask my H why he...

Exactly my situation. If you ask my H why he doesn't address the problems in our marriage, he's likely to respond with "I don't know." If pressed, he will get angry, throw blame back at me, say I...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-27-2014, 10:27 AM
Replies: 102
Views: 3,374
Posted By ebp123
Outside of a pill that would flip the LD switch...

Outside of a pill that would flip the LD switch to HD, another option is for the LD spouse to see you in another light. Maybe you are a leader at work, but she doesn't see you like that and even if...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-27-2014, 08:46 AM
Replies: 102
Views: 3,374
Posted By ebp123
Re: So what is the NO SEX about - REALLY?

As an LD woman, I know I can still get turned on and wet when a man has certain characteristics. He's got to be entirely confident in himself, strong yet not aloof. The strong silent type does...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-26-2014, 06:12 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
Stubborn. Conflict avoidant. Other reasons... Not...

Stubborn. Conflict avoidant. Other reasons... Not sure it matters what the reason is so much as what not addressing the issue does.

Say your marriage is a car. You are both in it, driving along,...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-26-2014, 02:17 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
I've crossed the bitterness threshold. I know it...

I've crossed the bitterness threshold. I know it well. I no longer recognize myself and am working I my exit strategy. I can't bring myself to initiate sex with him, as I have zero confidence he will...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-26-2014, 12:29 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
I appreciate your honesty. I haven't used the...

I appreciate your honesty. I haven't used the word spineless myself so much as responded to others. But I do feel my H is lacking all strength when he simply puts his head in the sand. When I get him...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-26-2014, 11:58 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
As long as you tell her why you aren't. That you...

As long as you tell her why you aren't. That you respect that there's a lot going in and the transition to motherhood and new baby demands are the reason you aren't initiating, then I think there's...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-26-2014, 10:47 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
He didn't bring up sex when I had my child and...

He didn't bring up sex when I had my child and during my longer than normal recovery. Nor did he bring it up when the child was crying every night from 7 to 10 pm. The silence continued when we wee...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-26-2014, 08:37 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
That's how I feel, too. Posted via Mobile Device

That's how I feel, too.
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-25-2014, 09:19 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
Exactly. Being mature means having the strength...

Exactly. Being mature means having the strength to discuss what isn't working in your marriage.
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-25-2014, 08:57 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 13,500
Posted By ebp123
Re: Longest period in your marriage without sex

Our drought started when I got pregnant and diagnosed with a placenta previa. Sex could have killed our baby and possibly me. Hard delivery and many stitches prevented it after. Then came the colic...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-25-2014, 02:57 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,042
Posted By ebp123
As a woman with LD, if my husband did the 180 on...

As a woman with LD, if my husband did the 180 on me I'd be more than pissed. To me that is just a passive aggressive attempt to gain the upper hand and therefore toxic and immature. I've yet to read...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-25-2014, 02:15 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,042
Posted By ebp123
In an earlier post you said you don't think she...

In an earlier post you said you don't think she doubts your love, but now you say she questions it daily. And you've had multiple EAs. Can you clarify what you mean? Those two statements are...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-25-2014, 12:30 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,042
Posted By ebp123
Re: Another classic LDW/HDH

I'm advocating you tell her the truth, in full. That's the opposite of lying.

She doesn't doubt your love, but you are thinking of divorce because of a lack of sex? You are deceiving her because...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-25-2014, 12:10 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 1,569
Posted By ebp123
Re: Trying to cope with husband's Impotency

$90 a month isn't that much! Get a part-time job if you have to.

My son's therapy is costing us hundreds out of pocket every month, but no way would I say, sorry kid, you're out of luck. Mom and...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-25-2014, 12:01 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,042
Posted By ebp123
Re: Another classic LDW/HDH

If a woman is LD and her H puts pressure on her to have sex, it's just going to make her resentful, not trust you love, and pull away. If there's one thing I've learned on TAM, it's that many men...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 08-24-2014, 11:20 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,142
Posted By ebp123
Re: Need womens help to solve riddle(s)

While it may not be a comfort, you should look at the statistics on how frequently people really have sex. This link is to the Kinsley Institute. Simply put, they study sex. If you want answers....
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