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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-08-2012, 01:32 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 400
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Just a very long overdue update and vent

Well you would have to go back to my original post from about 6 months ago but the house was mine to start with and she added nothing to it other than to start a house fire that destroyed the...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-08-2012, 01:23 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 400
Posted By lostandnotsure
Just a very long overdue update and vent

It's been a long time since I posted although I've been lurking the entire time. A lot has happened since my last post although it's taken me a while to get there and these forums have been a godsend...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 02-14-2012, 04:12 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,099
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Did you accept the change (if there was a true change)

I went through this for years. She all of a sudden did a dramatic 180 that I was very skeptical to believe. I couldn't do it any more and decided I needed to move on for the sake of myself and my...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-23-2012, 09:00 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 660
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Mostly venting

IC counseling is something that she did manage to bring up today. I'll have to do some research because I don't think i want to see the same person that we've been seeing for MC. I won't say he...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-23-2012, 08:39 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 660
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Mostly venting

Third MC session today. Didn't feel like we accomplished much. Starting to think maybe this MC isn't right for us. Between this session and the last waited to see if wife would come to me with issues...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-14-2012, 05:08 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 660
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Mostly venting

A lot of the problem now is me although I have my doubts of her being able to succeed in the way she's been acting.

I'm not sure if I can let go of the years of resentment that have built up...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-13-2012, 06:53 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 660
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Mostly venting

just posting an update. Had our second MC session yesterday. Started off well except towards the end it started going very badly. Towards the end I had to bite my tounge because I was about ready to...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-11-2012, 11:47 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 660
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Mostly venting

Thank you Jbear, you've seem to have nailed the way I'm feeling about all this. Just knowing that there are people that can understand helps a lot.

We've got a lot of work to do still and I'm not...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-11-2012, 07:15 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 660
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Mostly venting

I'm assuming you haven't read my original post. We've had major issues that have gone on for years now....
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-11-2012, 12:28 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 660
Posted By lostandnotsure
Mostly venting

Mostly a vent because I don't have any one else to talk to but advice appreciated.

I started things wanting things to improve in my house and to figure out how I feel. I've not been happy in a...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-08-2012, 01:21 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 458
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: I am DESPERATE for help!!!

I relate to your story a lot. I've got many of the same issues with my wife and let them go on for years. We've got our 8th yr anniversary coming up next month.

I wish I had some advice to offer...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-05-2012, 01:03 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 508
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Advice? Support? Not really sure what I need right now

Well just to add an update, went to see MC today for first appointment. We both liked him and he said he would be willing to work with us if that's what we decide as well as giving us some other...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-04-2012, 03:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 508
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Advice? Support? Not really sure what I need right now

The perfect wife would be great if I thought she was actually fixing things. My big fear is that this will be like always, that for a while she'll fix things and then go right back to the way it has...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 01-04-2012, 12:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 508
Posted By lostandnotsure
Advice? Support? Not really sure what I need right now

Trying to figure out how I feel and what I should do. I've given my story in the general discussion forums...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-01-2012, 07:18 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 537
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Lost confused and looking for advice

Ok, adding an update this time. With the help of some of the responses here I managed to sit my wife down for a talk that lasted several hours. She wasn't entirely oblivious to me feeling down but...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-31-2011, 04:43 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 537
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Lost confused and looking for advice

Unfortunatlly there were a lot of waring signs that early on I ignored. She was going to the dentist at the time to get them fixed. I kept trying to get them fixed and spent a lot of money on trying...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-31-2011, 02:42 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 537
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Lost confused and looking for advice

I've tried getting her out of the house for a LONG time now. She has no RL friends to speak of and doesn't want to make new ones.

Most of the friends I had I've lost touch with because I never...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-31-2011, 12:10 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 537
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Lost confused and looking for advice

He is in first grade and so does get out and interaction with that. I've thought about doing something like karate but i'm a bit worried about how managable he would be, he has meds for his ADHD but...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-30-2011, 10:50 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 537
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Lost confused and looking for advice

Ok, to answer your question not in order. No i'm not on any kind of goverment aid and there is some family money that I get help from with my mother. We're not going to end up homeless and starving....
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-30-2011, 05:41 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 537
Posted By lostandnotsure
Re: Lost confused and looking for advice

Honestly I have looked but probably not as nearly as hard as I could. With seeing the way she ignores my son sometimes I got worried to go back. And yes there is a little bit of lazy in me also. I'm...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-30-2011, 03:52 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 537
Posted By lostandnotsure
Lost confused and looking for advice

I'm contemplating divorce but not sure if this is the way to go or not. I'm really confused and don't really know where to turn. I've been looking at these boards for a few months now and while some...
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