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Forum: Life After Divorce 04-14-2013, 08:40 AM
Replies: 84
Views: 2,674
Posted By sammy3
Re: Trouble with sexual performance? Seriously?

:iagree:

~sammy
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 12-26-2012, 07:54 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,214
Posted By sammy3
Re: Having trouble letting go

Im sorry ... Not a fun place to be ...

~sammy
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-26-2012, 07:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 683
Posted By sammy3
Re: Am I Cheating on my Wife?

[ Either way, though, you'll have been true to your marriage as you've brought it a step closer to genuineness and transparency.[/QUOTE]


I like !

~sammy
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12-22-2012, 07:52 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 683
Posted By sammy3
Re: Am I Cheating on my Wife?

Well , i would offer this advise. If you feel like you're cheating you are . If a relationship cant not be held open with your spouse , then you're heading down the wrong road .

I’m about 10...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 09-24-2012, 01:42 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 4,345
Posted By sammy3
Re: Am I Cheating?

yes, it a start of ...



~sammy
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 09-24-2012, 01:38 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,214
Posted By sammy3
Re: Having trouble letting go

oh left behind ,

There is no answers to your questions. Its sooo painful , believe me , most of us know . Its a process of healing that must take place in order to understand even a bit of what...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-11-2012, 10:31 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 460
Posted By sammy3
Re: WS & BS- Can their be true R if reluctance to let go of "memories" on both sides?

I’ld like to add something I read often, ... Its from the german poet Rilke,

“Be patient towards all that is unsolved in your heart and try to learn to love the questions themselves."
To do...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-11-2012, 10:07 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 2,607
Posted By sammy3
Re: Moving to hate mode

As a member of this team , i’m 18 months out of hubs affair. All this talk of stages, and directions , controlled , tempered ,working on ourselves, etc...doesnt really make sense until one allows...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-11-2012, 09:51 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,731
Posted By sammy3
Re: How long were you with your spouse before they started affair/cheating?

1st and only marriage, almost 30 years...


~sammy
Forum: Life After Divorce 09-07-2012, 12:37 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 4,601
Posted By sammy3
Re: Being Divorced

So positive Shoeguy ! ... I too am starting look at it now as “adding” to myself, not “losing" myself ...((for the most part, lol)

~sammy
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-07-2012, 12:32 PM
Replies: 76
Views: 2,499
Posted By sammy3
Re: When is Online Flirting Cheating?

Cheese,
Take a look of a photo of your younger self, as a child... what would you tell that person ... how would you, looking at that person, want them to be treated ?...take a closer look , bc...
Forum: Life After Divorce 09-07-2012, 12:17 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 910
Posted By sammy3
Re: Bad Deal

oh my ... so your married for life ?

~sammy
Forum: Life After Divorce 09-07-2012, 12:03 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 4,601
Posted By sammy3
Re: Being Divorced

I’m just starting to tell people I am separated from my husband of 28 yrs.

Most are completely shocked,(to put it mildly),as we were looked at as the perfect couple who had it all.

I know they...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-24-2012, 07:28 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 2,772
Posted By sammy3
Re: How are feeling since you learned of W/H infidelity?

I think sunshintoday is probably "right on" , for those who still want to rebuild your lives together, and who both can look in the eye of each . That stopped for me as I learned the details of his...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-24-2012, 07:11 PM
Replies: 483
Views: 27,817
Posted By sammy3
Re: Bad night

feelingbad, I hope you can get through this... but beware, there so much more ahead.This is now apart of you and she...it changes things ,I hope it’s the good changes you want .

~sammy
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-24-2012, 12:13 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 2,358
Posted By sammy3
Re: Self-improvement.....post affair

shannonc5460 ,

hang in there !!!

~sammy
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-24-2012, 11:52 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 2,772
Posted By sammy3
Re: How are feeling since you learned of W/H infidelity?

Im almost 16 months out, and its been a looooong ride . We are separated , as I do love him , I’m no longer in love with him,...after his selfishness to hurt a 28 yr marriage, for me being with...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-14-2012, 12:43 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 629
Posted By sammy3
Re: Getting through the final stages (or is there still more?)

Wait , ... who had the affair here ? nexgen right ? and she the one in an illusion ? She’s running away from true happiness ? Unless i missed something , i think she has every right to give of her...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-14-2012, 12:14 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,555
Posted By sammy3
Re: My confession: I am the WS

You write the same actions my STBXH has been doing, to me, & for me, during the past 14 months .The remorse, the pleading, the begging , the showing, the actions, all there, & how much he loved me,...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 07-13-2012, 11:18 PM
Replies: 102
Views: 4,224
Posted By sammy3
Re: I need to know if I am over reacting.

i dont think she really cares one way or another , she just rather get high ...

This whole world is something else !

~sammy
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 07-04-2012, 03:24 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 722
Posted By sammy3
Re: A year out from dday as a WS (EA)...

Hi , i’m a BS , a year out too ... I sound just like your wife ... hub has done so much for me ,it’s shameful that I haven't been able to move on w him ... and this is coming from a 30 yr marriage...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 06-26-2012, 07:03 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,166
Posted By sammy3
Re: Despite Progressing, Do You Ever Miss Your Ex?

try moving on from 30 years of a marriage !

~sammy
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-23-2012, 11:57 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 839
Posted By sammy3
Re: Does anyone feel like everyone can look at them and know?

I felt the exact feelings, still do at times and im 14 months out . For me the humiliation was the worst ...i still feel so different within our marriage ..

~sammy
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2012, 05:36 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,432
Posted By sammy3
Re: For BS...does the "I love you" statement bother you the most?

:iagree:


~sammy
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-16-2012, 12:48 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,070
Posted By sammy3
Re: I initiated the separation, but I'm so sad

I know those feeling all to well too.

30 yr marriage, ending, ... "bc my love wasn't strong enough towards him, to get through his 2 year affair together,... intact !”

~sammy
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