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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 08-13-2012, 04:45 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,152
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Snooped in wifes email

Good attitude. No need to fight for someone and waste that energy. Better to focus on your own self and your own happiness in my opinion.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-27-2012, 06:49 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 4,189
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Caught husband soliciting sex on craigslist

I am no psychologist so I have no idea about the connection between being molested by a man at the age of 10 and how it relates to seeking male hookups on line as an adult? Are you sure he just isnt...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-26-2012, 04:05 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 12,263
Posted By Jeff74
Re: My wife says she's not sexually attracted to me anymore and talks to her ex. HELP

As hard as it might be it is time to move on in your life without her. You will be much happier in the long run.
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-26-2012, 04:01 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,386
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Desperate: Husband impotent, closed minded and I am thinking of having affair aft

He just has different sexual desires than you...that is all. If sex is that important to you and you are willing to cheat or divorce him over sex then that is up to you. Otherwise, try some of the...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-24-2012, 04:03 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,066
Posted By Jeff74
Re: MEN...do you wish your wives LESS EMOTIONAL -how do you handle the roller coaster

My wife is similar to me in that she is usually very down to earth and doesn't get emotional about most things...
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-23-2012, 04:04 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,850
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Do you take rejection personally?

You are allowed to feel however you feel but no one should make you feel that way. You may not be able to control how others act but you can control how you react and feel. Stop letting it bother...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 04-20-2012, 12:59 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,375
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Friends or Love

Relationships come and go but friends seem to stick around. If you give up your friends you will end up resenting him. Who in the world doesn't want or would not want friends?
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-16-2012, 03:54 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,735
Posted By Jeff74
Re: the concept of flirting according to you.

In my marriage my wife and i have agreed that flirting with others is fine (the way we define it for our relationship).
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-14-2012, 09:51 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,502
Posted By Jeff74
Re: My fiance of 8-months does not have sex with me

What addiction did he develop? And how did he cure it so quickly after you confronting him?
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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-14-2012, 06:46 PM
Replies: 98
Views: 7,753
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Do all men cheat?

As I said before not all people cheat. Only those who make the decision to cheat will cheat. Everyone has the choice and everyone has the responsibility of living with their decisions. Hope you...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-13-2012, 10:23 PM
Replies: 98
Views: 7,753
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Do all men cheat?

It's funny to read people write that "more men than women cheat" or even funnier to read that most men will cheat.

I realize there is a family attorney on this thread claiming to have done his...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-13-2012, 06:50 PM
Replies: 98
Views: 7,753
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Do all men cheat?

Not all men cheat. Not all women cheat. Only those who choose to cheat do so.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-13-2012, 07:35 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,431
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Discussing marital issues with friends of the opposite gender?

I may be in the minority with my opinion but I still do not consider it cheating and I see nothing wrong with it.

At the end of the day, affairs do not just "happen". People make the decision to...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-13-2012, 05:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 756
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Can we survive this?

In my opinion having private email accounts is totally normal. I do not look at my wife's email and she does not look at mine...and I have no idea what her passwords are. As for text messages, I...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-13-2012, 05:01 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,431
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Discussing marital issues with friends of the opposite gender?

I personally do not see anything wrong with it and I do not consider it cheating. Seeking advice from friends to help your marriage out seems like a good idea because sometimes it is good to get...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-12-2012, 04:02 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,334
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Turning down pleasure.. I just don't get it.

Since you said you want to give her pleasure why don't you just do something she wants you to do? Since she doesn't want you to give her oral sex maybe just understand how she feels and do something...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-11-2012, 05:10 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,168
Posted By Jeff74
Re: 10 year anniversary appears to be the last.

Someone here said it best. Go see a lawyer now and start getting prepared. All too often people are blindsided when served. You can at least be prepared. Get advice from your lawyer about bank...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-11-2012, 05:04 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,399
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Wife crushed me at worse possible moment

Move on. Life is too short to waste your time on someone like this. Let's call her thunderslu.t.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-07-2012, 11:58 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 3,406
Posted By Jeff74
Well most of th trips are shorter (which is why...

Well most of th trips are shorter (which is why we take more of them...3 day weekends, for example). But there are times when I have work to do on trips but I try not to have that happen too often....
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-06-2012, 07:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,019
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Bankruptcy Issues ????

Your husband is wrong...no one forgot about the loan!. I can't be certain based on your message but it sound like the bank may have sold off the loan to a collection agency and is now out of the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-06-2012, 07:34 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 3,406
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Vacations without your spouse.

My wife and I definitely take trips without each other. I have a lot of close friends from college and it's great getting away with them sometimes. One of the guys got married last year and we had...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 04-06-2012, 07:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 745
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Need Advise from Ladies

That original question simply cannot be answered with only that one piece of info.

But, something obviously is bothering you about your relationship enough to ask.
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-06-2012, 07:23 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 13,905
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Is life without sex possible?

I am in a sexless marriage and am living fine and happy. So, for me, life is definitely possible without sex and a happy life is also possible. At the end of the day, to me, sex is just sex..it's...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 03:59 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,272
Posted By Jeff74
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

Where do you live?

As a practicing attorney here in the u.s. I would be happy to give you specific legal advice/opinions in a pm if this would be helpful. There are many good people here that...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 05:00 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,221
Posted By Jeff74
Re: Joint or Separate Bank Accounts? (or both)

My wife and I have always had separate bank accounts and we never argue about money. This works well for us and both of us! She and I work equally as hard (we are both attorneys) and we split the...
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