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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-27-2013, 06:37 PM
Replies: 241
Views: 34,849
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: I had an affair and my husband is divorcing me

The father love is especially profound, that was the exact problem with my stbxw
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-26-2013, 06:47 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 261
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: VARs

You can pick up a decent sony VAR for around £30. There is no audiable 'click' when it starts, and no beeps either.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-25-2013, 08:21 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 895
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Can't take the lying anymore.

He failed.
He's playing you and will fill you with BS for as long as you take it.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-25-2013, 08:19 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 361
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: is cybercheating really cheating??

Yes, I'd say it is.
How would he feel to you setting up an online dating profile?

If you are uncomfortable with it, and you should be, he should cancel the account. If not, you may need to cancel...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-24-2013, 01:37 AM
Replies: 201
Views: 13,056
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: I feel stuck in my affair

Stuck, I used to speak to a guy on here who was married and played around with married women - not unlike your new 'soulmate'. I'm going to give you a message he sent me on why he did what he did....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-23-2013, 10:44 AM
Replies: 201
Views: 13,056
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: I feel stuck in my affair

Talking About Marriage

i.e. this site :)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-23-2013, 10:38 AM
Replies: 201
Views: 13,056
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: I feel stuck in my affair

This doesn't sound like someone who has a concern for others. Not a judgement, but an observation.

There are many resources here to help if that's what you want, but please note that you will see...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-21-2013, 04:53 PM
Replies: 692
Views: 44,975
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: She cheated. Wow.

:iagree: It usually is! :iagree:
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-21-2013, 04:48 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 753
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Why my brain will not shut OFF!

To be honest I don't like the idea of the husband freaking out. It sounds like an aggressive deflecting behaviour because;
A) He IS hiding something and is riddled with guilt and wants you to back...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-21-2013, 04:39 PM
Replies: 2,063
Views: 132,594
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: I am back and it gets worse

I agree. You're doing really well mate, get ready to say no when you've done. There is no further point in letting her get under your skin, because we all know that she is trying to do so.

Stay...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-21-2013, 04:32 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,261
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: On the mend..

My wife was driving when we were discussing some of the details of her affair, I asked to take a look at the ring and, when she gave it to me, I chucked it out.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-21-2013, 11:50 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 446
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Thought Experiment before becoming BS/WS

Yea, I no longer buy into the soulmate ideal. The next woman for me will be a 'team mate'.
As a BS I now know the difference.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-19-2013, 06:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,036
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: No time to cry.

If I may suggest, and please don't take this wrong, but she could easily be trying to 'guilt' you into begging for her to come back.
That she laughs and refuses to discuss your concerns with you is...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-19-2013, 06:22 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 13,718
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: I cheated 6 years ago and he just found out

The image that he once held of you is no longer the image he can hold on to. You are different.
As IllWill said, there is now a huge value shift between you both and you can no longer view...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-18-2013, 07:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 472
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Just seeking some outside perspective

1. Re-read what you have written.
2. Remove all external elements to your cheating.
3. Now that you see a blank page, look deeply at yourself - forgetting your upbringing, your parents, or any...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-18-2013, 07:52 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 786
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Hypothetical question

Unfortunately not. My WW has said that before, but it is just a placatory comment. Along with all the other remarks filed under gaslighting or conflict avoidance.

Sigh...Waywards.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-13-2013, 07:37 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 601
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Celebrity infidelity......

Charlie Brown ate my hamster!
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-11-2013, 06:53 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 713
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Disclosure?

1. It's called rugsweeping.
2. Tell him that if he wants in, then he has to answer the questions you put to him.
3. Read and execute the 180
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-11-2013, 05:56 PM
Replies: 2,063
Views: 132,594
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: I am back and it gets worse

To be honest, as soon as the 'Stern talking' starts, she'll curl up into helpless victim mode to guilt the others into taking it a little easier with her.
It'll work too as they'll believe that she...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-22-2013, 01:38 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 3,192
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: How do you tell your WS you are ending R?

And what was her reaction? Anything like your avitar?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2013, 07:13 PM
Replies: 238
Views: 10,522
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Have i lost my wife?

Nothing wrong with dreamy and theres no need to be apologetic, we've all been there my friend and we know that right now your head is probably spinning in several different directions.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2013, 07:10 PM
Replies: 238
Views: 10,522
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Have i lost my wife?

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/24796-just-let-them-go.html

Is a good place to start and learn
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2013, 06:58 PM
Replies: 238
Views: 10,522
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Have i lost my wife?

I have to ask, what do YOU want to do?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2013, 06:46 PM
Replies: 238
Views: 10,522
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Have i lost my wife?

She IS cheating on you (EA if not PA) and will absolutely not be available for you emotionally until she breaks it off with this other guy.
You are about to get the, 'I love you but I'm not in love...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-21-2013, 06:39 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,190
Posted By Numb-badger
Re: Confused and hurting

That's natural.
Listen to what's offered here, the people on this site have walked where you are standing and will help any way they can. You may not like what you hear, but you will get fair and...
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