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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-22-2012, 09:50 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 2,246
Posted By ShatteredinAL
You cheated on your wife. And as long as you keep...

You cheated on your wife. And as long as you keep the "get over it already" attitude, you're not going to get anywhere.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-17-2012, 07:09 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,696
Posted By ShatteredinAL
Tell your wife. That'll dull the sparkle a bit...

Tell your wife. That'll dull the sparkle a bit I'm sure.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-16-2012, 12:46 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 2,058
Posted By ShatteredinAL
Now imagine your wife with another man. Do you...

Now imagine your wife with another man. Do you have the same reaction? You'll soon find out.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-16-2012, 12:05 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 2,058
Posted By ShatteredinAL
I can almost guarantee that your wife senses...

I can almost guarantee that your wife senses something is still not right. She doesn't want to be that vulnerable to you, and who could blame her?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-16-2012, 10:02 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,173
Posted By ShatteredinAL
I do appreciate your honesty. I know we all do. I...

I do appreciate your honesty. I know we all do. I think to me though it would feel like he was being rewarded for betraying his family and putting his wife into such a deep depression it feels...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-15-2012, 10:17 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,173
Posted By ShatteredinAL
I can understand how feelings might dull a little...

I can understand how feelings might dull a little after a few years. You start taking each other for granted. It just seems that as my love matured and grew deeper, he wanted the new and exciting...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-15-2012, 06:56 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,173
Posted By ShatteredinAL
This went on for over 2 years. We are both 31 and...

This went on for over 2 years. We are both 31 and have 2 small boys.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-15-2012, 01:50 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,173
Posted By ShatteredinAL
Someone, anyone, help me understand

How can someone claim to love you with all of their heart, yet obsess and become completely infatuated with another person? How can my husband expect me to believe that he has always loved me even...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 10-28-2012, 11:02 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,483
Posted By ShatteredinAL
Know how my "proposal" went? We dated for 3+...

Know how my "proposal" went? We dated for 3+ years. I pointed out a ring that I liked in the mall to him. I think he felt guilty so he bought it. Later that night, in the parking lot of a movie...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-15-2012, 03:42 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,213
Posted By ShatteredinAL
I got the "if you hadn't made such a big deal...

I got the "if you hadn't made such a big deal about our friendship it wouldn't have reached this point" line. Wow. Just wow. So I stand back and let you destroy our children's lives. Sounds like a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-17-2012, 08:40 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 508
Posted By ShatteredinAL
You're so right on. He hasn't. In my heart, I...

You're so right on. He hasn't. In my heart, I know there was much more than just a little crush. He was obsessed with her. Just last night I asked him if I could talk to him about what is bothering...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-16-2012, 10:17 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 508
Posted By ShatteredinAL
Suggestions?

I need help. It's been almost exactly a year ago when I decided I had enough of my husbands emotional affair with a coworker. I gave the ultimatum, the wh*re or me. He chose me for whatever reason. I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-07-2012, 02:24 PM
Replies: 91
Views: 5,903
Posted By ShatteredinAL
You're "remorseful" because you got caught. She'd...

You're "remorseful" because you got caught. She'd be insane to take you back.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-05-2012, 09:08 AM
Replies: 91
Views: 5,903
Posted By ShatteredinAL
I hope her lawyer shows you the same respect that...

I hope her lawyer shows you the same respect that you showed your wife.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-02-2012, 01:58 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,291
Posted By ShatteredinAL
You're lucky you can still refer to her as your...

You're lucky you can still refer to her as your wife. She needs to find a man that really cares about her before she wastes any more time on her current marriage. Right now, she's feeling like the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 08-24-2012, 10:32 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,615
Posted By ShatteredinAL
So, you left your wife and child for another...

So, you left your wife and child for another woman...I believe you know what a lot of us want to say.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 08-20-2012, 06:32 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 3,994
Posted By ShatteredinAL
This is nearly exactly how my husband started out...

This is nearly exactly how my husband started out with his years long emotional affair. Can you access his work email? Put a keylogger on whatever he uses to access it STAT. Do not tell him you're...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-18-2012, 06:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 671
Posted By ShatteredinAL
DON'T let this go, no matter what you do. It is...

DON'T let this go, no matter what you do. It is cheating. If it wasn't, nothing would be hidden from you. Just because he acts all remorseful and apologetic to your face doesn't mean much IMO....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 08-17-2012, 08:10 PM
Replies: 439
Views: 12,478
Posted By ShatteredinAL
Unfortunately for my husband, not a chance.

Unfortunately for my husband, not a chance.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-22-2012, 06:13 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 3,810
Posted By ShatteredinAL
38 pounds gone since last September. Coworkers...

38 pounds gone since last September. Coworkers and friends kept commenting about it but I just thought they were trying to cheer me up. I never touched a scale until a few weeks ago and WOW. I went...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-11-2012, 11:09 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 586
Posted By ShatteredinAL
I think I just wanted to hear him say he would do...

I think I just wanted to hear him say he would do what he needed to make me comfortable. It would have gone such a long way for me. I'm realizing I may never have that with him. It's heartbreaking...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-11-2012, 10:24 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 586
Posted By ShatteredinAL
Unreasonable?

My relationship with my husband is extremely fragile right now. He had a years long emotional affair with a coworker that,as far as I know, ended late last year. He is supposed to be rebuilding trust...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-05-2012, 04:21 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,343
Posted By ShatteredinAL
To me, not having all the answers means there is...

To me, not having all the answers means there is still a wall between the two of us. It means he and his tramp still have secrets they're holding onto. I can't move on knowing this.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-03-2012, 09:37 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,985
Posted By ShatteredinAL
You are horribly mistaken to think that your wife...

You are horribly mistaken to think that your wife won't start wondering about what is going on. She will start to dig a little deeper and what she will find will shatter her forever. If my husband...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 07-01-2012, 09:10 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 788
Posted By ShatteredinAL
So a couple of nights ago he talks. He admitted...

So a couple of nights ago he talks. He admitted feelings, calling it a "crush". Strange thing is, I'm calm about the whole thing. I know the feelings were deeper but it's almost like I don't give a...
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