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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 02-22-2013, 10:57 AM
Replies: 48
Views: 3,206
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Not-so-obvious sexy outfits

Sun dresses. Boots over a bare leg.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 02-21-2013, 12:39 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,410
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Leading behaviors that are good for your marriage

We typically try to walk in the evenings a few times per week. Definitely helps to unwind and for us both to catch up with days events, talk about the future or anything in between.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 02-01-2013, 03:30 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,279
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Fellas - Obligatory "Relations?" Just Role With It???

Trenton, I honestly think this post should be a sticky somewhere on TAM. I have just learned a significant amount about my wife because of it. Thank you!
Forum: Sex in Marriage 01-31-2013, 01:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 703
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Anal sex

Tons of threads on this forum by using the Search. The latest good one:
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/sex-marriage/65913-questions-about-anal-sex.html

Good luck!
Forum: Sex in Marriage 11-07-2012, 01:09 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 1,520
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Married not quiet a year, fight often about sex. Never get any!

There are things you can do before that. Take the suggestions on reading the books everyone has mentioned. I personally used Married Man Sex Life Primer and ran the MAP which has yielded amazing...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 11-07-2012, 10:28 AM
Replies: 48
Views: 1,520
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Married not quiet a year, fight often about sex. Never get any!

TK, I'll be blunt and honest. This paragraph sums up the problem...you have become a doormat to your wife in less than a year. She is not interested in sex with you. She is interested in sex, not...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-17-2012, 09:39 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,212
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Wife Now Takes Forever To Orgasm: A Chore Now

Gunthar, you are worrying way too much about this subject. I agree with the above post, this is her responsibility not yours. You will rack your brain trying to figure this out and you won't, ever....
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-25-2012, 09:59 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,622
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: SEX: Wife Wants Me to Be More Selfish, Dominating, Help Me Understand

You should seriously search for and learn the fine art of erotic spanking and dirty talk. It. Will. Work.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 09-24-2012, 10:48 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,340
Posted By joelmacdad
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 09-24-2012, 10:46 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,340
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: How to get wife to take more ownership in the bedroom

:iagree:

Amazing advice! Works, trust me. :D No, it really works! :D:D

I learned this a couple of years ago about her, but did not perfect until the past few months.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-24-2012, 09:08 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,250
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: A month of sex...exactly the way your Wife wants it

Thanks Mem for all of your significant wisdom. You and others have been helpful. Best of wishes to you and your wife always.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-20-2012, 01:07 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,250
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: A month of sex...exactly the way your Wife wants it

We have not done it on purpose, but recently on accident. August was a crazy month for us in the bedroom. At least 20 times in 28 days with the longest streak at 9 times in seven days. This may...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 09-14-2012, 02:14 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 846
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Non verbal communication

What is funny to me is less of the above appears to have created an increase in fitness testing from my wife. Like the learned skill being tested. I still use the "learned skill" to my advantage...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 09-14-2012, 12:50 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 846
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Non verbal communication

For us it is a huge part. After 20 years I think I am fairly good at reading hers b/c the tone, volume, speed of her communication is different. Also, my wife reflects several different moods by...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 09-14-2012, 11:33 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 46,545
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Sexy or flirtatious text messages for my wife.

Wife: "can you set out 4 chicken breasts for tonight?"
Me: "you want me to do what to your breasts?"
Wife: "you can get those out too!"

another...
wife: "last night was fun. you think you're...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-11-2012, 03:53 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 4,152
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Married Man's Sex Life

:iagree::iagree::iagree:

Great stuff above. Could have written this exact response myself. Great book with great advice and things you can work on and change right away and over time.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 09-04-2012, 04:33 PM
Replies: 85
Views: 7,230
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Understanding My Wife: Any Advice?

Gunthar,

I am going to put this bluntly so be prepared...

You have become the typical doormat of a husband. You have let your wife walk all over you for so long it has come to this. Classic...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-24-2012, 10:06 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 6,581
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Help with dominant and abusive wife in the bedroom (bondage)

New user, two posts, about a MFM fantasy and dominant wife, troll ta troll troll troll....
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-22-2012, 03:00 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 3,084
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: We just started SEXTING...HELP!

I texted with "I had salad for lunch" her reply was "I can toss some salad!"

I could go on and on and on....
Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-22-2012, 02:59 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 3,084
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: We just started SEXTING...HELP!

My wife texted me with with "I love you to the moon and back" my reply "I love your moon, back and crack"....then she said "I want you to spank that moon" and I replied "whack!"

Hahahah. We are...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-23-2012, 02:58 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 643
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: What Should I Do????????

GentleSoul,

Start here by reading, digesting, understanding and acting:
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/mens-clubhouse/21278-thermostat-ultimate-barometer-your-r.html

Also start going to Married...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 07-18-2012, 09:14 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,531
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Wife says "my" to everything.

So funny how within a few short replies the woman has been written off as "rude" "selfish" "unscrupulous" was brought up wrong, etc etc.

I don't think it is such a big deal unless you know she is...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 07-11-2012, 11:58 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,492
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: non-sexual activities that bond you

Great posts!

-We take walks several times a week in the evening. Great conversations, some deep.
-We have mountain biked together, but wish we did more (too hot in TX!)
-Every night we downtime...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 06-14-2012, 11:18 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,135
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Wish I Made Love Less Often

My wife is almost the same way. She for sure is not a morning person at all. Stay away until she can get up, brush the hair, get a drink and start the day. I try to oblige that as long as the...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-07-2012, 10:24 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 9,058
Posted By joelmacdad
Re: Fifty Shades of Grey

My wife and I have talked about her reading this series. I think the reviews are about 50/50 toward the good/bad. I think my wife would be okay with it and enjoy it right up to the section where he...
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