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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 01-06-2013, 05:40 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 360
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: How do you keep from doing something stupid?

I simply created enough distraction and drama for myself in a situation that didn't involve him. He barely crossed my mind during the past couple of months. I can't say that I recommend it, but...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-19-2012, 06:10 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

We are divorcing. My stbx will never stop lying. He has convinced this new woman that he never cheated on me. After destroying our marriage with lies, he's beginning a new relationship based on lies....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-14-2012, 10:42 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

I told him I want a divorce. He started with the "baby, no!" I hung up. I hate the way things have turned out. I had good reason for leaving and he knows it. If he had left me alone instead of...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-14-2012, 05:57 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

I'm done. Yesterday afternoon my husband surprises me by coming to my place. This was the first time he's been here. He wanted to pick up some pizza and watch a movie at home instead of going out. I...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-13-2012, 07:59 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

One more strange thing: last night we were talking about the past 3 yrs and I told him that I really did appreciate the positive changes he made. He told me he had been walking on eggshells the whole...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-13-2012, 07:08 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

As evidenced by last night, it's clear that my husband and I can't spend time together without ending up in bed. I think it's clouding my judgement and weakening my resolve. I'm afraid if I stay away...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-12-2012, 10:50 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

I guess it could be that I'm just used to the lying. I remember when we were engaged and his stepfather warned me that you have to filter through the bs with my husband. He said it was usually about...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-12-2012, 06:07 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

I went to see him last night so that I could tell him I can't move back home, atleast not yet. Before I even got the words out, he stopped me and said that he screwed up. He said for me to take as...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-11-2012, 03:27 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

Thanks for everyone's input. I feel much better than I did this morning. I did so want to see ending my marriage as a new beginning. I'm just very upset about what has transpired this past week. I...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-11-2012, 01:30 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Yes, I do. I even got angry one day before I left...

Yes, I do. I even got angry one day before I left when he was crying. I told him he needed to man up because the tears were pissing me off. He's made me feel guilty about that several times. I do...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-11-2012, 01:25 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

NoWhere, you are so right. I may feel stupid right now because I allowed myself to be played again, but deep down, the smart woman in me knows that every single thing you just wrote is absolutely...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-11-2012, 01:14 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

Well, I can check yes on some, not all of the things on that list. The thing about my husband is that I'm not the only one who babies him. He is adept at using tears and emotional speaking. It works...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-11-2012, 11:27 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

I think part of my problem is that I feel so exhausted today- emotionally and physically. I need food and sleep. Then maybe I can think more clearly. I even went to check on him this morning because...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-11-2012, 10:42 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

I don't feel like I have much to offer. All of the cheating has really hurt my self esteem. I was finally feeling better about myself until this. Now I feel exactly like I did after dday. Couldn't...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 10-11-2012, 09:50 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

I'm crumbling. Last weekend my husband and I got together to talk and I ended up having sex with Saturday and Sunday. When I left Sunday, I was feeling like there was hope for us and I told him not...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 09-30-2012, 06:31 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 1,379
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: Anyone R w/o getting the full truth?

I tried for three years to R without full disclosure. In my case, I pieced together most of what happened. I won't go into details, but it was pretty bad. In the beginning of R, my h had moments...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 09-28-2012, 10:39 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 467
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: I don't cry anymore

Yes! I found that once I was over the hurt and lies, I was over my husband, as well. I feel like you- sad that it didn't work out, but I don't feel sorry for myself anymore. No more tears. I even got...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 09-28-2012, 07:03 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

Well, I did it. I'm all settled into my cute little cozy apartment. It feels good to be on my own, which surprises me. I'm sleeping well and working out a lot- though maybe not eating quite enough....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 09-13-2012, 11:53 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: LeavingMyH

Thanks for the encouragement. It's much needed. I know I'm doing what's best for both of us, but I still have moments when I just want to let him hold me. I'm sure that once I've moved, things will...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 09-12-2012, 01:52 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,499
Posted By LuvMyH
LeavingMyH

I have spent over three years trying to reconcile with a former WH who has refused stop lying about the things he did in the past. Yes, he stopped cheating, but he has been no help to me when I have...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-20-2012, 09:47 AM
Replies: 54
Views: 2,122
Posted By LuvMyH
I know all about that, too. That's why you...

I know all about that, too. That's why you shouldn't look to the ow for closure, hurtingbadly. You are of no concern to her or she may even want to hurt you more. She will be of no help to you. If...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-19-2012, 02:09 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,042
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: Difficult Situation - Ideas Please

I'm sorry about your friend. I've been going through it with my brother. Doctors give him a couple of weeks at best and we've already had a few scares when we thought he was leaving us. Every time I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-19-2012, 12:58 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,323
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: Reconciliation and Sexual "History"....

I went through a promiscuous phase from 17-21. I don't think that made reconciliation any easier. The only thing that made it easier was the remorse of my husband and knowing that I played a big part...
Forum: The Social Spot 04-19-2012, 08:16 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 2,501
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: What Song Do You Want Played At Your Funeral?

Walk On by U2
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Forum: The Social Spot 04-18-2012, 03:52 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,166
Posted By LuvMyH
Re: First Movie Together

The Newton Boys. Ethan Hawke was in it and my husband looked quite a bit like him when he was younger.
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