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Forum: Life After Divorce 10-25-2012, 06:15 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,584
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Because when us co-dependents start out again...it's easy to forget...

It's definitely something to remember as we pursue our single lives... I hold places in my schedule/heart for people but damn it.... it's me time!
Forum: Life After Divorce 10-25-2012, 06:06 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,542
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: When does reality sink in

Jay if I remember our timelines are similar except yours went faster. I miss the married part too. I miss having a warm body in my bed... companionship... I am in a good place right now, just hope...
Forum: Life After Divorce 10-25-2012, 05:46 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 607
Posted By Mamatomany
Mama is done!

I haven't posted much since July and really not so much since MAY, so many people have changed on here! I just want to say I am divorced!!!! It was final this week and I am moving on and happily...
Forum: Life After Divorce 08-13-2012, 09:38 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 7,678
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Online Dating - Match.com

He is quite the catch!! Someone will be very lucky when they partner up.
Forum: Life After Divorce 08-10-2012, 01:42 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,277
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: 2.5 years after the divorce-just hang on

Corpuswife,
Thanks for the inspirational story. I was with my stbx for 27 yrs and counting the days down (should be this month) for the state to say we are divorced.
It was scary at first but I...
Forum: Life After Divorce 08-10-2012, 12:52 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 3,525
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: If you'd ever remarry, how long would you wait post-divorce?

I had a good marriage for most of it and am ready when the opportunity comes along again. There's no rule and no timeline. I have told a couple of guys I dated that I anticipate that 2014 will be a...
Forum: Life After Divorce 08-10-2012, 11:32 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 10,945
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Dating & sex - When to DO it

I bought the book, "Getting Naked Again" I am reading it this weekend. I will let you all know if it's worth it. It's about re-entering the dating world etc. I have re-entered it, but my navigation...
Forum: Life After Divorce 08-10-2012, 11:12 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 10,945
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Dating & sex - When to DO it

I guess I am warped... I am all over the place w/ this. I have a very high drive and it really depends on the chemistry and the guy. I have met several who just want to be fwb, and I do know that's...
Forum: Life After Divorce 08-10-2012, 10:44 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 7,678
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Online Dating - Match.com

That's what I like Proud, and those guys will get some kind of reply if it's a question. Compliments work too, but too easy to just say thanks. Be yourself Proud, I have talked to you and you don't...
Forum: Life After Divorce 08-10-2012, 10:28 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 7,678
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Online Dating - Match.com

I agree. I went ahead and tried chemistry and it was horrible. I have met two guys on it that I'd date but I don't like the format chemistry has and their 'matches' weren't nearly as close to what...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-06-2012, 09:28 AM
Replies: 615
Views: 40,476
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: My Wife is separating from me - Loooong Post

No shame at all and livin' pretty wild these days!
Lookin' for someone just as wild to play with!!
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-06-2012, 07:59 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,070
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Mama's June update...

Happy dancing!!
I did it! No trigggers, it was just another day!

I am leaving my mom's house today after spending two weeks with family and friends (some I hadn't seen in 20yrs) and I am taking...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-05-2012, 05:09 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,070
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Mama's June update...

So far soo good! Today is my 26th wedding anniversary.

I spent it with my kids and preparing to head back to my house (down South) after visiting family (in my home state). I must say it's not...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-04-2012, 01:25 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,048
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Someone get rid of this heat!

Kaleidoscope? It's free and she can be active there.

Ignore my question about the packing too... I see now:-)
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-03-2012, 08:49 PM
Replies: 615
Views: 40,476
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: My Wife is separating from me - Loooong Post

Ummm Good for you! I thought about you a lot today while watching Brave. The kilts, the using of the kilts when etc to escape the tower trap... All the accents. Miss you;-)
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-02-2012, 08:44 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,070
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Mama's June update...

Nope it was too funny!! Still giggling!
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-02-2012, 06:50 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,070
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Mama's June update...

So... I was talking to my mom while she was chopping vegetables. She offered me words of wisdom as a divorced and widowed woman. She told me not to re-marry in the same month as my first marriage....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-02-2012, 10:32 AM
Replies: 160
Views: 6,509
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: why do i ask, why try

This describes much of what I lived through. We were separated for 6 months when I filed (it's when I finally got the money together after giving up all hope).

She is giving you wise words. We...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-02-2012, 10:30 AM
Replies: 160
Views: 6,509
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: why do i ask, why try

I felt the same way for months. I also gave personal time lines for my behavior and his. Those were the best things I ever did. My therapist and friends made me realize he had all the control, yet...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-01-2012, 05:11 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 987
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Separated One Year; Frustrated and Confused

In your state, do you think you'd have to pay spousal support?
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-01-2012, 04:45 PM
Replies: 78
Views: 5,349
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: All of this talk about dating......

Women may not like what you have to say in the beginning of your honesty ... but it will be liked and respected. Trust me on this. I had dated a guy for 4 wks and he was going back and forth on the...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-01-2012, 04:36 PM
Replies: 78
Views: 5,349
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: All of this talk about dating......

I am just reading through this thread and thought I'd jump in (because that's what I do;) )
You aren't the first person to ask this. My divorce will be final in a month (fingers crossed) and my mom...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-01-2012, 04:20 PM
Replies: 160
Views: 6,509
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: why do i ask, why try

FILE yourself.
Make the decision for yourself. My therapist helped me see after 4 months of therapy (me in IC and him doing nothing to help the marriage but run away) that my stbx is playing the...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-01-2012, 04:16 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 987
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: Separated One Year; Frustrated and Confused

She lost trust in you. I have been w/ my stbx for 27 yrs before he walked out more than 6 mos ago. We have 3 grown children but three 5-8 yrs old. I have given my stbx opportunities to come back. I...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-01-2012, 11:50 AM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,548
Posted By Mamatomany
Re: This is hard.

Wow, that's along time to wait for final divorce. Is it all worked out? Uncontested?

I am hoping that mine will be final in August, so far it's uncontested and he doesn't have a lawyer but I do....
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