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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Today, 12:46 AM
Replies: 487
Views: 19,981
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Not handling this very well

Hi Missmolly. What are you doing? Why not OK?

It would be better if you let it out. Not for the audience, but for you. You may not behave the way you want right now but you will get there.

It...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse Today, 12:33 AM
Replies: 99
Views: 1,905
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Men, women and the ability to see the whole picture

I am sure that there are as many men whose thoughts about sexual frequency is similar to LD women who post on this site. But do you think these men would post those thoughts??

It would not be...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Today, 12:12 AM
Replies: 376
Views: 8,971
Posted By Catherine602
Re: If you found out your spouse cheated on you before marriage...

Read the advice on the other thread and follow that. What's good for that loyal man is good for you too, Laila.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Today, 12:10 AM
Replies: 376
Views: 8,971
Posted By Catherine602
Re: If you found out your spouse cheated on you before marriage...

The unifying theme of the schizoid posts from men on this thread and the other one is that men seem to think that they are entitled to get sex, full stop.

I doubt that cheating would be...
Forum: Sex in Marriage Yesterday, 12:15 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,045
Posted By Catherine602
Re: My wife, the cold fish.

There are lots of issues to consider but I think the underlying issue is a lack of respect. From what you say, your wife is playing games with you. The demands and promises and not delivering is...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-19-2013, 06:46 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 530
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Resurfaced...

As long as his sexual needs are met, things will not change. You know that this will not continue right? You will reach a tipping point and just stop having sex with him. If that what you want?
...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-19-2013, 06:01 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 1,580
Posted By Catherine602
Re: I think I am staying in the marriage just for the kids now (sorry, very long wind

Fear is no reason to stay in a marriage. If he continues to spend foolishly, they will be in debt for the rest of their lives. Staying will make no difference.

Better to take the hit now and gain...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-19-2013, 05:42 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,111
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Can some ladies explain what's going on?

It might be best to let it go for now. She knows how you feel and how she feels. This may have become a war of wills. She expressed a preference and so did you.

Compromise is in order. What...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 05-19-2013, 05:33 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 433
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Confused!!! Marriage with wrong person

Call her every week. If she is pleasant call her in a few days. When she is unpleasant, wait a week. She will get it eventually. If she complains, let her know that you enjoy a pleasant conversation...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-19-2013, 03:58 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 1,905
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Men, women and the ability to see the whole picture

Men with ED commonly withdraw sexualy and refuse to acknowledge the loss of the center of their manhood. There have been posts by women lamenting their husbands refusal to even communicate about...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-18-2013, 03:12 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 1,905
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Men, women and the ability to see the whole picture

Descartes "I think therefore I am". "Men are more logical" is a desired image that does not reflect the real inner workings of men or women for that matter. Are women weak in their ability to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2013, 04:01 PM
Replies: 376
Views: 8,971
Posted By Catherine602
Re: If you found out your spouse cheated on you before marriage...

He has a problem, the Disease to Please, do some research. He may need IC to help him express his inner thoughts and feelings. He needs to gain the confidence and to ask for what he wants and to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-16-2013, 08:53 AM
Replies: 376
Views: 8,971
Posted By Catherine602
Re: If you found out your spouse cheated on you before marriage...

I agree that stats are not applicable to individuals but they influence decisions. If that is the case then mythical stats should be challenged.

Making a decision now would be premature. D would...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-15-2013, 10:46 PM
Replies: 376
Views: 8,971
Posted By Catherine602
Re: If you found out your spouse cheated on you before marriage...

I read that couples who R are happier after infidelity, is a myth. There have been a few studies that indicate the opposite. Those that R, about 30%, do so for the kids and finances, the common...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-15-2013, 09:23 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,348
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Giving up on sex with my wife

Thanks you should see the other ones I make. Some are Even more embarrassing.

Trick, the latter half of your statement about D, when you meet a new woman, is a sign of confidence. That's positive.
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 05-15-2013, 07:58 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 433
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Confused!!! Marriage with wrong person

Ark it does sound like you are trying but you are getting a lot of push back from the inlaws. In this case, your husband has to step up.

Here is my suggestion. It sounds like your MIL is...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-14-2013, 10:42 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,348
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Giving up on sex with my wife

There was a recent thread from a woman whose husband finally got fed up with her dismissal of his unhappiness and loneliness and left her.

he warned her for years. She never believed him that he...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-14-2013, 03:45 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,348
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Giving up on sex with my wife

Don't stop having sex. Keep trying to work on it. It may not seem like she or you are getting anything out of it but when you stop, you will see changes. You may well drift apart. Then you will know...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-14-2013, 02:42 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,111
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Can some ladies explain what's going on?

Maybe when she is very aroused, the feeling in her breast is more pleasurable. Can you wait till she is suficiently warmed up before you caress her breast? I agree with the above posters, sensations...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-14-2013, 01:21 PM
Replies: 376
Views: 8,971
Posted By Catherine602
Using your logic, he was curious about what it...

Using your logic, he was curious about what it was like to have sex with another women. She has never cheated so she should she what it it like. She can say she is sorry and he has to understand.
...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-14-2013, 11:46 AM
Replies: 376
Views: 8,971
Posted By Catherine602
Re: If you found out your spouse cheated on you before marriage...

What he does is to listen to you and internalize that this was absolutely wrong. He can show that he is sorry for being selfish and this is not the person he wants to be.

Being a good father and...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 05-14-2013, 11:01 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 433
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Confused!!! Marriage with wrong person

Hi Akr what an unhappy situation. You know better than I that this is a culturally based situation and the complexities may be lost on people who do not share you and your husbands culture.

I...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-13-2013, 11:00 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 2,837
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Wife and Blind Fold issues

I would be hurt too. How to handle it so that something changes for the good.

It is hard to tell what his wife was thinking but I'll bet she was not intentionally trying to hurt her husband. He...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-13-2013, 10:13 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 1,412
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Neglecting the husband for the children

This is obviously an emotionally charged issue for you. However, starting a thread on a public forum will get you post from people who agree and disagree with you. Some may upset you. Remain calm....
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-13-2013, 08:53 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 1,412
Posted By Catherine602
Re: Neglecting the husband for the children

When I had my first child, I had no idea that it would be so overwhelming. My mental and physical exhaustion was so profound that i cannot remember the first 3 months of my daughters life. My body...
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