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Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 01-16-2012, 09:19 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 9,558
Posted By anx
Re: Is there hope?

At least don't take it personally. She has a messed up past and learned this horrible behavior.

Also, she really is a broken woman and try to remember that. She didn't ask to grow up with this...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 01-16-2012, 09:53 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 9,558
Posted By anx
Re: Is there hope?

There really is no point in fighting like that. If it gets that bad, walk out far sooner. After 3 strait minutes of her talking,being disrespectful, and not getting anywhere I would have left. Zero...
Forum: Reconciliation 01-14-2012, 03:46 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 8,414
Posted By anx
Re: Counseling and Reconciliation Success

Also, I would very much suggest the books "I don't want a divorce: a 90 day plan" which wants you to get a couples devotional "night lights". They are faith based / christian books. The first book...
Forum: Reconciliation 01-12-2012, 05:46 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 8,414
Posted By anx
Re: Counseling and Reconciliation Success

All I can really say is we did the same thing. We slowly rebuilt.

There really isn't anything I could do or you can do to "win" the person back. I continued to pursue and do nice things, but for...
Forum: Reconciliation 01-11-2012, 08:49 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 8,414
Posted By anx
Re: Counseling and Reconciliation Success

My wife and I are back together. Things seem good. I don't have anything more to write at the moment. The only additional wisdom I have is although there can often seem to be no hope, a lot can...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 01-04-2012, 07:59 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 9,558
Posted By anx
Re: Is there hope?

I sent you a PM. I really do hope 2012 goes well. Don't give up.
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 12-28-2011, 08:48 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 9,558
Posted By anx
Re: Is there hope?

I wanted to write again and give you some encouragement. Do what's right even when your wife is acting like a terrible spouse and treating you like garbage. It will pay off and it does matter....
Forum: Sex in Marriage 12-07-2011, 09:11 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,062
Posted By anx
Re: Wife not Horny too much.

Accept the good things you have going, and forget the position. Or fight about it until she can't stand you and stops having sex or destroys the marriage.
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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-27-2011, 03:18 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 816
Posted By anx
Re: Imago Therapy during separation?

My story is in my profile. Since then we have been doing counseling and been separated.

The situation sucks for me, but there isn't anything I can do.
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Forum: Reconciliation 11-23-2011, 02:44 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,065
Posted By anx
Re: He is coming to visit children, how should I act? pls help

I would suggest polite and 180. If he is more open and friendly then be more loving. How you act this meeting won't make or break anything. It's going to be hard and awkward. I think you will...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-20-2011, 09:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 816
Posted By anx
Re: Imago Therapy during separation?

I am separated and have gone through counseling while in it. It definitely isn't a good situation, but there isn't much you can do differently.

Things in my story are looking better. It is...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 11-20-2011, 09:09 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 888
Posted By anx
Re: My wife is leaving me...

Prevent My Divorce: The Walkaway Wife Syndrome - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyty0xb7IMM)

youngest is about to graduate high school is a VERY common for women to leave. They give up on...
Forum: Reconciliation 11-17-2011, 08:33 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,395
Posted By anx
Re: To my surprise.....

Get in IC yourself. You are having as very hard time with the emotions, thoughts, rejection, hurt, etc.

Another huge issue that I'm reading is you don't get all all what he is doing and why he is...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-17-2011, 08:15 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 555
Posted By anx
Re: Young separation, advice needed

Making a marriage work sometimes takes a lot of hard work and unhappiness. People don't like talking about hurt and pain. People don't like and have a hard time getting past the resentment, anger,...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 11-15-2011, 09:51 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 9,558
Posted By anx
Re: Is there hope?

My story is in my profile and we have some similarities. I really hope things go well for you. I honestly think you are in for a very long road.

The best encouragement I can give is to do what's...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 11-15-2011, 05:38 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 9,558
Posted By anx
Re: Is there hope?

I agree. WOW.

Your wife has a lot she is doing wrong. Resigning to living as a roommate is pretty horrible. She very well might come out of it and realize her mistake, but that might take a lot of...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-15-2011, 05:31 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 555
Posted By anx
Re: Young separation, advice needed

Your story is really volitle right now. A lot could change pretty quickly. Unfortunately, rebuilding your relationship might take a lot of time. Also, your wife isn't stable right now. Even if she...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-15-2011, 03:17 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 818
Posted By anx
Re: Checking in... Where's everyone at in their journey?

Still separated. Communication might be improving, but only time will tell.

I'm not enjoying the time alone, but I'm no longer depressed either.

No immediate end in sight either way.

Good...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 11-14-2011, 08:39 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 783
Posted By anx
Re: Changing my focus to me

You can't lie to him about why you are in another bed. The lies and avoiding only fester and rot.

The drinking, sabotaging yourself for the next day, and losing motivation is starting down a...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-14-2011, 04:51 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,162
Posted By anx
Re: is there a chance we can reconcile

I'm in the same situation. We have been separated and "dating", but few if any congical visits.

I'm not ok with it either, but progress is being made. It is an awkward situation at times. The...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 11-14-2011, 12:39 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,162
Posted By anx
Re: is there a chance we can reconcile

you know how powerful lonliness and lack of sex is. He realized that in a big way.

Continue to respect yourself and let him lead the reconciliation. Don't contact him first most of the time.
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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-09-2011, 11:44 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 988
Posted By anx
Re: Is it THAT bad?

Some words of encouragement since my first post was hash.

Giving and acting like a christian in a marriage where you are hurt, lied to, rejected, and resentful isn't easy. Giving up those...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-09-2011, 08:03 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 988
Posted By anx
Re: Is it THAT bad?

Before this porn incedent how was your sex life? Was he desperately asking for sex that you weren't willing to satisfy? It is easy to be mad at men for sins like porn, but so often there are months...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 11-07-2011, 09:14 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,418
Posted By anx
Re: Unemployed hubby acting like a child

I agree with this. Your husband messed up to get in this spot and is stuck in a crappy cycle. He needs to get a job like you said, but he is keeping himself from doing that.

He has to man up....
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 11-07-2011, 04:50 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 17,708
Posted By anx
Re: Husband's submissivnes...

I might agree to more of that sex wise if you are comfortable, but not let it bleed into the rest of your life together.

It might just be a fantasy that he has been tossing around for years in his...
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