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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 07-23-2012, 02:55 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,922
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: FB PM -- how to respond?

It now shows when someone reads the message. I'd respond something to the tune of, "Thanks for the flattery, however if you're unhappy in your marriage you should work on fixing it with your wife,...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-23-2012, 01:12 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,642
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Talk me through a multiple orgasm!

I've always been able to have multiple orgasms, both clitoral and g-spot. I feel like I can have many "types" of each of those, as well, if that makes sense. Some are in waves, and sometimes I get a...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-23-2012, 12:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 3,526
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: If you'd ever remarry, how long would you wait post-divorce?

I don't think there's a timeline, and I think everyone is different. Take some time to get to know yourself, and to make sure you really know that person and that you're both committed. Marriage in...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-23-2012, 12:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 645
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: How do you handle babysitters with your ex?

Thank you both for your input. I haven't responded to the email yet, and he didn't mention it in person. I think leaving his phone number is enough (keep in mind my son is 10 and therefore old enough...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-20-2012, 12:09 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,076
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Divorced or not?

I chose "divorced person" but I think it depends on the person and how much they've learned from their experience. They need to be on the same wavelength as me, KWIM? If they walked away from their...
Forum: Life After Divorce 07-20-2012, 12:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 645
Posted By LonelyNLost
How do you handle babysitters with your ex?

Just curious what everyone else does. Our divorce paperwork has a right of first refusal clause that states that if it is your visitation time with the child and you are unable to be with the kids...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-16-2012, 11:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 416
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: how do you trust again

I think you are just able to trust when you're ready. I thought for sure my trust would be shattered towards everyone in my life, but it wasn't. You'll know when someone deserves your trust by the...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-15-2012, 11:42 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 332
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: First Mother's Day Without Him

You handled it well, and had a good day anyhow. ;) This was my second Mother's Day since ex and I split, and I was irritated at how my kids told me he made them sign a card for his girlfriend. Puke....
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-09-2012, 10:18 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 9,989
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: So how long has it been?

This is VERY common. More than you'd think, especially if your coming from a married standpoint. People out there actually use sex for recreation and not about the emotion and bonding. Who'd have...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-09-2012, 10:16 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,371
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: A cheating story you will appreciate

Yeah, as the loyal wife I would have been mortified, but if she knew and okay'd it, then that's awesome. What a chump!
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-09-2012, 10:00 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 668
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Sharing Kids

Ugh, I get your frustration. It's like he's trying to rebuild his old life with someone new, and that includes having the kids there. Just like replacing you. Yuck. If your divorce is final and...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-09-2012, 09:48 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 519
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: I got the go ahead to file! Woo-hoo!

Yes, it's called uncontested, and if you have all your agreements drawn up into a marital settlement agreement, and both parties sign in front of a notary, and go together to the courthouse to file,...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-08-2012, 07:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 410
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: I hate giving up time with my daughter!

Yep, an arrangement like that would be great. However, not sure how comfortable he'll be at the house for much longer, considering he'll be getting pressure from the OW. My ex took the kids for ice...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-08-2012, 11:23 AM
Replies: 45
Views: 2,714
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Wow. This just keeps getting better.

He's in a fog, nothing he says is the whole truth, so don't feel like your life was a lie. Most likely it was all real and he did love you, but there were communication breakdowns, which happen in...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-08-2012, 11:11 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,635
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: What did you do with mementos?

This is the position that my current boyfriend and his best friend share, and both are male and neither have children, which surprised me. The past marriage/relationship took up 10 years of their...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-08-2012, 09:49 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 410
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: I hate giving up time with my daughter!

Yes, I agree, it does suck. I can't imagine, having a newborn as well!

He needs a consistent schedule, and at that age, kids are better off going for short periods of time rather frequently. My...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-08-2012, 08:50 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,024
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Healing from infidelity

Yes, I can see how it would be hard not to blame yourself. I went through a lot of the "Why me?" questions and once those started to subside I realized that maybe it wasn't me, but the relationship...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-08-2012, 08:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,024
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Healing from infidelity

I think everyone deals and heals differently and a number of factors play into the recovery time such as personality, support network, outlets, and the nature of the relationship with the stbx to...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-07-2012, 07:11 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,635
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: What did you do with mementos?

This is a dilemma of mine, as well. I boxed up all the love letters and cards, along with our wedding photos and negatives, the albums, pics of us dating, etc and they're in a trashbag ready to go...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-07-2012, 11:41 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,104
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Feeling so empty :(

Limbo is the absolute worst place to be. I totally know how you're feeling and can remember it well. The most growth you can do for yourself at this point (whether or not it helps the relationship...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-04-2012, 02:06 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 625
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Hellraiser hooks

And sometimes, it's even in the agreement, but the other party acts like it is something they've never heard of. Like "right of first refusal". Don't you know, the world revolves around our exes? We...
Forum: Life After Divorce 05-04-2012, 12:12 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 821
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: New friend follow up

'Atta boy! Good for you. More people like you need to come post to let a lot of those still down in the dumps know that life does go on. And often, life is BETTER on the flipside!
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-03-2012, 07:25 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,640
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Husband doesn't know what he wants

Bless your heart, I know exactly how you feel. Please take everything he's said and continues to say with a grain of salt. He's in an affair fog. It's so hard for you to see what's really going on...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-03-2012, 07:01 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,636
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: FB, it's so easy

I really think it depends on the person. I have ex's on my facebook, a few that still carry a torch, but I'd never cross that boundary. My ex, on the other hand, was weak when it came to advances...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 05-01-2012, 03:04 PM
Replies: 1,321
Views: 51,456
Posted By LonelyNLost
Re: Now what? "I love you and I always will..."

Thanks! Yes, it is a long and sordid tale, but brief version is the same. End story is that yes it sucks to be left (and/or cheated on) but life DOES go on and you will survive it and be happier at...
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