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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge   02-11-2016, 05:53 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,444
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Re: Respect for wives

I've shared this before. My STBXH would turn his back on me, even walk out of the room in mid conversation. He also would act happy and laugh and be positive with others, but it was fake. He gave me...
Forum: Politics and Religion   02-03-2016, 09:42 PM
Replies: 225
Views: 2,966
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Re: The race has begun

I call BS on this one. Christmas is only for a short time and there's only so many days before Christmas to put up lights. But let's just say this guy you know started mid November putting up lights...
Forum: Politics and Religion   02-03-2016, 09:30 PM
Replies: 225
Views: 2,966
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Re: The race has begun

Gov loans are not what is making the cost of tuition go sky high. It's administrative costs. To put it simply, it's computers.

Every college campus now needs to spend millions to implement...
Forum: Politics and Religion   02-01-2016, 06:56 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 3,755
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Re: Oregon wildlife refuge

I find it ironic that the posters who speak of how divided we are are the very same ones who hijack nearly every thread in this subforum with cries of how awful liberals are. Perhaps they should look...
Forum: Politics and Religion   01-30-2016, 01:48 PM
Replies: 402
Views: 5,499
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Re: Equal Pay for Women

I worked a job where I was 99% sure I made a good bit less than the guy who was my peer. We were the same level, hired within months of each other, and had similar work experience. I had more direct...
Forum: Politics and Religion   01-30-2016, 10:30 AM
Replies: 402
Views: 5,499
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Re: Equal Pay for Women

If the law allowed for an individual to ask for a comparison of her pay to that of her peers (similar job, similar experience, same pay grade), then I think it would be very useful. The government...
Forum: Politics and Religion   01-30-2016, 10:20 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 3,755
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Re: Oregon wildlife refuge

I understood you and probably should have started with something like "I agree! And to add to that..."
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Forum: Politics and Religion   01-29-2016, 11:55 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 3,755
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Re: Oregon wildlife refuge

Fight any battle you want, in my view. You want ferrets to be allowed to roam free in your town? Fight for it. Block the road or break up a meeting if you must. But leave your gun at home or you will...
Forum: Politics and Religion   01-29-2016, 11:03 AM
Replies: 235
Views: 3,755
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Re: Oregon wildlife refuge

People want to believe propoganda that reinforces their world view. The level of propoganda that people will believe says a lot about them and their mentality.
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Forum: Politics and Religion   01-28-2016, 10:44 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 3,755
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Re: Oregon wildlife refuge

They just released video of how he was shot. Pretty straightforward to me - he drove around a police blockade, nearly ran down an officer, then got out of his truck and reached into his jacket pocket...
Forum: Politics and Religion   01-27-2016, 11:14 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 3,755
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Re: Oregon wildlife refuge

This made me laugh. Yes, when I think peaceful, I think guns. Lol!!!
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Forum: Politics and Religion   01-27-2016, 03:38 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 3,755
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Re: Oregon wildlife refuge

Finicum said earlier this month that he would not allow himself to be arrested. He publically said he would fight and die for his freedoms. And he fulfilled his own prophecy. Sad that he couldn't...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation   01-24-2016, 10:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 421
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Re: STBXH delivered our DD today with lice!

Indeed. I told him that he needed to email her teachers to let them know. He used the plural pronoun "we" through the entire email, as if I was part of the decision to pretend like she didn't have...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation   01-23-2016, 05:32 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 421
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STBXH delivered our DD today with lice!

Our DD9 had a sleepover at her best friend's house last Sat. The next day the girl's parents told my STBXH that they found lice on their daughter.

Our DD has had lice before, and my STBXH had to...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation   01-22-2016, 09:06 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 809
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: filing for divorce first

True. Except there's no way either of us can or would go down that road. We are both committed to making this as painless as possible, thank goodness.
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Forum: Life After Divorce   01-19-2016, 09:37 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,084
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Re: Does anyone else get ghosted alot while talking to potential partners?

So, you don't show emotion, you are leaving in a month and you expect a woman to be polite to you when they aren't interested? If I went on a date with a man who told me he'd be leaving soon and who...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation   01-19-2016, 07:12 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 809
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Re: filing for divorce first

I hear lots of people advocate for mediation, but in my state you still both need your own lawyers and mediation will cost almost as much as going to court. In fact, you each must have your own...
Forum: Sex in Marriage   01-14-2016, 09:16 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 5,708
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Re: Help me...marriage sex life sucks!

We very much agree, actually. I am my own person, work hard, have my own life and goals and my own happiness. What I want in a relationship includes a shared happiness in the other and an emotional...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion   01-08-2016, 05:39 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,546
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why Do Women Communicate Like This?

I once asked him if there was a way I could bring up am issue I had with him that he would be ok with. He said he couldn't think of a way.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion   01-08-2016, 04:46 PM
Replies: 180
Views: 3,323
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Re: Walk Away Wife

In that case, I feel I was deceived. Before we married, my husband was very supportive of me. He was a great listener when the problems had nothing to do with him. Once we had to work on problems...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion   01-08-2016, 11:02 AM
Replies: 180
Views: 3,323
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Walk Away Wife

So, if a man wants sex three times a week and the wife wants it once a month, does it violate who she is to have sex more than she wants to? And so the man shouldn't expect more than that or else he...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion   01-08-2016, 10:55 AM
Replies: 180
Views: 3,323
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Walk Away Wife

What? Can you name a specific responsibility?

I'm not understanding.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion   01-08-2016, 10:35 AM
Replies: 180
Views: 3,323
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Re: Walk Away Wife

Ynot - hoping you will answer.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion   01-08-2016, 10:20 AM
Replies: 180
Views: 3,323
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Walk Away Wife

Wait. Now I'm confused. Do you have a responsibility to your partner in marriage or not? I thought before you were saying you don't. If you do, what are your responsibilities?
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion   01-08-2016, 08:19 AM
Replies: 180
Views: 3,323
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Walk Away Wife

I get it. And I will get over it. Considering it's been less than 2 months since I moved out, I'd appreciate a bit of slack if feelings are fresh.

I doubt I'll ever get to your view, though, as I...
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