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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-11-2012, 01:07 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,657
Posted By Falene
Re: My D-Day

UPDATE: Ding Dong The R Is Dead.

Sometime towards the end of August my husband began to delete his internet history again.

I would wake up in the middle of the night and he would be on the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-11-2012, 11:22 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,657
Posted By Falene
Re: My D-Day

I am updating my journey but I want to address these wise comments first.

Someday, you were correct in questioning whether it was a reconciliation or not. I was doing the heavy lifting. I was...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-11-2012, 10:37 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 3,097
Posted By Falene
Re: Female who has slowly lost her soul! Am I wrong?

*BIG HUGS*

You should stop talking and I say this from experience. There comes a point that there is just no point anymore. You are NEVER going to get the answers and peace you seek from him. ...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-10-2012, 05:20 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 3,097
Posted By Falene
Re: Female who has slowly lost her soul! Am I wrong?

Lost Soul, I am so sorry you are suffering so much.

Yes, it is your fault. You allowed, trained, him to disregard you and have repeatedly reinforced this within your relationship. Many of us...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-10-2012, 10:56 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 761
Posted By Falene
Re: He got another woman pregnant

I wish I could tell you that you can fix this and everything will be okay in the end. The chances are, statistics point out, that is not the case.

His young age is a factor. The length of your...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 10-09-2012, 09:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 412
Posted By Falene
Re: daughter is developing lazy patterns at school

Taking away her privileges is a form of punishment. Young children often see this as punitive and do not make the correlation that they brought it down on themselves. Depending upon the child, it...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 12:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 678
Posted By Falene
Re: Doing the 180, but still have things that I want to say to her

Main, I got really caught up in this cycle. I am not doing the 180 or anything else, I am just done, but every day I have the desire/need to ask him something.

I have been trying really really...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 12:37 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 528
Posted By Falene
Re: Do we contact the ow???

I do know you need the whole story and I see no reason you shouldn't contact her. I caution you though....you may not get the truth from her either.

Have you tried other methods of checking up on...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 11:45 AM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,416
Posted By Falene
Re: Called him, and he doesn't want me?

A bait post? Do we need a creative writing section here?!

/boggle
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 11:43 AM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,416
Posted By Falene
Re: Called him, and he doesn't want me?

Sh!t in, sh!t out.

You are getting what you deserved. I don't mean about the threesome, that was a joint error, but contacting the sex partner for something more personal? Really? I thought you...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 11:36 AM
Replies: 3,051
Views: 221,171
Posted By Falene
Re: She Cheated. I hate my life.

Words cannot convey how much I want you two to grow very old together. My absolutely best to you both.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 10:24 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 3,894
Posted By Falene
Re: Wife cheated please read

Dewayne, today is the first day of your journey towards happiness and peace. I know you are hurting but I swear it is going to get better!

Please remember not to leave your daughter with her. ...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 10:10 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 730
Posted By Falene
Re: how to get over affair.

Do you want to stay with her?

I didn't ask if you wish she never had the affair.

I didn't ask if you want things to go back to how they used to be.

Do you want to stay with her after she had...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-09-2012, 10:02 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 675
Posted By Falene
Re: He's leaving me for her....

I am so sorry you are suffering so much but I am very glad you came back here.

You are suffering through a death of sorts, some say worse than death, and you need to direct your energy at...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 10-08-2012, 09:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 903
Posted By Falene
Re: I desperately need advice.

I am so sorry you have to suffer through such selfishness. Is this his normal way or has the stress warped him into a d!ck?

He is right, you don't live in a fantasy land (clearly, who in the hell...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 07:05 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,081
Posted By Falene
Re: A mistake made, trying to survive it

Solid advice given....kill the volunteering no matter what.

If those work hours are required, there is nothing you can do. If you are working extra hours to get ahead, stop that now. The more...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 06:51 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,315
Posted By Falene
Re: should I confront about past emails?

You are most welcome and I understood correctly.

Under the idea those mails are driving you nuts, I still think that you should tell him about the mails. For him? Nope. For you? Absolutely. I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 05:32 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,315
Posted By Falene
Re: should I confront about past emails?

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You prevented your own healing! You sabotaged your reconciliation! We betrayed spouses are a loony bunch, aren't we? :)

Yes, you have to tell him about the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 05:16 PM
Replies: 87
Views: 6,020
Posted By Falene
Re: Realizing why my actions hurt so much, and how to heal the BS

Of course you should bring it up!

Stop worrying. As lame as this sounds....it is what it is.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 02:44 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,278
Posted By Falene
Re: When you think you can't live without her

This. Until you fix this I fear nothing else can be helped.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 02:40 PM
Replies: 87
Views: 6,020
Posted By Falene
Re: Realizing why my actions hurt so much, and how to heal the BS

I can't answer for your husband's behavior or the FB thing.

What I can say is that dealing with a spouse's affair is like having a mental illness. One day you are good and the next you are not. ...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 02:20 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 3,204
Posted By Falene
Re: what do I do now?

First of all, I am so sorry your husband had an affair. Not your fault. You deserved more.

You really want to keep your marriage and snap your husband out of it? LEAVE HIM! Take the kids and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 01:47 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 3,894
Posted By Falene
Re: Wife cheated please read

Dewayne! Welcome back! You are so much better off sober my friend!

Okay, forgive me for being too rough but you said a few things that have me very worried for you and your little one.

(Yes,...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 01:35 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 4,520
Posted By Falene
Re: Roommates and now cheating

You. Are. Wrong.

You need logic? You have it. Your wife, after years of no sex, told you she would be seeking it elsewhere and has.

Clear thinking? IMPOSSIBLE! Not while you are sitting...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-08-2012, 01:23 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,255
Posted By Falene
Re: How to truly forget...

You can't forget, even if you want to but as mentioned...who would want to?

Are you a stay at home mom? Find something aside from the house and your baby to keep you occupied. Read, garden, find...
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