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Forum: Sex in Marriage 08-11-2012, 01:41 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 3,916
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Five Cases For Refusal: what it really means to the Refused

Don't be naive, even if you're right. You know full well that no one is going to see physical assault or failure to provide food and shelter as the same as sexual refusal.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-16-2012, 01:49 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 949
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Can you lower your libido?

When I first join the Army at the age of 18, I found that getting about six hours sleep a night and having every waking hour spent being put through rigorous training or being mercilessly beasted...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-13-2012, 01:22 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 5,041
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: For men: how to get your wife to be the lover you want and need..

Because for every woman who wants to be desired, not cherished, there's one who wants to be cherished, not desired. And another who wants something else entirely
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-12-2012, 03:47 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 26,220
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Getting wife to give blow jobs again?

His wife might respond enthusiatically too - enthusiastically grab his old boy, and enthusiastically tie a knot in it!
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-12-2012, 03:45 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 4,315
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: When we have sex...Vanilla sex as all I get

Which would be fine - Catherine 602 was always at great pains to express how gradual her "awakening" was. But it needs to show some measurable progress compared to the husband's lifetime. Geology...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-10-2012, 01:59 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 937
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Forceful yet claims he's playing

Apart from porn, he hasn't been frequenting those "manosphere" sites, has he? The ones where they claim that ALL women want rough, dominating sex, even if they say they don't...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 07-09-2012, 03:56 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,439
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: non-sexual activities that bond you

Why thank you!

To answer your question, sort of yes and no.

I'm about 3" taller, and I've got about 10kg of bone and muscle on her, so I'm bigger, much stronger and have a longer reach.
...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 07-09-2012, 03:18 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,439
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: non-sexual activities that bond you

Martial arts, exercise and fitness, heavy metal music...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-05-2012, 05:02 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,143
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: how some sexolgists messed me up

Someone's got to say it: are you 100% sure she's getting off, and not just giving you an "Ooh, ahh, give it to me, big boy" according to a standard formula in order to get YOU off and stop bothering...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-05-2012, 04:59 PM
Replies: 100
Views: 4,935
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Porn and dishonesty

Hmm. In his mind, if he believes he can't disagree with you, he can't tell you because he doesn't feel he can tell you. Therefore, he will tell you he agrees with you whether he does or not...
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-05-2012, 04:54 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,721
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Based on a conversation with another poster...

For some people? A site like this, where people are discussing their sexual issues, is "porn".

I kid you not.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 07-03-2012, 04:55 PM
Replies: 100
Views: 4,935
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Porn and dishonesty

Respectfully, what you believe is irrelevant - his belief is what determines whether or not HE believes it's safe to disagree with you.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 07-01-2012, 02:38 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,208
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: The art of fighting without fighting

In a sense, it's about being able to simultaneously escalate and de-escalate the conflict.

On the one hand, you are not avoiding the conflict, not allowing yourself to be beaten, not having your...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 07-01-2012, 01:18 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,208
Posted By Sawney Beane
The art of fighting without fighting

In his thread about “Muck Tests” (http://talkaboutmarriage.com/mens-clubhouse/49860-muck-tests.html), AFEH said:
“For me that’s a total and absolute failure of a shet test. It’s meeting aggression...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 07-01-2012, 03:12 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 2,155
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Muck Tests

Hence the need to learn the way of fighting without fighting. You're right - if you meet force with force, you don't know where it will end. All you can say, is that in the context of what is...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 06-30-2012, 02:28 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 4,315
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: When we have sex...Vanilla sex as all I get

This is fantastic advice. However, the very best advice in the world is worthless if the person it's offered to won't take it.

Nothing in the OP's posts suggest his wife is the remotest bit...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 06-30-2012, 10:03 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 4,315
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: When we have sex...Vanilla sex as all I get

So, if you manage to convince her to do anything else, it doesn't become a regular part of your sex life? If you want it again, you have to go through the convincing process each time?



Is...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-29-2012, 01:32 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,855
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Sh*t Tests and The Way of the Superior Man

The way is to learn the art of fighting without fighting (see Enter the Dragon...)
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-28-2012, 02:45 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,855
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Sh*t Tests and The Way of the Superior Man

It isn't flowery, though - it's mangled, garbled cod-metaphysical. It sounds like something you'd hear a bad James Earl Jones soundalike saying at the start of a truly bad sword and sorcery flick.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-28-2012, 02:34 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,855
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Sh*t Tests and The Way of the Superior Man

I read it. Most of the prose sounds like some cod-metaphysics cobbled together as part of the back story for a roleplaying game or the sleeve notes of a particularly bad power metal album. If you...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-28-2012, 02:29 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,855
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Sh*t Tests and The Way of the Superior Man

Two things:

Lots of people, of both sexes, work out at an early age that with everything in life, it's a hell of a lot easier to complain than to act;

To some people, they don't want the power...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-27-2012, 01:25 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 2,855
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Sh*t Tests and The Way of the Superior Man

I see the logic - the idea that unless you are tested, you can't track your progress / see improvement / gauge where your efforts need to go.

However...


Emphasis mine. Read and consider this...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-25-2012, 10:38 AM
Replies: 162
Views: 9,694
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: How to build muscle?

The only one where I would take real issue with your position is using the lat pulldown machine, to get to the point of being able to actually do pullups / heaves. Assisted pullup machines aren't...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-24-2012, 01:28 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 5,844
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: Manning Up?

This from a man who rails about how wrong it is for men to use smileys? Come on, you can do better than this!
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-24-2012, 01:26 PM
Replies: 162
Views: 9,694
Posted By Sawney Beane
Re: How to build muscle?

Creatine is in no way a protein source. It is a protein byproduct, biosynthesised by the body from protein.
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