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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-25-2013, 10:11 AM
Replies: 196
Views: 5,258
Posted By confused55
Re: Men, how much sex do you need?

I'm 58 and husband is 60 - 2 times a week - he sometimes has trouble but we make the effort.

My best friend is 58 and so is her husband - 7 times a week and always has been. They've been married...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 04-23-2013, 10:55 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 451
Posted By confused55
Re: Husband socializing with women coworkers

To answer a few of the questions.

Husband cheated at erotic massage places and with porn.

We don't have a mortgage anymore but he does have the larger income.

He is at the top of his range...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 04-20-2013, 09:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 451
Posted By confused55
Husband socializing with women coworkers

My husband and I have had problems in the past with his infidelity.

I have a question to ask you ladies and also would like some feedback from the men.

My husband goes for coffee breaks with a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-12-2013, 10:42 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,384
Posted By confused55
Re: Is their away to prevent an Affair?

Nicola,

Why don't you suggest you go along with him on his trip if at all possible?

If it is possible, I wonder what his reaction would be.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-12-2013, 12:17 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,359
Posted By confused55
Re: my husband met up with escorts

Yes, we have 2 grown kids and we both went for counselling which helped at the time.

I feel it doesn't matter what you do, the damage cannot be undone, so you live with it. As for the future, I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-05-2013, 01:53 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,359
Posted By confused55
Re: my husband met up with escorts

I chose to stay as well after finding my husband was going for happy endings. I believe it has ended now for good, but who really knows.

It's been 2 years, and it has gotten better but the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 01-10-2013, 10:08 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 3,087
Posted By confused55
Re: Happily Married 18 years... then a stupid work trip to vegas.. Please Help!

Looser -

My husband was involved in a similar situation as you, except that he intentionally did it.

I found out through an email that I had access to.

I think you should tell your wife...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 12-13-2012, 04:43 PM
Replies: 80
Views: 3,289
Posted By confused55
Re: What about the children?

My daughters are 25 and 28. I haven't told them anything since my counsellor told me not to.

She said this won't affect the kind of grandfather he will be someday, so don't taint his image.

He...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 12-13-2012, 04:30 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,100
Posted By confused55
Re: How do you keep your self respect?

I'm finding you never really get your self respect back like you had it before the infidelity, if you stay with the person.

I kind of feel pathetic that I'm still with him.

There is one person...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 12-13-2012, 04:24 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,100
Posted By confused55
Re: How do you keep your self respect?

I agree, almost impossible to rebuild 2 years later.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 12-10-2012, 11:15 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 2,328
Posted By confused55
Re: wife began menopause....what can I expect?

For me, it was like this -

Perimenopause - extremely heavy bleeding which kept me home a couple of days a month.
- trouble sleeping
- very emotional at...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 11-29-2012, 03:00 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 6,204
Posted By confused55
Re: Husband staring at women

I haven't seen this thread that I started for months now but it's interesting that's it's still getting attention.

I still have the same problem with the staring husband, but this one incident...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 11-08-2012, 05:44 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 15,803
Posted By confused55
Re: Taking nude photos of spouse

Pretty humiliating. She's trying to compete with porn.

If she's a mother, OMG!
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-07-2012, 10:24 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,498
Posted By confused55
Re: Gutted to have to admit to an ONS

I don't always believe there is something wrong in the marriage when people cheat.

Often, it is because the cheaters have problems with their own self-esteem, depression, general disappointment in...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 11-07-2012, 10:13 AM
Replies: 96
Views: 15,803
Posted By confused55
Re: Taking nude photos of spouse

Our lovers can become cheaters, and then anything can happen in a state of revenge.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 11-06-2012, 02:26 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 15,803
Posted By confused55
Re: Taking nude photos of spouse

I may be quite old school about this, but I think a lot of women who allow nude pictures taken of themselves are secretly competing with the women in the porn their husbands are watching.

Same...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 11-06-2012, 12:15 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 2,376
Posted By confused55
Re: guys trip bad decisions.

franchise,

I would tell your wife about what happened in Vegas.

You were with friends that probably knew what was going on between you and the girl, and they will talk and it will get back to...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 11-06-2012, 10:25 AM
Replies: 99
Views: 10,494
Posted By confused55
Re: men...need your opinion. when you see an attractive woman, what do you think?

I know that men, and my husband look at other women, and that is ok to a point.

Something I have noticed a couple of times lately when I am out at the mall with my husband.

He will look at a...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-29-2012, 04:21 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,682
Posted By confused55
Re: Lingerie question

Sorry if I'm offending you Hope, sometimes I'm ok and then sometimes I can't deal with things. I have nobody else to talk with about this. Right now, it seems worse as it was our anniversary last...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-29-2012, 04:08 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,682
Posted By confused55
Re: Lingerie question

[If he STILL doesn't respond, it's time to rethink whether this is going to work for you long term.[/QUOTE]



Good advice, but I've been married for 30 years, don't know what you mean by 'long...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-29-2012, 11:48 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,682
Posted By confused55
Re: Lingerie question

I really don't know how remorseful he is. He doesn't want to talk about the events of infidelity because he says he feels so guilty about hurting me and bad about himself.

Honestly, even though...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-29-2012, 11:19 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,682
Posted By confused55
Re: Lingerie question

Thanks, 40.

Yeah, I got some really good tickets for the game. He has never been to an NFL game before, just hockey as we live in Canada, but no hockey this year.

I'm not into football at all,...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-29-2012, 11:02 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,682
Posted By confused55
Lingerie question

I know this sounds kind of strange, but I have never been interested in wearing sexy lingerie before, but have started to want to wear it now.

I don't know if this has been spurred by my husband's...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-24-2012, 11:00 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 2,895
Posted By confused55
Re: For the guys here, thoughts?

hurtingbadly -

If you don't mind, what was the real story?

Are you still together?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 10-19-2012, 10:17 AM
Replies: 77
Views: 3,008
Posted By confused55
Re: 5 years from now?

I'm not sure I understand what you mean about being allowed to deal with the consequences of the betrayal.

I don't know if I can live with any kind of gorilla in the room, that's the problem. I...
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