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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-13-2013, 01:53 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 661
Posted By michzz
Re: Importance of truth over deception

Well, the truth will set them free. Maybe their worst fears won't come true once their crappy behavior is revealed?

Setting aside the possibility of violence, and I'm not trivializing that...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-13-2013, 01:02 PM
Replies: 137
Views: 8,918
Posted By michzz
Re: WW in need of advice

Quoted in bold. So if you could have dealt with the emotional toll you would have continued?

If this is what you meant, then I don't see much hope for you and your husband.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-13-2013, 10:42 AM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,305
Posted By michzz
Re: Hey you...Yeah YOU...

One thing about false reconciliation. There are cheaters that are so good at the cake-eating deception that the BS really doesn't see evidence of the continued affair. Not because they are not seeing...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 06-12-2013, 06:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 302
Posted By michzz
divorce is final!

YES!!!!

I just had to crow about it. Should have left her years ago, but now i can stop wasting time on her.

The future looks bright--even if I'm broke.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-12-2013, 12:05 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,358
Posted By michzz
Re: Ten years since ONS tomorrow, I'm hurting badly!

There are worse things than putting kids in a new school district.

One of them is living in a broken marriage with a chronic cheater who hasn't changed.

If you have to start over elsewhere,...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-12-2013, 10:41 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 661
Posted By michzz
Importance of truth over deception

I was trying to read through 12 pages of a thread on here and over the roar of it, this came out to me, anyone care to add to the sentiment?

The truth, while it may hurt to hear, is always better...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 06-11-2013, 05:56 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 514
Posted By michzz
Re: When you knew it was over.

When the ex charged an $8K trip to Hawaii to chant and swim with dolphins with this idiotic cult she and I agreed she would not be involved with if there was any chance of reconciliation. Oh, she...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-10-2013, 03:07 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 2,571
Posted By michzz
Re: BS with strong cuckolding impulses

:iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree:
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-09-2013, 04:41 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,920
Posted By michzz
Re: Do cheaters keep cheating?

THIS in bold.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-07-2013, 06:15 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 925
Posted By michzz
Re: What would you call this?

I'd call it what it is, inappropriate!
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-07-2013, 03:40 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 2,851
Posted By michzz
Re: Need help asap

Fight the impulse to declare that you are right and your wife is cheating and throwing it in her face.

She has driven you temporarily insane with a need to validate and see it in her eyes.

It...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-07-2013, 02:02 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 2,851
Posted By michzz
Re: Need help asap

As others have states, do not air that you know ot how you acquired the information.

That said, file for divorce. I vote against exposure.

WHY?

So she doesn't get fired and you be on tap for...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-06-2013, 12:50 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,446
Posted By michzz
Re: The feeling that you have no idea who you married

Don't kick yourself for not uncovering the deceitful nature of a cheating spouse.

See, you were playing with an open book and trusted the one you loved.

He, on the other hand, is not an open...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 06-05-2013, 02:01 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,311
Posted By michzz
Re: If you could go back...

Never, never, never would have married her.

I would and will be far less trusting of others than I was when we married.

Divorce is final next month, btw.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 05-24-2013, 08:34 PM
Replies: 235
Views: 4,169
Posted By michzz
Men, women and the ability to see the whole picture

if the point of this thread is to prove which gender understands the big picture better, then it has been a failed attempt.

Why?

Because the hypothesis and evidence is flawed.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-24-2013, 04:44 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 11,435
Posted By michzz
Re: Husband leaving me over masturbation. Desperately need advice

Noted.

The statements i saw made it look present tense.

Even if past, opinion remains.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-24-2013, 04:37 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 11,435
Posted By michzz
Re: Husband leaving me over masturbation. Desperately need advice

It doesn't change the manipulative nature of the agreement.

And I personally wouldn't put up with it.

As others noted, he isn't against his own jollies, just hers.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-24-2013, 04:22 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 11,435
Posted By michzz
Re: Husband leaving me over masturbation. Desperately need advice

If I were you I'd toss out that silly agreement--unilaterally.

If he can, you can.

If he can't handle the controlling manipulation ending? Toss him out too.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-24-2013, 01:29 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 8,342
Posted By michzz
Re: Husband vs. other man

Cake eating is not a good thing to do.

But you already know that.

Time to do as others told you, tell the truth to your husband, attempt to repair things with him whether or not it actually...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-24-2013, 12:18 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 3,494
Posted By michzz
Re: Living in limbo

Hence my comment in the form of a question. If it is a sign of minimizing to her, as opposed to this forum, it doesn't speak well of him.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-24-2013, 12:02 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 3,494
Posted By michzz
Re: Living in limbo

So why be glib about exactly what happened at the strip club?

(in bold)

Are you trying to say that you got blown at the club?

If so, that is infidelity, sexual contact.

If i were her, I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-24-2013, 11:51 AM
Replies: 71
Views: 2,833
Posted By michzz
Re: successful rugsweep?

Since your mind is made up on your course of action I have only two comments.

Use paragraphs, that long posting was difficult to read!

Get tested for STDs. Since you are not interested in...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-22-2013, 03:27 PM
Replies: 156
Views: 4,091
Posted By michzz
Re: Once there's cheating....it should be over!

Hyperbole is fun, I used it yesterday in fact.

That said, most affairs have an huge, huge element of selfishness. Do they drop to the level of sociopathy? No.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-22-2013, 02:11 PM
Replies: 420
Views: 26,822
Posted By michzz
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

I think it quite possible that the entire story told the OP is a made up one and that the true story is of an affair of more time than a drunken night OR she is a regular to those kinds of...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-22-2013, 02:09 PM
Replies: 156
Views: 4,091
Posted By michzz
Re: Once there's cheating....it should be over!

This, in bold! That second DDay can be years later during a wicked, faked up reconciliation that the BS genuinely participated in thinking it to be true. WS continuing the deception even deeper in...
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