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The Men's Clubhouse
04-25-2013, 04:47 PM
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Men, how much sex do you need?
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OhhShiney
Re: Men, how much sex do you need?
I can say that it probably depends on the couple, and how they have learned to live together with differing sex drives. It also depends on age and health.
When I was under 30, I would want it...
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The Ladies' Lounge
04-19-2013, 11:11 PM
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140
wife doesn't like performing oral sex to completion
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4,242
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: wife doesn't like performing oral sex to completion
I agree totally about having control of your own parts, but I also wish my wife would let me give her head.
Would you quit accepting a BJ if your wife would never let you go down on her?
As...
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The Ladies' Lounge
03-27-2013, 03:52 PM
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Husband's Belly & Man Boobs
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1,567
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OhhShiney
Re: Husband's Belly & Man Boobs
When I reread this before posting, I realized I had come across rather sternly. But I decided to not edit out the word "FAT" from my post. Fat is the right word. It's not as hideous as "morbidly...
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Sex in Marriage
03-18-2013, 04:06 PM
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oral sex- why is it important?
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4,228
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: oral sex- why is it important?
There is plenty of evidence that animals besides humans have sex for pleasure and not just procreation. In fact, I'm not sure that the animals can possibly KNOW what they are having sex for. They are...
Forum:
Long Term Success in Marriage
03-18-2013, 03:44 PM
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14
Scared of getting older
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839
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Scared of getting older
My wife and I are both in our late fifties. We got married just a couple of years ago.
When we met we had an amazingly passionate few months of lovemaking; and while it's slowed down a bit, we...
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The Social Spot
03-08-2013, 12:14 PM
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TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
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787
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
I have to confess that I find it hard to get past poorly written and spelled posts, especially when they fill up the entire post with page after page of words often misspelled without making breaks...
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The Social Spot
03-08-2013, 11:58 AM
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TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
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787
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OhhShiney
Re: TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
I am disappointment in your grammar.
Every time you make a typo, the errorists win.
Misuse of "literally" makes me figuratively insane.
THEY'RE going THERE, with THEIR friends. It's called...
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The Social Spot
03-08-2013, 11:47 AM
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TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
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787
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
Two many TAMkinders confuse "to" and "too," also.
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The Social Spot
03-06-2013, 05:03 PM
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TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
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787
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: TAM PSA anouncements for SIM
Loose, looser, lose, loser. All different words.
See losers spell it 'looser' (http://loseloose.com/) says is quite well.
I HATE to read stuff that looks like this: "My wife, what a looser!...
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Sex in Marriage
03-06-2013, 02:38 PM
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31
Oral
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1,577
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Oral
Have him participate with your masturbation in some fashion:
* Have him jump in at 4 minutes and 45 seconds
* Have him start you up -- once you are obviously getting revved up, move your hands...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
02-20-2013, 02:40 PM
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Frequency: Is This the Whole Picture?
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1,378
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OhhShiney
Re: Frequency: Is This the Whole Picture?
I think there may be some sort of inverse ratio of sexual satisfaction applied to frequency counting behavior.
As with every other natural law, attempts to measure/quantify something can the...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
02-13-2013, 05:18 PM
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453
To swallow or to spit!
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19,190
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: To swallow or to spit!
Hmm. 69 position (or at least my wife's head coming from that direction) seems to be the best orientation for deep throating/swallowing for her. Everything lines up right.
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Coping with Infidelity
02-06-2013, 02:33 PM
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121
Let's Talk About Sex After a PA
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7,080
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Let's Talk About Sex After a PA
I agree, the image of someone else's fluids squishing around within a partner would be hard for me to swallow. So to speak. The idea grosses me out totally. Even with intellectualizing the emotional...
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Coping with Infidelity
02-06-2013, 02:18 PM
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121
Let's Talk About Sex After a PA
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7,080
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Let's Talk About Sex After a PA
I agree, the image of someone else's fluids squishing around within a partner would be hard for me to swallow. So to speak. The idea grosses me out totally. Even with intellectualizing the emotional...
Forum:
General Relationship Discussion
02-05-2013, 03:42 PM
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Gentlemen...what turns you off ?
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4,519
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Gentlemen...what turns you off ?
Hmm. You really want to know? For me, there are some superficial things that are turnoff, but these superficial things often lead to internal stress and misery -- real turnoffs.
Too much makeup &...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
02-04-2013, 03:56 PM
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4
ED please share your trick and tips :)
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474
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: ED please share your trick and tips :)
Good of you to avoid pressuring him. You sound as if you sincerely care. ANY hint of pressure to perform can be enough to induce ED problems.
I know that with me, I need more direct stimulation...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
01-30-2013, 12:07 PM
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She was never into receiving oral
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1,313
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: She was never into receiving oral
My wife is one such person.
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
01-28-2013, 05:13 PM
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Problems Going Soft
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2,122
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Problems Going Soft
I didn't have performance anxiety problems until I was older. In my case, I wanted so much to please my wife, that I'd begin to worry about how well I was doing. She had been married to a younger guy...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
01-24-2013, 02:08 PM
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47
Reciprocity or Something After Oral Sex?
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1,966
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Reciprocity or Something After Oral Sex?
IMHO, couples who keep a tally of orgasms are doomed.
My ex used to demand immediate reciprocity and began keeping a tally of every O. She demanded the ledger sheet be kept in perfect balance, or...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
01-18-2013, 02:38 PM
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86
Men do you enjoy giving your wife oral sex and why?
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7,498
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Men do you enjoy giving your wife oral sex and why?
Love the feel on my lips an tongue and fingers.
Love the warmth and changing texture.
Love the feeling of excitement, tension, and release.
Love the heady aromas.
Love feeling the...
Forum:
Financial Problems in Marriage
01-16-2013, 01:03 PM
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63
Inheritance
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2,532
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Inheritance
Community property laws vary by state. In California, pre-maritally attained assets are not community property, nor is money inherited by one or another spouse.
I was not aware of the inheritance...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
12-13-2012, 01:46 PM
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31
I need major help! Orgasm issues :(
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2,365
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: I need major help! Orgasm issues :(
I suspect you need to break the habit. You've become dependent on the intense stimulus of the vibrator.
You can go cold turkey.
You can increasing your desire/drive by abstaining from sex in...
Forum:
Coping with Infidelity
12-13-2012, 12:57 PM
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29
SSRI experiences
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1,303
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: SSRI experiences
I tried celexa. I gained weight, lost libido, and ended up with assorted sexual issues. It took me a long time to get some semblance of sexual performance back, still not up to where I was before.
...
Forum:
Sex in Marriage
12-12-2012, 03:15 PM
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70
How do I tell my wife she's no good at blow jobs?
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4,249
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: How do I tell my wife she's no good at blow jobs?
This is a very good idea, as long as she doesn't get totally distracted by her own hands. The masturbation gives her something else to focus on besides BJ mechanics. I do think that a good BJ...
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The Family & Parenting Forums
12-10-2012, 02:29 PM
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14
Akward Facebook Friend
Views:
851
Posted By
OhhShiney
Re: Akward Facebook Friend
And I got very weary of those who posted every little detail about their job and family woes on line. I can't believe the stuff that was posted by some family members about their boss and other...
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