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Forum: Suggestion Box Yesterday, 07:52 PM
Replies: 1,700
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Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Listing of Banned Members and when ban will be lifted?

yep. couldn't spot that troll. no mod status for me.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 10-20-2014, 06:16 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 1,844
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Pet peeves

Oh, I think pet peeves come out when the relationship is off. Since mine is in the toilet, I could list a ton!

1. Not eating any vegetables, especially any raw ones.
2. Purposefully gagging...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-20-2014, 03:24 PM
Replies: 126
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Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: FML

Recorded or not, I agree that it is worth it to have this conversation with her.

I have thought about this somewhat, but never in quite these terms before. For me, I hit puberty very quickly. I...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-20-2014, 02:30 PM
Replies: 126
FML
Views: 3,228
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: FML

It is an incredibly dumb thing to do, and I'm guilty of it as well. As much as I believe in full disclosure and honesty, I just looked at this as something I had to accept. I never meant to be...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 10-20-2014, 01:47 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 303
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Leave first or divorce first?

At least you have a choice. In my state you must live in separate residences for 1 year before you can be granted a divorce. So, pick the path that will be the best for you and your kids.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-20-2014, 01:26 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 732
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Found make up on his shirt

A man would have to be pretty dumb to give his number to some woman at a club when he has a woman at home. Just because there aren't texts doesn't mean he didn't do anything. Female makeup on his...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-20-2014, 12:40 PM
Replies: 199
Views: 23,084
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: signs you are in a sexless relationship

And I thought my situation was strange....
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-20-2014, 12:23 PM
Replies: 126
FML
Views: 3,228
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: FML

Guess I missed the part in my own post where I said he is supposed to be ok with that? Huh....
Forum: The Social Spot 10-20-2014, 12:19 PM
Replies: 3,052
Views: 121,054
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Humorous memes

http://lolsnaps.com/upload_pic/MyIrrationalChildhoodFear-6916.jpg
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-20-2014, 11:37 AM
Replies: 126
FML
Views: 3,228
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: FML

Thanks, IA. That may be, one day. Not sure how to ever get there, though. Funny thing is, I have been proposed to 4 times over the years. I'm pretty damn desirable in so many ways except that I just...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-20-2014, 10:52 AM
Replies: 126
FML
Views: 3,228
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: FML

I'm sorry you find yourself in this situation, Alex. I could be your wife, actually. For me, I know that few men would even date me long enough to get to know me if I didn't do what your wife did. It...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-20-2014, 08:30 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 3,184
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: sex appeal..what do women like that gets them attracted

Arrogance is a HUGE turn off for me. I know men who are very sexy in physical appearance, but they are also ****y jerks. No thanks.

Confidence is very different. A man who knows he can handle a...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-20-2014, 08:05 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 929
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: How not to be dissapointed with ones spouse if he does the same thing over and ov

Sounds like he has agoraphobia. I couldn't live with that, as it takes away so many of the otherwise normal experiences in life. You have a son... will his dad miss his games, his graduations, his...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-14-2014, 11:13 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,157
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: You Women, I Swear...

Very true. It depends on what you enjoy. In my life, I want experiences, not things. I don't own anything expensive and don't really want to. I want to do and be.
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 10-14-2014, 10:54 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 5,134
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Husband says no more Christmas Tree, Santa, Easter, kids upset

And there is your answer. He is a doomsday prepper. He's trying to ready himself and his family for the end of days.

There is no reasoning with people who are like this. You can stay and accept...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-14-2014, 10:34 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,157
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: You Women, I Swear...

I think it depends on how practical you are. I know that unexpected expenses arise and if you are already living a tight budget, you might need that extra $500 one day. In my life, that has been...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 10-14-2014, 10:21 AM
Replies: 203
Views: 7,383
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What do you feel about homosexuality in a religious view?

Uh.... only a man and a woman can create another human. So strike that as "belief" since it's a fact.

It's also a fact that married couples can and do use artificial insemination or adopt when...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-14-2014, 10:16 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,211
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Text messages to my wife - suggestions?

Ahh... what a man, what a man, what a mighty fine man....!
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-14-2014, 10:12 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 2,163
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: For all the HD folks out there ...

Ah... then SHE's in a good relationship. Thx for the correction.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 10-14-2014, 10:09 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,157
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: You Women, I Swear...

I think you married a VERY good woman. You said in your OP that you are paupers. You could easily be married to a woman who thought she was entitled to such things, even when you could not afford...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-14-2014, 09:24 AM
Replies: 76
Views: 2,134
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: East Indians in America live with in laws yet low rate of divorce why?

And I was just about to post to tell you to stop digging that hole. Now... will you stop and listen, or just dig harder? Your hole.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-14-2014, 09:14 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,843
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Problem with OSF is not just a TAM phenomenon

There's a very easy fix for this. At some point in every friendship I have, both male and female friends, I make the following very direct statement:

If I want others to respect my relationship, I...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 10-14-2014, 08:27 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 2,163
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: For all the HD folks out there ...

Then you are very lucky to have a wife who responds in kind. I can only assume you are meeting her emotional needs, too. That's great.

I put up this post for HD people because so many who come...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-14-2014, 08:02 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What do to think?

If this were me, I'd pay careful attention but not bring it up again to her. Her defensiveness could have many reasons, but accusing won't help you.

Particularly with a male boss, a female must...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 10-14-2014, 07:45 AM
Replies: 76
Views: 2,939
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Do I have a right to be mad at wife for not respecting my wishes regarding my mot

On a personal note, I was engaged to a man who was an attorney and general counsel for our company. When we got engaged, his parents decided it was time to give the responsibility of paying his...
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