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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 02:33 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,295
Posted By hisfac
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

I get that what people post is what they think and their opinions unless they cite some sort of legitimate reference or proven clinical study or something of that nature.

I was questioning why...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-05-2012, 02:27 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,516
Posted By hisfac
Re: wife cought

No you don't.



Lots of white guys have email accounts and celphones that are capable of receiving naked pictures of other men's wives, and I'm sure she knows that- yet she sent naked pictures...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 02:20 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,295
Posted By hisfac
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

You assume the Op has left because she's not ready.. all because she hasn't followed up with another post?

It's been 3 hours since she started the thread and 2 hours since she last posted. Maybe...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 02:13 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,295
Posted By hisfac
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

With THIS economy? People who are trained, skilled, eduated, and highly experienced in their fields are going broke, declaring bankruptcy, their houses are being foreclosed and they're out of work...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-05-2012, 02:09 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 626
Posted By hisfac
Re: When you first went out with your friends

Ok, so MH is your husband, I think we got that straightened out.

He's still talking to the OW:



Yet he denies talking to the OW:
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:46 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,295
Posted By hisfac
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

You'd really cover the rent and associated expenses for 3 months for a person that you only know through 2 posts on an internet discussion board?

Besides you are over simplifying things by saying...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-05-2012, 01:45 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 626
Posted By hisfac
Re: When you first went out with your friends

Is your husband still talking to her and you found this out through mutual friends?

Because that's an unrelated but very serious problem.

Like I said I don't know what MH is, I'm just...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:43 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,013
Posted By hisfac
Re: Wife constantly berates me and yet doesn't work or have kids...

You two are living separate lives and the only thing that ties you together is conflict. There's no sex.

You threatened divorce once, she acted better for a while then it was back to the same old...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-05-2012, 01:38 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,834
Posted By hisfac
Re: Need help with EA

Why not send a pm if you don't want to jack the thread?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-05-2012, 01:33 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 626
Posted By hisfac
Re: When you first went out with your friends

I'd seriously consider skipping the restaurant and going places where there's a good chance you'll run into OW, ESPECIALLY given that you'll be with a group of people who know what went down.

Can...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:31 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 4,693
Posted By hisfac
Re: Wife suggested I start seeing other people

It's a matter of 'fake it til you make it', and learning to play the role until it's no longer a role.

Eventually you'll realize it's no effort at all because it's really what you've become.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:26 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,298
Posted By hisfac
Re: Am I wrong to follow through?

This really isn't about the tattoo or about separate checking accounts. She did something MAKOR that she knew you were very opposed to, you really need to dig deeper here to work on the real...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:24 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,295
Posted By hisfac
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

I don't think throwing money at the problem is going to make it go away.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:18 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,298
Posted By hisfac
Re: Am I wrong to follow through?

Your wife knows you don't want her to get a tattoo, there is no sign that she wants one. She went to a convention and got a temporary tattoo and was messing with you.

How is this in any way...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:16 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,295
Posted By hisfac
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

Wow. I really need a vacation, what do you think about covering the first 4 days and I'll take care of the last 3?
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:13 PM
Replies: 147
Views: 4,491
Posted By hisfac
Re: Ready to Give up on her

You can't make her want to have sex with you and it's unreasonable to expect her to give it to you just because you want it. It would be like slow torture for her, even if you pick up the pace and...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 01:06 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,298
Posted By hisfac
Re: Am I wrong to follow through?

She did ask him what the consequences would be if she got a tatoo. He told her the intended punishment (which as suggested makes no sense even given another posters lame attempt to explain that since...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 12:58 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 2,298
Posted By hisfac
Re: Am I wrong to follow through?

Telling her if she gets a tattoo you'll get a separate checking account was over the top.

It's like an ultimatum, a command, a coercion, a manipulation.

The way to approach such a thing is to...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-05-2012, 12:51 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 3,225
Posted By hisfac
Re: What did you do with the wedding ring

It sounds to me like you haven't yet accepted the marriage is over.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 12:45 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 4,693
Posted By hisfac
Re: Wife suggested I start seeing other people

It can't be both.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 12:43 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,295
Posted By hisfac
Re: My husband is assaulting me and I dont know what to do...

Get to your local family court, file a restraining order, get him removed from your home based on the past abuse, and then followup with an emergency support petition.

Happens all the time.
...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 11:57 AM
Replies: 106
Views: 4,693
Posted By hisfac
Re: Wife suggested I start seeing other people

Do not let your wife see those tears or any other emotional weakness. You're in a war and you don't want the enemy to know you've only got a few rounds left in your pistol.

To her, your weakness...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 11:54 AM
Replies: 147
Views: 4,491
Posted By hisfac
Re: Ready to Give up on her

EMOTIONALLY not be there.

PHYSICALLY not be there

SEXUALLY not be there.

You'll figure it out.

Read my post above again, I edited it after you quoted it and there's one idea in there for...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-05-2012, 11:51 AM
Replies: 147
Views: 4,491
Posted By hisfac
Re: Ready to Give up on her

Interesting that you equate spending time with your child to be "helping her out".

You can certainly do those things with your child while at the same time maintaining the required emotional...
Forum: Life After Divorce 04-05-2012, 11:43 AM
Replies: 45
Views: 3,225
Posted By hisfac
Re: What did you do with the wedding ring

Perfect example of why it makes no sense to hold onto this stuff when you can get a few bucks by cashing them in.
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