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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-10-2012, 02:56 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,253
Posted By txhunter54
Re: How does a husband become more physically attractive for wife?

I'm still a work in progress. But, I've gotten in shape and continue to workout 5 days a week. Through that process, I haven't really gotten much in the way of a reaction from my spouse verbally. ...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-10-2012, 11:41 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,646
Posted By txhunter54
Change from flannel to sexy lingerie?

My wife is more comfortable with flannel pajamas. They do nothing for me at all and are really a negative. I've suggested buying her more sexy pajamas or lingerie. But, she apparently doesn't go...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-10-2012, 09:50 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 756
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Have Any Valentine's Day Plans?

Going out to dinner then coming back to the house for some wine and hopefully play time.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-08-2012, 10:13 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 998
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Low Testosterone - A potential explanation for my sexless marriage

I'm well aware of low T. What we don't know is how long he has been low T.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-08-2012, 09:35 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 998
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Low Testosterone - A potential explanation for my sexless marriage

BTW, he is still a virgin at age 51? How long have you been married?
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-08-2012, 09:34 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 998
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Low Testosterone - A potential explanation for my sexless marriage

I was diagnosed with low T and am on testosterone replacement therapy. It has worked wonders. It never affected my libido. But, it did affect my stamina, the size of my erection and my ability to...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-08-2012, 06:31 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,977
Posted By txhunter54
Re: How to address "Good Girls Don't" attitude?

Covertx,

No, no oral before marriage.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-06-2012, 10:34 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 993
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Talking with my wife about intimacy

I need to shake it up. Clearly, doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insane.

She is hanging on to some ideas about sex that are just not correct. But, are...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-06-2012, 06:50 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 993
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Talking with my wife about intimacy

A beginning. She thought things were getting better. i told her that they really weren't. She thought she was participating. We didn't get through my list of topics. Will continue through the...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-05-2012, 10:02 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 854
Posted By txhunter54
Re: How Much Longer Should I Wait?

Has he had his testosterone levels checked? He could be low T. That can be another cause of low libido. Is he overweight? That can also impact libido.

I am a type 2 diabetic, was overweight and...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-04-2012, 10:51 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,977
Posted By txhunter54
Re: How to address "Good Girls Don't" attitude?

Enchantment,

She has always refused to give me a bj. But, she used to enjoy me giving her oral. That changed for some reason after she had that female procedure. No idea what caused the change...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-04-2012, 07:07 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,977
Posted By txhunter54
Re: How to address "Good Girls Don't" attitude?

She is willing to work on some things. But, right now, oral is off the table. As before, she thinks things are better and i think they are not so good. I'm trying to get her to enjoy exploring me...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-04-2012, 05:37 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,977
Posted By txhunter54
How to address "Good Girls Don't" attitude?

Had a talk with my wife about a number of topics. One was her not wanting to give me oral sex and not wanting me to give her oral sex either. Regarding bj's, she said she was brought up that "good...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-04-2012, 07:37 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 993
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Talking with my wife about intimacy

We have talked in the past and she has given little feedback. Answers like "I don't know" from her are very frustrating.

I've given more complete background info in other threads. As many here...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-04-2012, 07:03 AM
Replies: 112
Views: 8,008
Posted By txhunter54
Re: do men have affiars because they are not getting enough sex?

For guys, sex is both an emotional and physical need. Guys need sex to feel connected emotionally to their partner. Without it, their emotional needs are not being met. When emotional needs are...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-04-2012, 07:00 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 993
Posted By txhunter54
Talking with my wife about intimacy

I've posted previous threads about the problems with my relationship with my wife.

I'm taking her out to lunch today to have a sit down discussion outside the home. Trying to figure out how to...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 02-02-2012, 06:50 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 519
Posted By txhunter54
Re: What is sex...

I could easily have written the same thing. You are definitely not alone. I'm fighting to figure out what the hell is going on with her. She just won't open up and tell me what is going on. I am...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 09-08-2011, 10:00 AM
Replies: 170
Views: 10,517
Posted By txhunter54
Re: do you think some women force a man to cheat

:iagree:

Neglecting needs and constant rejection cause a breeding ground for cheating. But, it is still the responsibility of the person being neglected and rejected to not cheat.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-08-2011, 09:32 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 5,076
Posted By txhunter54
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 09-08-2011, 09:30 AM
Replies: 126
Views: 7,149
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Woman's point of view needed

I already know that I need to find out her love language. Sorry to burst your bubble. All I was stating was the results of my needs assessment. If you really read my posts, you would understand...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-08-2011, 09:18 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,549
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Overcoming Rejection

Enchantment,

Examples of foreplay during the day would be helpful. My wife and I both work during the day.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-08-2011, 09:15 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 871
Posted By txhunter54
Re: intimacy issues...

If he can't communicate his issues with you, you are left wondering what is going on with him. You are left hanging with all the doubts, uncertainties, rejections, etc. If you keep trying to get...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-08-2011, 09:06 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 5,076
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Marriage/Happiness/Sex/Penis size/pre-marriage ???

You are focused on the little head and not using your big head! :D

Some guys are growers and some guys aren't. So, the guy who looks impressive while flaccid in the shower at the gym may be the...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 09-08-2011, 08:44 AM
Replies: 126
Views: 7,149
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Woman's point of view needed

No problem.

The difficulty we face is that our wives don't understand their love language either. They don't know how to express it. For example, my wife said last night "If you don't know...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 09-07-2011, 03:48 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,549
Posted By txhunter54
Re: Overcoming Rejection

I think I gave that book for her to read last year. Not sure where she put it. Need to hunt around for it.
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