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Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 09:28 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 2,274
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Could use advice on a strange situation at home

She's either projecting onto you her own feelings or she's using the other woman's interest as justification on why its ok for her to receive the attention from the turd.
Forum: Reconciliation Yesterday, 05:05 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 419
Posted By Shaggy
Re: And... She's gone

Controlling is what cheaters call spouses that c-block their freedom to conduct the affair.
Forum: Reconciliation Yesterday, 05:04 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 419
Posted By Shaggy
Re: And... She's gone

You do realize that she's having an affair with the guy friend right?

The night a couple before your B day, she was for sure having sex with him, as well as those other nights,

She did the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 04:57 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 402
Posted By Shaggy
Re: All the tell tale signs of cheating...but

I'd certainly be looking for an OM
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation Yesterday, 04:35 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 986
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Wife wants separation for neighbor.

Assume she's already been having sex with him, she wouldn't be doing this if she hadn't already taking him for a couple of spins in bed to try him out.

Dump her stuff in front of his door , remove...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 03:57 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,332
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Is she or isn't she?

Expect her to soon get a burner phone so you can't track her contact with him.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 03:56 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,332
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Is she or isn't she?

Yes she certainly is, and she's taking steps to hide it from you, so that tells you where her priorities and loyalties lie.

Him calling her honey is a very strong sign that its gone PA, you don't...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse Yesterday, 08:26 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 675
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Am I overreacting?

At 23 I did these things.

I even still do these things, much less often and never so that my kids can see and learn to do it from me, but I still do it.

She's being playful, that's a good thing...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 08:09 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,162
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Should I be concerned?

I think your doing pretty well at slowing contact down.

You are basically c-blocking him. While he continues to fish.

Were you the one to receive the card in the mail from him? I might have...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 06:26 PM
Replies: 2,020
Views: 125,230
Posted By Shaggy
Re: I am back and it gets worse

Never said otherwise. The haggis also fills your belly.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 05:33 PM
Replies: 365
Views: 24,455
Posted By Shaggy
Re: received some very disturbing news

Make her also read Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass

You start finding polygraphs using google.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 05:17 PM
Replies: 2,020
Views: 125,230
Posted By Shaggy
Re: I am back and it gets worse

It rains in Scottland. A lot, that's why they've got the whiskey.

Get your finances in great shape and only then consider it.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 01:54 PM
Replies: 339
Views: 16,869
Posted By Shaggy
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

Why is your employee involved in any of this?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 12:59 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,279
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Please help me I am goin Nuts!

I would leave and leave for good. Jane has clearly demonstrated his much you do not mean to her.

She's blatantly cheating on you, even going one date on Saturday, knowing you'd know.

Ask for...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 12:47 PM
Replies: 375
Views: 74,712
Posted By Shaggy
Re: How would you interpret this message

If she can go after half of what you've gained during these two years, can you go after part of the value of her law degree ?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 12:35 PM
Replies: 1,117
Views: 100,480
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

Watch your back at work and other places for a bit. The VP or others in this may decide you spilled the beans to the pres, and are why they are loosing their jobs.

The VP may try to pull...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-21-2013, 12:29 PM
Replies: 207
Views: 8,902
Posted By Shaggy
Re: married and met another man

Yes and no.

It actually does come down even for alcoholic to choose not to drink. There isn't a pill that cures either problem, only conscious choice.

Both are in recovery when they realize...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-21-2013, 12:23 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 330
Posted By Shaggy
Re: So confused. Not sure what to do

Answer this, the man that he has chosen to be. Would you want that for your daughter when she is older as the kind of man she would marry?

Fact is, he fathered your baby but he's never been her...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 12:18 PM
Replies: 339
Views: 16,869
Posted By Shaggy
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

She did it because she wanted too do it, and at the time that want was more important to her than the possibility of loosing you.

She did a quick risk assessment, the chance of you noticing , the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-21-2013, 11:58 AM
Replies: 101
Views: 2,274
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Could use advice on a strange situation at home

Advice: read Married Mans Sex Life Primer by Kay Athol, it will help sort out a lot of what you are seeing going on in you, your wife, and the other guy.


Don't let her putting down the other...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-21-2013, 11:25 AM
Replies: 207
Views: 8,902
Posted By Shaggy
Re: married and met another man

It's not wrong to look at something someone is doing that is morally wrong and to call it out as wrong.

There are things that are black and white - right and wrong - stealing, betrayal, and...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-21-2013, 11:15 AM
Replies: 207
Views: 8,902
Posted By Shaggy
Re: married and met another man

Candy seeking and getting help is good.

However it seems that WS like to clutter the discussion of cheating with tremendous amounts of irrelevant details , discussions, noise. A lot of people...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 09:55 AM
Replies: 339
Views: 16,869
Posted By Shaggy
Re: She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years

You are seeing that talk is cheap.

She's offered you lots of talk, but little action by her.

Cheat spouses often throw a lot of together time and maybe some sex to make hubby complacent and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-21-2013, 09:44 AM
Replies: 1,117
Views: 100,480
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

You want one of the Ms,if you can, that makes the other BMWs seem slow and weak.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-21-2013, 09:36 AM
Replies: 101
Views: 2,274
Posted By Shaggy
Re: Could use advice on a strange situation at home

Turn it around on him. Hit on his wife , while he's up on stage.
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