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Forum: General Relationship Discussion Yesterday, 08:10 PM
Replies: 69
Views: 1,432
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: SEX DRIVE : How do men and women compare...what's your take... your experience?

If it is really the same, I think we would have the same number of HD women on TAM ready to leave their LD husbands.
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Forum: Suggestion Box Yesterday, 11:24 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,870
Posted By SurpriseMyself
GC (a.k.a. The trough) must be ridiculed ad...

GC (a.k.a. The trough) must be ridiculed ad nauseum whenever it is suggested. Further, from the sneeze guards to the over cooked, over salted, bland mush they pass off as "food," it's very mention...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-22-2015, 01:35 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 852
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What are your boundaries in committed relationships/marriage?

I have a boundary with excessive porn. If you watch it for hours at a time, I think it is unhealthy.

As for opposite sex friends, it's fine as long as it's not an ex. No good can ever come from...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-22-2015, 09:32 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 4,828
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Average penis size revealed to be less than six inches

The goldilocks rule applies to me. I've been hurt when he's too big and feel awkward when it's too small. Never actually had sexual with one too small, but did perform oral once and it was...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-20-2015, 11:52 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,721
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Vagina size

I'm a woman, so I don't have first hand experience here, but I have heard that women who have a substantial thigh gap are not as tight.
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Forum: Suggestion Box 04-20-2015, 10:23 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 762
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Proposing a LD subsection in the SIM forum

As an admitted LD whose thread was locked due to one poster's bashing and anger, I know I won't go back on SIM until it's a safer place to be. I had put the basher on ignore, but others were still...
Forum: Suggestion Box 04-20-2015, 10:09 AM
Replies: 212
Views: 11,371
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: The New Banned Members Thread

I knew why I was banned and I earned it. I have since learned to not take the bait and not to let other people's anger or attitude get the best of me.

My banning was an important lesson, not in...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-20-2015, 09:52 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,050
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: I'm all sexed out. He isn't.

I think your H read the book called, "His Needs, His Needs" because that's all that seems to matter to him.

An hour a day of sex and no free time for you. You have kids, although you didn't say...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-20-2015, 09:20 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,316
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: wife doesn't trust me - have I wronged her too much?Should I give in to an ultima

Not doing anything for yourself all year except this one event, and then blowing it out once a year isn't a healthy way to maintain a sense of self. It sounds like your life is out of balance.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-20-2015, 07:03 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,316
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: wife doesn't trust me - have I wronged her too much?Should I give in to an ultima

The statement about giving up the last part of you is the biggest red flag I see.

Partying and strip clubs are the biggest part of you, or something you are loathe to give up, then you may not be...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-17-2015, 02:21 PM
Replies: 216
Views: 16,591
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: No Sex, No Affection, No Appreciation No Intimacy, No hope??

Haven't read through all the posts, so this certainly could have been said already but here goes:

Does you wife want a nice house, a new car, flowers, gifts, etc. or does she want a husband who...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-17-2015, 12:48 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 983
Posted By SurpriseMyself
I just need to say that from what I have read on...

I just need to say that from what I have read on this thread, I see someone who puts himself first. You go through the motions (requisite birthday party, requisite time together), but what I don't...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-17-2015, 12:08 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 983
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Amen! I remember my H saying he was too busy to...

Amen! I remember my H saying he was too busy to take the time to discuss us, even as I was telling him that we either fix our relationship or leave. But he took the time to watch the NCAA games,...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-17-2015, 10:27 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,830
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: If you're not saying "I Love You" within 6 months, move on...

That article hit the nail on the head for my situation. I now am on the process of MC, but it would take a counseling miracle as far as I am concerned. Just like the article says, I've suffered...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 04-09-2015, 08:43 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 635
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Extreamely confused desperate for advice!

Do you think he would do anything to hurt you? It scares me when I read about men like him. Would he hurt the girls? If you think might, I think you should seek advice from a counselor at a women's...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 04:47 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What HD men need to know about LD women

Then I'll just throw this out there that when I type LD, I think "learning disabled."

Maybe loving disabled?:D
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 04:42 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What HD men need to know about LD women

I will PM you a link to the online version if you want to know. It reveals where he and therefore I live, so I won't post on a regular thread.

UPDATE - your inbox is full. Let me know if you clear...
Forum: Suggestion Box 04-09-2015, 04:29 PM
Replies: 212
Views: 11,371
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: The New Banned Members Thread

I got called arrogant and narcissistic twice today by the same poster. I just put the guy on ignore. Such a handy little feature.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 04:14 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What HD men need to know about LD women

I guess it is presumptuous of me. Yet he asks me to stay, says that I haven't tried everything to fix us and shouldn't leave the relationship until I have.

Does that sound messed up to you?

I...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 04:04 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Then let me ask you this. My H is so...

Then let me ask you this. My H is so uncomfortable with emotional connection/intimacy that he has gone without his whole life. He is closed off and guarded.

Is he normal? Is this just the way he...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 04:00 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What HD men need to know about LD women

The "talk" is the starting point to get to lasting solutions. You can't reasonably expect someone who isn't interested in sex to hear you say, "hey! I want more sex! It's important to me!" and their...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 03:54 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What HD men need to know about LD women

If they don't have low T and they don't have emotional issues, then we are back to LD people being normal but selfish. Is that your view? That the relationship isn't to blame, hormones aren't to...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 03:50 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What HD men need to know about LD women

HD: "It would be really nice if we could be intimate more often".
LD: "But I've been really tired"
HD:"Sweetie - I'm not talking about today. I'm talking about our relationship. I want to discuss...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 03:29 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
The LD partner may acknowledge that their lack of...

The LD partner may acknowledge that their lack of interest in sex is an issue. They may refuse to see their doctor or go to therapy. Or they may go to therapy and just complain for an hour about...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-09-2015, 03:22 PM
Replies: 183
Views: 3,808
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What HD men need to know about LD women

I appreciate how difficult it is! I made that list by thinking about my failed requests to my H for emotional connection. He's the LD one there and I'm the HD one. It was easy to write up, as I have...
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